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What am i doing wrong?  

mikehaslerisbig 41M
5 posts
5/30/2007 10:27 am

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7/9/2007 2:28 pm
What am i doing wrong?

I have been making my self know as a free and single fun guy but i am begining to think that is the problem im single but just becuase i am single that dose not make me an unintresting person. I am realy tired of being knocked back by women just eather not even answering me of if they do answer me its with i short im not intrested. WHAT AM I DOING WONRG? my confedence is a bit knocked any one help me out?

rm_bynari88 41M
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6/14/2007 10:38 pm

 The ratio of guys to girls on Discreet Gay Dating is extremely bad. There's a lot of couples looking for couples and girls looking for other girls but not *so* many girls looking for single guys. The ones that are get *bombarded* with e-mails from guys.

My advice would be take all the cock pics off your public site, less sex talk and play it *very* cool. If you seem like you're just out to make friends rather than someone who's on a website for sex you'll get a better response.

Yes we're all here for sex. 90% of guys go to clubs in the hope of sex but the LAST thing you want to do is advertise that to girls. If you come across as someone who's sexy, but isn't that bothered about getting laid you'll be very attractive to girls.

Discreet Gay Dating is no different than a club. Yes we're all here to get fucked but there's still rules of attraction that don't change. Guys go for looks and hot bodies. Girls go for alpha-male traits. One of which is not seeking out sex.

Don't let it knock your confidence. Even the best looking guys on Discreet Gay Dating suffer the same problems.

And get gold membership or it's not worth it.

good luck, mate.


babalou5132 50F

7/24/2007 7:43 am

 listern to this guy bynari88
he defo knows what he is talking about
after reading his post i totally agree, and the best advice is dont have cock photos cus us sexy ladies really dont wanna see so many of them we are more interested in looking at ya face first because that shows us more about u and lets us see you are confident, and soory babe but one cock looks just like another if your being sent 30 emails a day
i must admit i siv through and i firstly look at face profile then cock lol
hope that helps babe
lorraine x xx


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