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hmmm makes me want to go kiss someone...
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Posted:Jun 23, 2009 4:25 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2009 11:12 am
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Forget sex. Kissing can be one of the most intimate, sensual, and just plain fun things you can do with another person. And as anyone who is sex-educated knows: the better the foreplay, the better the sex. Read on to discover ten unusual kissing facts, and be grateful that locking lips no longer leads you to the guillotine.
1. According to anthropologists, 90 percent of people kiss. But that doesn’t mean that kissing is the same for everyone. Kissing customs vary across the world.
For instance, certain African tribes literally kiss the ground of their leaders, while in many parts of Europe, it is not unusual for men to kiss each other. Kissing people on both cheeks as a form of greeting is another popular custom in many parts of the world, and both Eskimos and Egyptians "kiss" by rubbing noses, hence an "Eskimo kiss."Read: The Evolution Of Kissing
2. PDA was strictly forbidden in old-school Italy. In 16th century Naples, the punishment for kissing was the death penalty. We bet there were a lot of unhappy women. And a lot of hangings.
3. Be careful where you kiss. Though the punishment's not quite as harsh as our Italian predecessors, kissing is still illegal in some parts of the United States.
Those in Cedar Rapids, Iowa are not allowed to kiss strangers and women in Hartford, Conn. are not legally allowed to lock lips with their husbands on Sundays. And mustached Indiana men can forget about ever becoming "players." According to Indiana law, it is illegal for men who have a mustache to "habitually kiss human beings."
3. Let's talk science. Kissing generally uses one muscle, called the orbicularis oris, that is responsible for puckering your lips when you kiss. The science of kissing itself is called philematology.
4. Making out can be healthy for you. Kissing for one minute burns 26 calories. So enjoy that chocolate cake, and make up for it later with an extended make-out sesh with your partner.Read: How To Kiss Well
6. It is considered good luck to kiss the Blarney Stone, but you may die trying. Kissing the Blarney Stone located in Cork, Ireland, is no easy feat. One poor pilgrim even fell to his death trying to accomplish the task.
To kiss the stone, you have to sit with your back facing the stone while someone holds your feet. Then you lean backwards, hold on to the handrails placed specifically there for this purpose, and lower yourself until you can reach the stone and kiss it. Sounds simple enough, right?
7. The world record for longest kiss goes to Americans Rich Langley and Louisa Almedovar for a session lasted 30 hours and 59 minutes. No word on if they got food and bathroom
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Swinging and the Single male..
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Posted:Feb 22, 2009 12:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2010 5:44 pm
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Hello all,
Wow its been a busy time already with the job and tax season and the upcoming mardi gras party I have been just swamped.. I gotta say that the ot is nice but 11 hours in one week just aint that much after Uncle Sam takes his share and I get all the headache and stress.
Anyway, I am back now with my latest pondering..
Thanks to everyone that posts on my ponderings it gives me good insite and I love reading your opinons as well.
Which brings me to my latest pondering......
Swinging and the single male...
In the past couple of weeks I have had more than a few guys complaining to me that they have been on this site for a few months and they just can't get anyone to respond to them...
hello guys... we are a couple and sometimes cant get responses from other couples.. and because of the parties that we throw and the few others that we have been able to attend we are more recognized than you are...and we have been on this site for almost going on wow has it been that long seven years.
I remember when everyone in the Mtn Zone chat room pretty much knew everyone, there were regular meet and greets and people went yes, even single males.
Yes, it was difficult to get people to talk to you in there sometimes but once you were in. then you were in.
We were at a meet and greet what seems like every Friday and Saturday nites in Denver. Lots of people showed up too it was like a party at a bar every weekend if you missed a weekend then you went the next weekend.
We were aprehensive at first and we even had each other but once we went we got to know others in the lifestyle (and no it wasnt well advertised that that was a group of local swingers you just knew where people were gonna be and hung out with them)and we found most people to be very friendly and welcoming.
It didnt matter if you were a single or married, if you wanted to hang out then you went and joined in.
so, I bring all of this up because of the whining about single males not getting any attention or having to try harder to get the attention here is what I have to say to that...
Truth be told the single male is among hundreds of single males, just in the colorado area alone. As a single male you really are just another horny single male that doesn't really stand out in a crowd of single horny men.
As a single male you need to go to get togethers, chat in the mtn zone chat room, show people you are real not just a picture on a site, show people your personality.
Unless you have a body like Arnold in the old days of course (personally I have found that most are very egotiscal)are young and attractive, rich beyond imagine and women just fall at your feet (which isn't likely without seeing some of your personality) or you have dick pics of a 10 inch schlong (which again does nothing for me) well then I am sorry to say that you just fit in with all the other men looking for the same things.. I would imagine if you polled most single males they would say they are having the same issues.
oh and as far as emails go..(which is that most guys are saying they dont get responses too) Once again why should someone pick you what makes you any different than the last guys email? Why not try saying something about yourself, show your personality, your wit your humor, what would someone like about you, what do your friends like about you in an email, what makes you stand out from all of the other single men? that they should give you a chance over someone else, otherwise your email is going to end up getting overlooked. Oh it does sometimes help to say something that refers to something in thier profile that proves that you did indeed read it.
