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Poly Time  

2forfunNgames09 52M/50F
49 posts
10/16/2012 1:34 pm
Poly Time

This morning I was chatting with a good friend (who knows all about our lifestyle & our polyamorous relationship.) She was inviting us over for dinner. Which brought up an interesting set of questions; “Who are you inviting over?” “Just the adults? All 3 adults or only Hubby & I?” “Everyone?” It was an interesting conversation. When you invite ALL of us, you are inviting 10 people. That can be a HUGE burden. (Hubby & I have 4 , & the Boyfriend has 3 .)

We do not live together with my boyfriend, but most all of our weekends are spent with him. Time Management when in a Poly relationship can be very exhausting to say the least. I have a job, hubby has a job & the boyfriend has a job. Plus we have a family & he has a family. He shares custody with his ex wife & so there is that to factor in too. For now we have found a pretty good time management system. The boyfriend spends his week at home with his & we (Hubby and I ) spend our week at home together with our . On weekends he comes to our house. Sometimes he is with his , sometimes he isn’t. They are always welcome at our house & our get along well together.

We seem to be in a sort of “inclusive” form of Polyamory, one that sees all the relationships as interconnected, and that seeks to build relationships which are mutually compatible and supporting. It means that we can spend time together, and the hubby & the boyfriend don't view each other as competition. It also means everyone involved feels comfortable with everyone else involved, and tend to be aware of the effects of each of their relationships on all the others. I am lucky in that my hubby & my boyfriend are very in sync with each other. They are friends, not just my separate lovers. They like to spend time together. My favorite moments are spent when all 3 of us are together…doing whatever we find fun. I love the fact that I can spend time with both of them, without them feeling the need to compete.

I truly get the best of both worlds, I get my weeks spent with my traditional family & the weekends spent with my “extended” family.

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crzybg 48F

10/16/2012 6:54 pm

 i am glad that you have found the happiness that you deserve in both your traditional family and extended family


2forfunNgames09 52M/50F
51 posts
10/16/2012 11:01 pm
    Quoting crzybg:
    i am glad that you have found the happiness that you deserve in both your traditional family and extended family
Thank you so much. We are very happy.
Hated by many, Wanted by plenty, Disliked by some, Confronted by none.

Keep current on my blog 2forfunngames09

To see where we spend our party times check out MyFriendsPlace


2forfunNgames09 52M/50F
51 posts
10/16/2012 11:02 pm
    Quoting  :
It is wonderful, its a tightrope walk some days. But well worth it.
Hated by many, Wanted by plenty, Disliked by some, Confronted by none.

Keep current on my blog 2forfunngames09

To see where we spend our party times check out MyFriendsPlace


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