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Just me needing to bitch!!! I'm sorry for this post. I really have no one to talk to about all this. If I tell my mom these things she gets upset and then nags me about getting out of here (which I am doing!). I can't tell my because they don't need to hear this crap and they need to see me as stable and strong, not emotional and weak. I feel like I have to give some back story because otherwise whoever does read this will be totally lost as to what the fuck I'm talking about. Okay so first, I left my second husband because the law caught up with him on some things he did before we met. When I left him I had been a stay at home mom for a couple of years when we were living in IN. Now I have to say, I did not have time to prepare to leave him, at first he kept saying his being arrested was all a big mistake and he would sort it out quickly. Well with the threat of utilies about to be shut off I moved back to MD until he sorted his problems out. We ended up losing our house, 2 cars repo'ed, etc. I moved back in with my parents, but they got into a senior apartment. My and I had no where to go. So my best friend of 20+ years offered to let us come stay with her in exchange for me watching her pre-school aged , cleaning and cooking. I didn't have to pay any rent. I was saving her money on care, plus I was paying for almost all the food in the house with food stamps. So it seemed a fair enough trade. The plan was for me to get a job once her youngest was old enough to be in school full time. Well to make that long story short, she is now losing her house because she is a compulsive spender and can't pay the bills before she buys books, DVDs, starbucks coffee several times a day and gets her nails, toes and eyebrows done all the time! What person in their right mind buys a new toy or outfit for their every week when they can't afford to pay the electric bill??? Because of all that, my and I were going to be homeless again, but I found a nice lady willing to let us live in her house really cheap. She has MS and will need a little help from me, but I am free to try to find a full time job. It seems really great! Wish us luck! So back to why I'm bitching. Well my roommate is a lazy bitch! She NEVER cleaned her house before I got here. Never used a vacuum cleaner. Never wiped off the bathroom sink or cleaned the toilet. There was caked on food on the kitchen counter, etc. And she's a pack rat. Maybe even a hoarder. She won't let me touch her stuff either. She has piles of stuff everywhere! She never makes her clean their rooms either. There are piles of dirty clothes and towels in her 's room. Both her (9 and 4 when we moved in) are bed wetters. She was too lazy to change their sheets and was making them sleep in it!!!! I took charge of her pre-schooler when I got here and started stripping her bed every morning. And my friend would get really upset because she had to wash her sheets every night. So she is now making her wear pull ups. But her is still wetting the bed and she only washes his sheets on the weekend! IF she has time between all the partying she does to actually do any laundry!!!! This has been going on a long time. What has me really riled up tonight is that she is packing for her move. And she moved a bunch of stuff around in her bedroom so someone could take a chest of drawers that she was selling. Well she ended up putting everything on her bed instead of just moving it out of the way. And they piled her 's bed with stuff while they were packing in their earlier. So now everyone in the house has to go to bed at 8pm because she and her are going to sleep in the living room! Bedtime for the older is 9 and 9:30/10!!! And we all have to fucking tip toe around all night cause she was too lazy to take the stuff back off her bed! And they came to get the chest of drawers yesterday around 2pm!!!!! So she has had this time to move that crap off the bed but hasn't! And now everyone else is inconvenienced. Ugh, I know it's not really that big of a deal, but with everything that has been going on since we moved in here it's like the straw that broke the camel's back! Anyway, again sorry for the rant. I really needed to get that off my chest. Ninja Bug Killer!! This has been another public blonde moment brought to you by dragoness1727! |
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Nope totally understandable. It sounds like she is just using you. I had an aunt who lived like that. She would never through stuff away. Then when she came down with cancer the family stepped in and cleaned the house that the husband and 2 kids wouldn't. We even got yelled at to not through stuff away. Well guess what the items went in the trash. I feel for your situation. I hope you will find somewere to live and be able to take care of your kids. I give you permission to pimp my blog. Come over to my little slice of blogland.
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We found a nice lady with MS that is letting us move into her house. She has 2 bedrooms for us and we will have our own bathroom. I will be doing the cooking and cleaning still(which I do not mind). She needs some help from me in the morning and at night, but I will be free to look for a full time job. She is only charging us $250 a month. My current roommate is still sleeping in the living room, but at least she cleaned off her daughter's bed. My roommate goes to bed about the same time as the kids do and she gets up early every morning for work, so it's not as bad. I'm a night owl, so I still have to tip toe around all night, but I don't mind the inconvenience to myself. She is taking off tomorrow to pack/move, and I am hoping she will be moved out by Sunday. She is keeping the utilities on for us til the end of the month. Our new place is being painted and carpetted, so isn't ready just yet. I can't wait for my roommate to move out so I can finally fully clean this place and don't have to deal with her and her obnoxious kids for a little while!! Her daughter is a spoiled, rotten brat. She lets her get away with murder. I'll be so glad to be away from them!! Maybe once we don't live together anymore I'll actually like her as a friend again. Right now I am just so mad at her. Ninja Bug Killer!! This has been another public blonde moment brought to you by dragoness1727!
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6/17/2010 6:13 am |
Phew,looks like you really are in a whole lot of mess. Some people are disgusting and your current roommate is one. Just hang on in there, things will work out for you, you will be okay. I'm sure you'd get a decent job soon and get your life back on track. Cheers ! Grubozozoa
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Thanks  Ninja Bug Killer!! This has been another public blonde moment brought to you by dragoness1727!
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Thanks for your kind words! Yeah it's tough to live with her and not bitch her out about ALOT of her mothering techniques/habits/inadequacies!!! Unfortunately from seeing her mother's house I believe she learned alot of her habits from her mom.  So sad! I feel so sorry for her kids! Ninja Bug Killer!! This has been another public blonde moment brought to you by dragoness1727!
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