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What do you tell people?
 

TightbunsBigTits 43F
1518 posts
6/5/2007 9:18 pm

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7/3/2007 11:21 pm
What do you tell people?
When you meet someone off here and they end up meeting people that you know, how do you tell them you met?

Do you tell the truth?
Do you make up some hogwash story?
Do you say you've known the person forever, but hadn't seen each other in years?
Do you tell a half truth and explain where you literally "met" when you met up?

Please do tell



Gedalia3 60M
13613 posts
6/6/2007 2:01 am

 While I have met several I have never introduced them to friends, nor run into anyone, so not an issue for me up to now.

Come check out The Social Contract. A little brain food!!


Losing the world one nation at a time.

In an age of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act


eagle11469 54M

6/6/2007 4:56 am

 I've only met one person so far and they didn't met any of my friends. I guess I'd say we met online.


Jory72 52M
1420 posts
6/6/2007 8:02 am

 i say we met on-line, but i don't say here though. only my room-mate knows that i met them here.


GSV 60M

6/6/2007 9:02 am

 I believe in complete and total honesty. I am not into playing games and being truthful reaps benefits in the long run.

They don't have to believe you, but when they find out you were telling the truth all along, they can't say anything back.
Love, Light, Laughter, Leave a Legacy,

Greg


linda691000 68F

6/6/2007 9:46 am

 well the person im seeing now as iknow hasnt ment anyone i know but if worse came to worse i would have to say i would be truethful about it why lie you only get caught in your lie which only make things worse course thats just my views.


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/6/2007 4:23 pm
    Quoting  :
haha yeah it shall, but at least you are both using the internet as a way to say you met. I guess you can't really say it was any other way as you live in different countries!


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/6/2007 4:23 pm
    Quoting Gedalia3:
    While I have met several I have never introduced them to friends, nor run into anyone, so not an issue for me up to now.
Lucky you, I have only met one person and he met a good portion of my friends and my sister even!


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/6/2007 4:24 pm
    Quoting eagle11469:
    I've only met one person so far and they didn't met any of my friends. I guess I'd say we met online.
Just online? Or off here?


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/6/2007 4:25 pm
    Quoting Jory72:
    i say we met on-line, but i don't say here though. only my room-mate knows that i met them here.
Even my roomates aren't wise to what I do secretly in my room, haha and by that I mean come on this website.


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/6/2007 4:25 pm
    Quoting  :
Yeah half truths are good!


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/6/2007 4:26 pm
    Quoting GSV:
    I believe in complete and total honesty. I am not into playing games and being truthful reaps benefits in the long run.

    They don't have to believe you, but when they find out you were telling the truth all along, they can't say anything back.
Interesting, I just can't imagine telling some people that I met someone off here, but then I do know a lot of prudish people!


rm_jimis8 48M

6/6/2007 4:27 pm

 Ummm... you catch your breath, and tell them whatever you want to! If you ain't comfortable telli' it like it is.... tell it like it ain't!!! I went to a meet&greet at a bar in coquitlam (first and last m&g btw)! and all of the Discreet Gay Dating'rs were on the patio, behaving grandiosely, etc. I went inside the bar, met some chill people, with 2 (hot) single girls in their group..... went back to the patio, one of the girls came out, asked what I was doing... I told her straight out, what I was doing, how I knew eveyrone there, and so-on. Long story short, the M&G was a waste of time... but the cute girl from the bar took me home after asking 100 questions.... !!! So.. telling the truth ain't all bad!!!


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/6/2007 4:28 pm
    Quoting linda691000:
    well the person im seeing now as iknow hasnt ment anyone i know but if worse came to worse i would have to say i would be truethful about it why lie you only get caught in your lie which only make things worse course thats just my views.
Yeah the truth is best in most cases, but for this I think its easier to tell some people a half truth. But that is just me, and depedant on the person I guess.


