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The conversation goes out of control...  

dragoness1727 53F  
49 posts
5/29/2012 10:10 pm
The conversation goes out of control...

I have a really hard time taking charge in a conversation and not letting it go where I am not ready for it to go! At least, not too early.

If I've had a conversation like that with someone, where it's gone way too far too early, is there a chance the situation is redeemable or is it a lost cause?

If I give up too much in the first few conversations is there a chance the guy will ever take it seriously or just expect it always to go that direction?

I think I am too much of a pushover. And then I end up not wanting to talk to that person again. After I feel pissed that though I said I didn't want things to go that way too early the guy seems to push and push and doesn't listen. Seems like they never will allow me that respect. And don't care about what my situation is at the time. It seems really selfish and guys can be so pushy!

I can't even tell you how many times it's come to cyber sex, but I'm not even asked if I want to participate! They just seem to start yanking on it and trying to get me to talk dirty! Ugh
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dragoness1727 53F  
101 posts
6/3/2012 10:55 am

 You need to have conversation first with someone to determine what type of person they are.

There are some you just know right off the bat, like my other blog post from today. Guys who ask "what's your number?" "where do you live?" or "will you come blow me?" in the first email to me of course don't even get a response!

Finding someone that is actually looking to get to know someone first is extremely rare. That is what I'm trying to express with my frustrated blog posts.
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9Mykl69 54M
141 posts
11/7/2017 6:23 pm

 I think it's a good idea to start with ground rules. I have some I've established for myself, and I share them before we get too far into chat. I let the other person know what I'm interested in doing (casual/conversational, passionate, naughty, whatever) so they know what to expect from me. I also ask what they're interested in so that I can engage in a conversation...not a self-serving monologue.
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