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Blogs > rm_marisaishot > To be Purrfect

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rm_marisaishot 41F
102 posts
5/8/2009 5:26 pm
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So my colleague left for a holiday today and probably won't be back for an extended period for a while. This means I don't have somebody nagging my ass all day about how ugly/unworthy I am. Yayyyyyyy. For somebody like her, she sure has a lot to say about me (But no, she can blame her unattractiveness on the fact that she has an equally unattractive boyfriend and her career path) I know I should probably miss her, but her bitchy-ex-best-friend attitude that she always has will keep me from that for quite a while. Nobody to judge me, bitch at me, remind me that I'm "fat", "ugly", and nobody to think she's better than me in every way possible (It makes my blood boil, but the hilarity in it all is how absolutely untrue that is)

Ah, how I envy normal people with their normal working relationships. I'll be waiting for the next 1-2-1 that glorious day that I can finally get this fucking stupidness out in the open.

Also, back to a previous post about some of the stupid things that this ladies say what's with all you stupid talk?

"You're so sexy!!"
"not as sexy as u!"
"lies! ur soo hot ♥♥♥"

Shut the fuck up. We all know you both think you're better than the other party, and you're both just fishing for compliments.

You worthless shits. Dumbasses.

This place is going to kill me

rm_dirtymonkey0 51M
32 posts
5/9/2009 4:51 pm

 I think perhaps "normal" working relationships are often the result of years of developing sufficiently thick skin not to let too much of their environment in or being so used to the routine it doesn't affect them anymore. Either way is quite sad.

I had a run-in with a colleague, which was fine until she became my boss! That led to a lot of shit for a long time... but eventually hostility became indifference and now we get on well enough... Hmm, not very inspiring!

As to where the fuck this bitch gets off telling you you're fat & ugly... you know it's not true, hundreds of guy on here don't think it's true. If she's so up her own arse she thinks she's better than you, that's her stupid, bubble-world opinion, and only she can change it. You can try to be "assertive": refuse to sink to her level, stay "adult" and discuss the issue dispassionately, but it's very hard to cut off such strong emotions. Start by reminding yourself you have nothing to prove to her! Live your life, stay beautiful... and if it's the place that's going to kill you (& not just her), do something about looking for another job!

All the best, whatever you decide!


asianlondoner1 54M
3 posts
5/11/2009 12:19 pm

 Who needs friends that say nasty things about you eh? Screw em I say! Why does your friend call you ugly and unworthy? I'm surprised you call her a friend at all!


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