Boobs: real vs. implants?
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Posted:Jun 29, 2005 2:41 pm
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Fake boobs. I’m not sure what to make of them.
I guess I’m naïve. I don’t see a good cosmetic reason to have them. Now, my mom lost her breasts to cancer, and I consider that a different situation. But to take what is perfectly good, healthy mammaries and augment them…? Hmm…
Granted, I’ve never been with a woman with other than all natural. My ex was a barely A-size, and beautiful. My last girlfriend was a healthy D-cup, after a reduction, and gorgeous.
I guess, to me, when I touch and caress a woman I like knowing that it’s her that I’m enjoying. I like to know that she’s really enjoying my affections, too. Hearing her and being with her when she’s really moving and responding is such a high for me.
I tell my not to knock a food until they’ve tried it. I should follow my own advice and not form an opinion until I’ve had a mouthful….
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freeze frame
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Posted:Jun 28, 2005 1:08 pm
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I've about decided that I could use some good pictures for here. Not that I don't like the ones I've already posted. But I took those myself. I know a friend who knows a friend who does those sort of pictures. But I've never done such a thing before. It'd sure be different. I suppose I could at least ask what the costs involved could be.
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ho hum
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Posted:Jun 26, 2005 8:33 pm
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I don't think that in this day and age you'll see a lot of lemonaide stands with anymore. But if you can imagine one, with maybe one or two , and a supply of the tart liquid refreshment at the ready, but no customers. Faithfully, the sit at the little stand and wait for something to happen. I can relate. The most activity I've seen so far is right here on my blog. I guess I'll just wait a little longer than I thought.
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fashion plate I'm not
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Posted:Jun 22, 2005 12:53 pm
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Seeing as how I’m basically restarting again post-divorce I’m a little self-conscious about some things. One thing is my wardrobe. It’s not extensive or expensive. I think I look pretty good in most things in my closet, but at the same time my fashion says something about me: pragmatic, practical, utilitarian, versatile, and borderline boring… at least in my opinion. So, in an effort to get some ideas for a wardrobe upgrade I bought a copy of GQ magazine.
What a waste of time and money! There were more advertisements than anything else. And the cover story featured Brad Pitt. What the hell do I care about what Bradley is doing with himself these days?! There was a style Q&A, where people write in for suggestions, but the best letter had to do with shoulder bags for guys (read: a purse).
I decided that I’d be better off simply going to the mall, taking time, walking around, and (gasp) spend some money on myself. I can buy for just about anyone else but me. Maybe after I pay down a couple of debts in a few months, I’ll give myself an early Christmas.
Fortunately, I was smart enough to pick up a copy of Sports Illustrated with the GQ. Its cover story was on Lance Armstrong. I’m a fan and that was a story I could get into. Tour number 7 is a no-brainer.
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guy's underwear
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Posted:Jun 21, 2005 11:10 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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What’s a guy to do? I’ve done some online shopping for sexy undies for me ‒ specifically boxers. Maybe something in silk or something opaque. But as I’ve looked, all I find are gay sites. That’s just not me. I’m very, unashamedly straight.
A friend (female) suggested that Frederick’s of Hollywood carries some guy stuff, and even Wal-Mart has something. Wal-Mart? Hmm… I was hoping for something a little more stylish.
It’s not like there’s a lot of selection for such things in the first place. The sheer volume of apparel made for women is much more than what’s produced for men. I suppose that makes sense: guys are generally more visual and in stereotype, women like to shop more. Besides, a female looks much better in lace than I do. Not gonna’ go there!
Basically I want something to lounge around the house by myself on a Sunday afternoon. My old bathrobe is getting a little tattered (and it was made by my ex-MIL, and should be gone). Maybe lounge pants? Silk boxers? A kimono? From my perspective, some things are so much easier for women.
And that’s the solution! Find a girl willing to go shopping for me! 
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Interracial curious?
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Posted:Jun 20, 2005 1:23 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I do not consider myself racist. I hope I don’t seem so in this post. I’m simply exploring some ideas.
Am I interracial curious? I suppose I am. I’ve never been with a black woman. The closest I’ve had to ‘interracial’ was my ex ‒ her daddy is from South America.
I think it’s that being with a non-caucasian is considered somewhat exotic. But I can appreciate how beautiful a woman is and how lovely the shade of her skin.
In high school, I knew a girl who was black. We were friends. One afternoon, we went out for lunch ‒ no big deal really; neither of us had an interest in the other. We went to my house so I could get something I’d left. My mom and sister arrived while we were there. They didn’t make anything of it. Later, though, my dad did. He’s kind of old school about some things. But he wasn’t mad. He simply wanted his young, impressionable to be aware that there are cultural differences. I found that out the hard way, years later, during my divorce.
I see a lot of profiles from white women who only want black cock. I don’t get it, and I don’t suppose I ever will.
The bottom line for me, though, is that there is so much more to beauty, sensuality, and sexuality than skin tone. So much of those qualities come from within. Every woman is different, and I’d like to learn those differences.
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quotes
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Posted:Jun 19, 2005 8:17 pm
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A few of my favorite quotes.
"...there was never a girl born who ever grew older that eighteen in her heart."
"Everybody knows that in the spring the young men's fancy lightly turns to what the girls never stopped thinking about..."
“Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires.”
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being a single dad
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Posted:Jun 18, 2005 10:15 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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It's hard shfting back and forth between being a divorced bachelor (while my aren't with me, which is most of the time) to being a divorced single dad (like I am now and for a few more weeks). It's just as well that my inbox has been pretty quiet (a few nibbles, but no bites). I woudn't be able to go out right now anyway.
I did have one lady say that she was going to ask me out (she and her husband swing and he had a date). But she knew that I was busy. We chat pretty regularly anyway.
Meanwhile, I can either take a cold shower, or take myself in my own hand... But it's just not the same
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patience
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Posted:Jun 17, 2005 8:21 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I think I should learn patience better. I need to wait. I think I've done what I can to set up a good profile here. Now I'll have to see if it attracts anyone. But it sure is frustraing. I'm ready to get things going (I think...)
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life gets busy
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Posted:Jun 16, 2005 11:59 am
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Whew. Life gets pretty bust sometimes. I've been spending time with my for a while, so I haven't had time to look around here, let alone consider getting to know anyone. After I have my time with my , I'll be a bachelor (for the most part) again, and ready to step out.
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encouraging
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Posted:Jun 7, 2005 8:35 pm
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Well, it's ben about a week since I began at this site. Already I've had a few messages and winks and comments to this blog even. Even though I'm not about to rush into things (it's best to take things slow at the onset), I think I'll stick around, do some exploring, and see what arises...
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Just starting out
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Posted:May 29, 2005 9:16 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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It's been about a year since the divorce was 'final', whatever that means. And that was almost a year since she left. Granted, with good reason. Never the less, I'm surely ready to get back on with my life.
I have no idea what I'm doing here. I feel like I'm stepping off into some great cliff, hoping something good will come out of this leap of faith.
If I see some results, I'll stick with it and maybe even expand it. If not, no net loss (except for my ego).
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