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Journey... People are at different points in their journeys. We all have intellectual, emotional, and spiritual development. The development within all of these is going to be perverted and become immature for anyone raised in modern society. The dumbing down of our school systems and people still not graduated or getting a GED is undeniable evidence of Intellectual development gone awry. However, our emotional and spiritual development are not valued the same way as it was by civilizations of old. People cited "progress" as a way to end human suffering, to prevent families from dying of starvation, of hypothermia, etc. In a day where every human can be clothed, fed, and sheltered (physically) the emotional and spiritual development of most seem to be infected by a cancer that western medicine could never arrest. Just as you have indicated that speaking something to others gives it power.. a power that motivates you to eventually do what you are "putting off 'till another day" those things you need/want to do, there so to is the status of our emotional and spiritual itineraries. I will never truly love another until I learn to love myself. Unfortunately there no longer seem to be those qualified to teach, nor any establishment that offers the course in.... Love. I suspect that is one of the reasons we are here.... as spiritual beings have a human experience. The process of transitioning from mere existing (yes, hell is here on earth) to living is one of tremendous growth emotionally and spiritually. Just as it gets harder for someone to get their GED the longer they procrastinate it after not completing HS, so to is it more difficult to get ourselves " back on track" heading towards "living". Fortunately, there is a great motivator for such growth. That motivator is pain. Once we experience enough pain and can no longer find refuge in the methods and people who helped/allowed us to either suppress or ignore that pain, then will a person make those changes in their life of greatest value and importance. That occurs by focusing our attention inward instead of outward; moving from finding fault to solutions; from selfish to selfless. Oddly enough, true compassion for others will be to allow them their own experiences. I recall a time that I now view as me switching between attempting to cause some to suffer (anyone who treated me in a fashion I felt was "un-called for") and helping to alleviate the suffering of others (I thought this was noble because I helping others). This outward focus is something that I think everyone experiences. It saddens me to think that many may never develop beyond this state because the very thing they need to do is frowned upon by society: becoming self centered, viewing one's self as #1, taking care of ourselves first... because when it deploys, place it firmly around yourself, then assist others (I think most catch the oxygen mask on an airplane association) younfunlover  “The most important things are the hardest to say." ― Stephen King |
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