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The Grieving Process  

roxy54sexy 61F
4062 posts
2/27/2009 8:56 pm

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The Grieving Process


I hate to sound depressing in my blog here since my mother has passed away. But I think I need to write my thoughts down. It will be part of the healing process. I spend sometime with someone this week. He has helped me out tremendously. I thank him for it. Now I am at home alone here. I was crying again here just a bit ago because I am alone again. But hopefully soon I will have not that feeling anymore. Things will take time here to adjust and organized my thinking. Now I will have to think of the future here on myself. Hopefully things will be better soon again. I have let alot of things at a stand still but now should try to work on them. Take things one day at a time here. I like to see what will happen and see where it goes from here? I had done some things this last week that made me felt somewhat in control of my mother at least. I signed off her cremation and helped out choosing a stone. I will be doing a obiturary soon. There has been a public notice of my mother's passing in the local newspapers here. I cannot tell her full name but the first name is Edna M. She will be buried with my dad at a local cemetary that is close by to me. There will be a memorial service in April at the grave site. I will announce it when it gets closer here. The reason it will be taking so long because of relatives want to come to the service. That is all for now hopefully will be blogging again more soon. I will get caught up or at least will be doing my emails shortly again. Be back real soon here.

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rm_mogen2 87M
2318 posts
3/4/2009 3:32 pm

Allow all the time you need to grieve. It may come at odd moments even as you move on with other parts of your life. it is good that you talk about it.


roxy54sexy replies on 3/8/2009 12:11 pm:
Hello, yes I will alllow sometime to grieve here for sure. If I think about it will come at me already experienced it. Yes it is always good that you talk about it here. Thanks for posting.

keitha777 66M
364 posts
3/1/2009 5:10 pm

If I was next to you I would give you the biggest hug and let you know everything will be okay. Always remember the fond memories that you had of her and if anytime you would like to chat you know where I am at on this site. I have big ears and always listen to people in need . Take care


roxy54sexy replies on 3/8/2009 12:08 pm:
Hello, I wish you were next me to as well here. Yes always need hungs here. I hope everything will be ok here. Never fear always will remember the fond memories. Sure love to chat with you sometime and glad you love to listen. Thanks for posting.

supermanprime1 58M
33 posts
3/1/2009 2:13 pm

sorry 4 your loss. there are tough times ahead. i lost my fiance 2 years ago feb 27th. the hard days are mothers day, birthdays, thanksgiving, xmas and of course the anniversary of our beloveds' death. it gets easier but never really goes away. my soon to be seven year old daughter calls my mommy sometimes and it is ok with me. wish you all the strength in the world to get through this.


roxy54sexy replies on 3/7/2009 8:54 pm:
Hello, thanks for the sympathy here. Yes there will be tough times indeed. Sorry for your loss of your fiancee. Yes holidays are most difficult here. I guess your daughter is trying to have two parents in one here at this time of her life. Yes we need strength to get through this but we have to keep busy and active too. Thanks for posting.

SverigesAngel 60F
17328 posts
2/28/2009 11:54 am

No worries sweetie.... Take time to heal! I'm not blogging much myself at the moment, I'm just kinda "blogged-out", but I will be here when you feel like coming around again... BIG HUGS!


roxy54sexy replies on 3/7/2009 8:18 pm:
Hello, yes know you have not been feeling well here yourself. I am getting kind of the burnt out side need refreshing here for sure. Yes good love to visit your blog as you know here. Glad you will be coming around again. Thanks for posting.

tazzerman2000 66M
18912 posts
2/28/2009 7:37 am

Time does heal the hurt somewhat. You're doing the right things thought. Stay busy, grieve when you need to, it's all part of the so called process. My heart goes out to you.. -tm

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roxy54sexy replies on 3/7/2009 8:15 pm:
Hello, yes time does take the hurt away for sure. Glad you think I am doing the right thing here. Yes staying busy here and grieve when I need too. Yes it is the so called process. I am glad your heart goes out to me. I appreciate it. Thanks for posting.

welshdragon10 67M
10266 posts
2/28/2009 1:43 am

roxy you take all the time you need
i have walked in your shoes and know that at this time things are not easy
but once the internment has taken place you will see that your life will go on


ALWAYS LOOK FORWARD
THE PAST WE CANNOT CHANGE
BUT THE FUTURE IS OUR,S TO WRITE





roxy54sexy replies on 3/7/2009 7:49 pm:
Hello, yes taking the time here for sure. You know the feeling too here it is not easy. Yes once the interment life will go on here. But still will not be easy after that still grieving for my dad here after five years off and on. Thanks for posting.

Extramist 66M
14079 posts
2/27/2009 10:22 pm

It is not an easy process adjusting to the loss of a loved one. Know that you have our sympathy and that you should take as long as you need to grieve.

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roxy54sexy replies on 3/7/2009 7:46 pm:
Hello, no it is not a easy process here to adusting to my loss of my mother here. Yes taking time here in responding. Yes need sometime to grieve here. Thanks for posting.

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