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Friends, Acquaintances , and Passersby
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Friends, Acquaintances , and Passersby Friends To my way of thinking a friend is someone you not only share life with but someone you can lay down your shield and allow yourself to be open with them. They all most always have your best interest at hart, as should you for them. friends accept each other for who they are with no pretense, no expatiation. It's not that you don't see the short comings in each other. It is that they are not that important. If it holds true and I believe it does that you have a relationship with everybody you meet. It is a mater of how much of your time and self you are willing to invest in each one. So whats the different between a friend and a good friend? Time, time spent learning to trust each other. Opening your hart with each other. Enjoy the presence of each other. Building respect for each other. Learning what makes the other tick. Both pulling the little red wagon in the same direction. Even if only for a short distance. Being in tune with each other to the point of finishing each others sentences, or better yet knowing when to be silent. Sensing the hart beat of the other. Those are some of the good points of a good friend. A good example from chemistry is bonding molecules and the attraction they have for each other. The heat that the two or more generates either bonds them inseparable, or bonding gives off a different charge, or at a certain temperature they separate. Friends are not collectables. There a cherished treasure and should be treated as such. I for one do intend as far as possible in establishing meaningful communication and personal interaction with every single one. Of the friends I know I have grown in so many ways and my hart and soul rejoice in their being. They have enriched my life in countless ways and I hope I have had the same effect on them. It is my sincere wish to meet with each and every one of them with in the year, If it is humanly possible. Acquaintances An acquaintance is some one you run into every now and then. You are attracted to one an another when you are close to each other. You attach but don't really permanently bond. When you are with each other the sparks fly but both want their independence and revolve in separate spheres of existence that come in contact every now and then. Most casual dating is an acquaintance that may develop into friendship. Acquaintance is that exploratory state between two beings as they grow in knowledge of each other. That can and often do develop into friendships. Sometimes these encounters are so positive that we transpose friendship over acquaintance. I had a friend/acquaintance that would come into my life every six to nine months bringing joy, excitement, light, fiery heat. She would brighten up the darkest of days and never a bad feeling could you have. Like a comet traveling through the universe all fiery and bright but passes only once in a while. Then she would leave for parts unknown and darkness fell upon my hart. Passers-by Passers-by are the people on the street you say good mooring/day too. You meet them at parties, concerts, public functions. You invest little time with them other than the occasional small talk, en passe' as would say the French. As we travel this journey called life it is some of the chance meetings we have en passe' that become some of the best memories of our souls. Passers-by are some of the games of chance in the casino of the universe. Passing some one and then turning around three or four step passed them and saying; Excuse me.... Some times offer up exceptional opportunities to enrich our lives and sprits. Most times we are fearful of embarrassment or fear of being hurt to do so. It is a mater of tuning into your intuition; Quick and ready insight. Not always easy to do. |
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