rm_eagleeyes32 66M
1219 posts
6/6/2007 8:19 pm

 .. not half truths.. to be honest I don't ask real friends.. if they want to discuss it, great if not.. cool too.. I face up to we've both had lives.. judging isn't a very good for relationships.. anyways.. neither is jealousy Be Safe & Be Well, eagle
"A strong man carries a sword, a smart man carries a pen, a wise man carries them both. "


boomerang9902 45M

6/6/2007 8:51 pm

 I would tell the truth and let them know where I met them.


rollercoaster94 55M

6/6/2007 10:14 pm

 I have not met anyone from here yet, but I decided a while ago not to do things I'm ashamed of. When I meet people I may say things in conversation like, "I started looking on this site called Discreet Gay Dating, you should check out my profile and blog." "I like the food at Hooters." and "I don't usually wear clothes at home." The weird thing at first would be to have someone I know well come across my profile and have a membership here also. Then I thought it would very cool because we would have something in common.


Extramist 66M
14079 posts
6/6/2007 10:26 pm

 I would tell a half-truth: I would say that I met the person online but would not tell them which site. I did once meet a person through Discreet Gay Dating and I did tell friends where I met her through and it definitely colored their ideas about her without really getting to know her. Since then, I have used the half-truth concept for the others I have met through Discreet Gay Dating.
AKA The Clit Whisperer.


carebear929 53M

6/7/2007 12:59 am

 i was talking to my one friend about that or if she ran into my daughter and me somewhere , how we would act. we laughed and said probably act like we were old school friends.


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/7/2007 1:13 am
    Quoting rm_jimis8:
    Ummm... you catch your breath, and tell them whatever you want to! If you ain't comfortable telli' it like it is.... tell it like it ain't!!! I went to a meet&greet at a bar in coquitlam (first and last m&g btw)! and all of the Discreet Gay Dating'rs were on the patio, behaving grandiosely, etc. I went inside the bar, met some chill people, with 2 (hot) single girls in their group..... went back to the patio, one of the girls came out, asked what I was doing... I told her straight out, what I was doing, how I knew eveyrone there, and so-on. Long story short, the M&G was a waste of time... but the cute girl from the bar took me home after asking 100 questions.... !!! So.. telling the truth ain't all bad!!!
hehe well glad that worked out for you and thankyou for sharing that story. I have often wondered about meet and greets, I am not so sure that I would enjoy them myself. I remember doing them back in the bbs days and I just kinda always sat there


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/7/2007 1:14 am
    Quoting rm_eagleeyes32:
    .. not half truths.. to be honest I don't ask real friends.. if they want to discuss it, great if not.. cool too.. I face up to we've both had lives.. judging isn't a very good for relationships.. anyways.. neither is jealousy Be Safe & Be Well, eagle
True, judging isn't a very good thing, but we all do it whether we realize it or not.


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/7/2007 1:16 am
    Quoting boomerang9902:
    I would tell the truth and let them know where I met them.
Very good of you to tell the truth. Would you do that with everyone though? I am just one curious monkey aren't I? hehe


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/7/2007 1:21 am
    Quoting  :
Ah that is a good one, now if only I knew what travelling was hehe


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/7/2007 1:23 am
    Quoting rollercoaster94:
    I have not met anyone from here yet, but I decided a while ago not to do things I'm ashamed of. When I meet people I may say things in conversation like, "I started looking on this site called Discreet Gay Dating, you should check out my profile and blog." "I like the food at Hooters." and "I don't usually wear clothes at home." The weird thing at first would be to have someone I know well come across my profile and have a membership here also. Then I thought it would very cool because we would have something in common.
heh yeah I have actually found A LOT of people on here I already know it is actually quite staggering how many people on here I have known for various different reasons.


TightbunsBigTits 43F
3257 posts
6/7/2007 1:30 am
    Quoting carebear929:
    i was talking to my one friend about that or if she ran into my daughter and me somewhere , how we would act. we laughed and said probably act like we were old school friends.
Yes, glad someone else brought up family, I can't imagine if for some reason they met my parents hey you never know my parents tend to show up at weird times, and they sure do like to pester me with questions


hotdodo2 48M
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6/7/2007 4:56 am

 The half truth is much better... because sometimes people have the feeling that people on this site cannot hook up in real life... which of course it complete nonsense.. i mean.. maybe

lol

Cheers


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