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WITH BINOCULARS WE CAN SEE YOU This was the anonymous note put through my door last weekend. As I am a woman living alone with my I consider this as a threatening thing. I informed the police so they had it on record in case of repercussions. I shall be cautiously and politely approaching a couple of neighbours who live in direct line of my house. I live in the middle of the countryside in a group of 6 houses. Beyond these few houses the binoculars would have to be pretty strong to see me in my home. I always close my curtains at dusk before night. I didnt wish the police to investigate it because of the inevitable retaliation that it would provoke. I have been harassed over a period of years by neighbours. I have been called names, labelled, insulted and verbally abused and my property damaged by them because I stood up for myself and my property over various issues as indeed any male would have done. The absence of a male resident has proven to be a serious problem. You have no idea how much of a protection males give you and your family until you are fronting a family alone as a woman. This is a very male dominated rural outback type situation here. The men think they can get away with whatever they please. The attitudes are very closed, small and parochial here. Everything is noted...if you dont mow your lawn the required number of times... etc.etc.etc. If you dont maintain your property to the required standards...If you dont have the material assets considered necessary...If you dont do what they consider as "normal"...I live next door to Hyacinth Bouquet! Its horrendous! Its the sort of place where if they saw you walking around your garden with a glass of wine in your hand you could be labelled an alcoholic! Im blogging about this cos I believe silence about issues like this just allows bullies to get away with it...wherever they exist. The extent of bullying in our society relies on silence and intimidation of the bullied. No sooner had I sorted out the continual bullying of my for BEING A REDHEAD on the bus he takes to school each day then this note arrived through my door. I now feel under scrutiny by unknown and malicious persons within my own house. Not a nice feeling. As I have very few men visit from the site (see my blog Fuckbuddy Wanted) I cant think that has caused this current situation. But last year several black men (!!!!!!!) did come to my house and no doubt the cars outside my house would have been noted and the fact the men were black would have caused the neighbours some problems. Despite us all being very pc about race in this country today, I, being white and middleclass know precisely how deep racism in this country has been in the latter half of the 20th century and still is amongst certain classes and types of people...I live in a completely white area. A series of different men would also cause them just as much a problem. I am very discrete in what I do and usually go out to London now. I do dress up and dance in what I thought was the privacy of my own home in outfits I go to swinging venues in. It could be time to get some net curtains! Notes from the countryside...if you are thinking of moving to it bear in mind its a very very old fashioned and cripplingly conservative place and all the hedges have eyes and ears!! Its rural bliss except for the attitudes... Maybe I need to hold a Black n White swingers party with a big marquee in my field this summer! YESSSSSSSSSSS! |
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Pure and utter ignorant cowards.
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Hi Blkguy thanks for your support. xx Unfortunately this was just the beginning of the aggressive actions Im experiencing from my neighbours and its taking on a malicious nature. I am not blogging at present because of the situation that im being dragged into.
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5/9/2009 6:55 pm |
Oh my that is pathetic. I'm sorry to hear that. I'd come bash their heads in if I could. Get in touch with me. I never turn down an offer from a Hot Female 
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Things have taken a turn for the worse this weekend someone poured paint stripper all over my car when it was parked just a few feet outside my front door on my drive. I have notified the police but they take ages to arrive and noone has come to investigate it yet. It will cost me at least £175 as the excess on my insurance policy for malicious damage and then I have to install a video camera to deter further assaults. These type of things shock me and to experience it personally is bewildering and frightening...you never know what else may happen next? I wonder why people cant accept others and live with differences these days?
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I am certainly not surprised with their way of thinking and their terrible actions. I am sure hardly anyone in your village has ventured more than 5 miles out of the village to experience ways in which other people live and to learn from other cultures. Hopefully it will all come to and end soon when you install cctv and catch the culprits.
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Blkguy I think some of them must commute to London! But I think attitudes to other people in rural areas can be somewhat restricted and intolerant of differences amongst people and they can set themselves up as custodians of their environment and pass judgements on others...I probably am living in the wrong place for a single parent but circumstances meant I have a house in a fabulous rural setting with beautiful uninterrupted views and access to good schools for my son so we stayed here... I was sitting the other weekend in the very untidy back yard of a friends house in a bath robe at 3pm in the afternoon incidentally in the very road my father grew up in Catford SE6...where I was born...and that weekend I saw his family home for the first time ever. Sitting in the yard, overlooked by the south Indian restaurant workers across the road, a dozen windows of houses surrounding overlooking the garden and I was struck how absolutely noone would take any notice or even careless at us sitting there...it would mean nothing to anyone...and that is freedom.
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It is a real shame that in 2009, we still have people with these prejudgemental and negative views. You live in a place where it reminds me of stories my Nana used to tell me. She was white and married a my grandfather who was Nigerian in the 1940s in Camden Town. She told me once how an American G.I spat in the face of my Nana who was carrying my mum in her arms at the time. My Nana told my grandfather. He then rounded up a few of his fellow Nigerian student friends and caught sight of the G.I. They gave chase with the G.I running down the escalator of the tube in Camden and in to the tunnel. Fortunately for him, he got away. Yes you live in a beautiful area, just a pity about the people who live in it.
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M thankyou for your friendship...I appreciate it xxxx
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