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Blogs > Ready_in_Folsom > Thoughts of a frustrated hubby

Just so......can't even describe it!  

Ready_in_Folsom 46M
13 posts
7/30/2012 9:37 am
Just so......can't even describe it!

Here we are again, broken promises of sexual favors from the wife. Does she not get it? She just likes to tease me now with the word "MAYBE". Then when the opportunity arises for MAYBE to happen, MAYBE becomes NO. If I hear MAYBE again I plan on screaming out the door! Just say no and let me be disappointed, but don't say MAYBE in a seductive playful tone then crush me later!

Then to top it off, bitch about perceived flirting, I did not think I was, with the babysitter! All because she knows she is doing NOTHING for me in the bedroom, she gets super jealous of EVERYTHING. I can only chase her so much.

Maybe that is my mistake. For me, being chased and desired makes me feel sexy, puts me into the mood, lol, easy for us guys. But for some reason chasing her and telling her how much I want her, does nothing. And watch out if I tell her my inner desires for raw passionate sex, how I want to go down on her for hours, how I want sex to be a sweaty fun mess.

All the fun we use to have together and now it is taboo to her. So FRUSTRATING!

gottaring 52F
15850 posts
7/30/2012 12:24 pm

 Ah yes, the 'I don't want you but I don't want you wanting anyone else' conundrum. I know it well. Hubby doesn't get jealous, really. He's more apathetic and doesn't give a rat's patootie what I do. I'm not sure which way is better, for surely if he got even a little jealous I'd know he CARED.

He doesn't tease me like your wife teases you (btw, does she do this on purpose, or does she have good intentions and no follow-through?). Instead, we'll have a night of mediocre heavy petting after which he says he feels his mojo returning. Within three days, we're back to the same old-same old.

You and I need to have a beer sometime, lol. Lord knows we'd never run out of conversation!
When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


Ready_in_Folsom 46M
11 posts
2/8/2015 10:52 am

 So here we are again. Even after a stint of therapy I ASKED FOR, and she still does not get it! Even therapist told her she was in wrong. Yet nothing changes. I do not get it. Maybe I don;t get women in general, I dont know. Most women I have dated are hot and ready during the dating phase, but once the relationship is established, it goes away. First wife same shit. But that marriage was so fast there was no foundation, no kids, and super young. I work 70 hours a week, deal with the kids, cook, clean a small amount, and yet am ready to go at all times. I am tired of hearing how tired she is. How long her day was. Tired of getting shit because I am at work , the type of shit reserved for guys out drinking with buds and not being home. All I hear is BS from her, and now she wants to spend a ridiculous sum of money to get away for a weekend and connect. WHY? I want to connect HERE, NOW. And once we have it, fine, lets go spend a FUN weekend together. I just do not see the point. We tried this more than once, have sex right when we walk in door, MAYBE once more in the weekend, and then back to BS. Just so annoyed now adays.


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