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Blogs > rm_xiara74 > The world according to Xiara

Stimulation  

rm_xiara74 50F
48 posts
9/4/2008 9:25 am
Stimulation

Someone suggested, in response to my last post, that women blog because they need mental stimulation.

Recently, I found myself mentally stimulated through a chat I was having with a fellow AFFer.

The brain is such an important errogenous zone for me, that in a totally non-sexual conversation, I became extremely aroused, and so did he.

It then dawned on me that, despite having had some fascinating meets through Discreet Gay Dating, the element that always seemed to be a missing was mental stimulation.

And it's not the same as emotional stimulation. You can have that without any of the intellectual stimulation I mean.

Oh well . . .

X

the_biker_badit 38M

9/4/2008 12:31 pm

 I a think you rite.


Bigmax1975 48M

9/5/2008 4:39 am

 if women blogg because they 'need mental stimulation', why do men blogg? I haven't looked on this site, but, if it is true that there are less bloggs by men about sexual things on this site, I doubt whether it's true that men blogg less in general.... they simply blogg about other things... travel, photography, litearture, cinema, and (yawn) football. So... if both men and women blogg (er... yes they do....) is it true that only women blogg because they require mental stimulation? (I suggest... no...)


rm_xiara74 50F
46 posts
9/5/2008 9:53 am

 What this site shows is that for women mental stimulation goes along with the sexual stimulation; men don't. Hence why they'll blog about bikes and travel and cars and news . . . but not so much here.

Here they just need the visual stimulation.


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