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INTRODUCTION TO SWINGING FOR COUPLES: 101  

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3/24/2017 11:07 am
INTRODUCTION TO SWINGING FOR COUPLES: 101
A little background on the blogger; I have been involved in the "swinging lifestyle", I hate that term, but it is what it is, for a little over 25 years, first as a solo male and later on I met and fell in love with a lovely lady that later became my partner in the lifestyle.

Since this is primarily aimed at couples we will stay with that in this post. As with many couples, it could begin as pillow talk or a fantasy by one or the other or perhaps both parties. Perhaps one of the partners had some previous experience with sex with multiple partners. However it was discussed, there has to be, again, there has to be complete agreement on both parties side. More often than not, it is the male who opens the subject of multiple sex partners.

Let's start: After it is decided that you are both willing to try exchanging sex partners then it is time to search other willing partners, some have found close friends that are willing subjects, but most people rely on Adult Swinging sites....such as Discreet Gay Dating and Passion.com and many others.

Placing the ad is not difficult, but be honest in what you want as well as who you are. It pays to subscribe to the site to get more recognition. Try it for a month to see what action you get and I would recommend a photo, does not have to be nude and for goodness sake don't follow my photo of just my cock, which it ain't, (I wish) or her pussy, I really enjoy the ads the have a face or full body photo. Shows who you are and not trying to impress them with your sexual prowess or endowment.

Be very clear in what you are looking for; such as "soft swing" having same room sex with your own significant other while the other couples are also having sex, or "full swap same room or same bed sex" most female partners are more comfortable with their male counterpart close by. Or "full swap" different rooms or even different locations. I don't recommend this until you are very comfortable with your play partners. My wife preferred the same room or even same bed full swap. Or are you looking for a solo male for a threesome? All the above is possible.

Make sure that you indicate if you or your partner is straight, bi-curious or fully bi-sexual. Discuss any parameters you will or will not do, such as, believe it or not, kissing, cumming vaginally, condom use or do they engage in anal sex. You do not want to have a problem after the party begins. Beware of the ads that leave the sexual orientation box unanswered. Ask if they are bi, they shouldn't be offended.

If you get a reply or you respond to an ad that looks promising, don't plan on sharing a plethora of e-mails, 3 or 4 are enough to get a feeling for the other couple. And for goodness sakes be careful exchanging ...be safe and sane, saves a lot of problems later; use your cell number, you can block problems on them.

The first meeting: I will cover that in the next session of Swinging For Couples: 102

tommo

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