If you don't have some sort of a picture.. then you might as well hang it up! especially don't im someone and immedietly ask them for pictures of themselves, if they have pictures posted then you are shooting yourself in the foot.. pay for a profile so you can see pics if they mean that much to you then fork up the bucks dont be such a cheapstake. This also conveys wether you mean it to or not the feeling of Hey I am just here for the sex I dont want to pay my share I just want a quick fuck then I want to move on.
Just remember that The only ones that don't have to try very hard on this site or any other site are of course single ladies who pretty much have thier pick of all the single males that hit them up and want all of thier attention.
Oh and last but not least of all,.... if you do get invited by a single lady or a couple then don't fuck it up by not showing up, backing out at the last minute or coming up with some lame ass excuse. Trust me on this one you won't be asked back again...and it will truly be your loss not thiers.
Honesty and respect are allways the best policy anything else can and will bite you in the butt.
You may think that the people on this site are numerous, but people know people and bad words travel fast.
Well that is my two cents worth for all that care to read it and do with what they like.
Good Luck,
Beaches
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Whats up?
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Posted:Nov 2, 2008 11:11 am
Last Updated:Jun 23, 2009 5:25 pm
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I am just dying to know if I have a giant L on my forehead or maybe an S for sucker..Please tell me if I do cuz I need to wash that sucker off.
I am just dying to know what is up with single males, why is it such a thrill to have sex in the back seat of his or our car?
or just maybe god forbid they are cheap asses and want sex but refuse to pay for a hotel room or want something for nothing.
First of all I am not desperate, I have had all the sex in the back seats of cars that I ever want or care to have ... hello, I did that with my husband alot for a lack back in high school of a place to actually have sex.(are we not all adults) Somehow it was a lot more fun back then. second of all it aint all that comfy or enjoyable being cramped in the back seat, and third I dont play without my hubby so that kinda leaves him out dont ya think?
We do not host at our house, mainly because we have and family in the area. and well we really want to keep that private and not share where we live expect with our very close personal friends. (can you say stalkers? and yes we have had a cyber stalker)
Although, the fact we are on a "sex site" might give someone the impression that I will have sex with anyone, anywhere that just isn't the case.
I am not asking for gifts, for someone to pay our way.. so to speak but the way we figure it, if hubby is willing to share me with a single man he should fork up the money for a room (I am not asking for the suite either.)
If we invited a single female we would would feel obligated to pay her way.
Why is it that just because its a couple that the guy thinks he should get away scot free.
It sort of cheapens the whole thing in my opinion..should I be expected to pay for someone to fuck me? if I were a single female would the guy still ask me to pay for the room?
As a single male you should be honored to be accepted into that couples relationship as a guest, and respect the couple for letting you join them.
In our case we do not have issues with our sex life and anyone that does probably should really question if this is a wise choice to be flirting with in the first place.
We dont need sex from others it is just a fun and enjoyable thing that we like to do together.
Single guys please dont even email or attempt to talk with us if you plan on me paying you to do me.. it just aint gonna happen.. and you can save both our times.
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Grooming uh. down south
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Posted:Jul 19, 2008 10:05 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2009 4:02 pm
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So has anyone picked up the latest issue of Cosmo lately?
Okay, I do like the articles but I also like checking out the hottie guys that are probably way too young for this old lady, but I like looking at the eye candy anyway.
I thought it was kind of interesting to find out how a guy trims or shaves his pubic region says about him.
Personally, I like it at least trimmed up so I don't get hair caught in my mouth when I am going down on a guy, but I spoke with my sister in law once who happens to be a gyno nurse and she hadn't even thought of a guy trimming down there, until I suggested it to her.
apparently this is what they say it says about a guy (guys if this is incorrect let me know) 
Totally untamed guys who dont trim thier pubic hair fall into two categories the " alpha male" who thinks maintenance beyond shaving thier face is gay, he is a traditionalist and chivalrous, and not to expect to much experimentation in bed beyond the missionary position. The other type of guy is sweet but lazy he is open to trying naughty moves if you take the lead... and as long as he doesn't have to do too much work...
Apparently the guy who tidies up a bit by trimming the private area just enough to look neat and clean is known as faux natural and is one of the most popular styles ... this is the type of guy that calls when he says he will, he knows what is expected of him and will be attentive without being over the top sensisitive oh and even better your wish is his command between the sheets. he will be concious of what you like and how to satisfy you, and will make sure going south on him is a pleasant experience for the woman.
The guy who shaves his testicles and the base of his shaft but not the hair around them maybe trying to make himself look bigger, which suggests that he is insecure. He could be high maintenance who needs praise but his self consciousness can benefit you in bed Because he is always aiming to better his technique, he is probably skilled and will try any ideas you introduce.
Completly bare... a man who is waxed or shaves so that he is hairless down there has a wild side.. and likley watches alot of porn.
Some guys start trimming because they hold porn as the gold standard of sex and want to emulate shaved stars or they heard it enhances sensation during sex, that being said in bed, anything goes, including highly choreographed postions and every other stop on the train to Naughty Town. he is adventurous sensual and will try any kink once But this adrenaline junkie may resist settling down because he is always searching for a thrill.
Hmmm ... so what do you think guys.. do you shave, do you trim, do you find the ladies like it one way or the other better... ladies is there a way you like it better?
Do you find this is true? a lil far fetched?
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