Oh, How I LOVE Hump Day!!
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Posted:Sep 24, 2009 8:06 pm
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2010 6:59 am
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The 1 day out of the week that I look forward to. My guy and I get together on Wednesdays. It's kinda like our 'date' night (well our night to do...god only knows )...so this week we went out to eat. I played with his cock from under the table (almost getting busted 3 times...maybe they saw, either way, no one said anything). It was so hot when we stood up to leave, he had this big bulge in his pants. It made me want to take him right there on the table...but we waited.
Then off to the bar we went for a few drinks. At the bar, there was this guy who had seen us the last time we were in and he started asking us if we were married yet...Apparently we just couldn't leave each other alone (my guy and  and we were making this other guy jealous with all the PDA we were doing (I know, the way we are...we make people sick with how lovey we are with each other...we don't care...we enjoy each other as much as we possibly can).
After we finished up at the bar we went back to his place 
We were just chilling outside, talking, listening to Phish and dancing around...Good times!!...So as we are listening to the music, I decide to give him a lil taste of what was in store for his cock tonight. . I started by licking the very tip of his finger and swirled my tongue all down the length of his finger, letting my tongue dance to the music...oh he likes this very much . We are starting to really grind on each other. I can feel his pants growing tighter. He hasn't cum all week. Saving his manmilk just for me...mmmm... ...he wants to make sure that there is a lot for him to blow it all over my face...I have been looking forward to this for over 2 weeks. I want him to know how much I want his load on my face.
I take his dick in my mouth. Slowly licking it up and down. Teasing it with my tongue all over. One hand played with his balls, while the other stroked his pole. I suck hard, sliding him farther in to my mouth. He moans in pleasure, letting me know he loves the way I'm making his cock feel. It only makes me take him deeper. I can feel him in my throat yet there still seems like their is more of him outside my mouth...He pushes my head down, making me take all of him...I choke...I pull back from him. Take a deep breath and let him sink his cock deep in my throat. This time I take it all. Oh, he really likes that. He understands how much I have been wanting his cum all over my face.
We make our way into his bedroom. While he washes up I strip down to nothing and lay on my side in a cute sexy pose. Making sure my nipples are nice hard for when he comes into the room. As he enters, a smile comes across his face. He likes what he sees. He crosses the room and buries his face in my pussy. Oh the joys of his tongue in my funbox. How happy it makes me!!
He then runs his tongue down my inner thigh to my kneepit, where he licks, sucks and bits, driving me wild with a yearning for his manhood. I want to feel him deep in me. I need to feel him deep inside me!! His cock is throbbing. He lets me know that he wants me on top of him. Without hesitation I climb on. I can feel him stretching my pussy. Oh how I love his cock in me. I lower myself. Taking more of his cock. He tells me to fuck his cock as hard as I can. I obey.
After a while, he climbs on top of me (switching positions while not taking his dick from me). Slams his steel rod deep inside. I can feel it pulsing. He is ready to give me what I have been waiting for. He pulls out of me just in time to shoot long, hot streams of his love all over my face....YUUUUUMMMMMMMIEEEEE...I can't believe how much he gave me. It was so worth the wait  I use my finger to help lick up every drop of his cum while he watches very pleased with me.
**Ok, this is what really happened after he blew his loaded all over my face. I wasn't sure if he was ok with me saying it but since he told people, he said I could too.
After he was finished covering me with his manmilk, he started to lick my face clean. Every lick he tasted his cum. I don't know what it is but there is something so hot about having cum licked off your body, especially when it is the guys own cum and he's not afraid of it.
After he was done licking me clean, he makes his way to my lips and gives me cum filled kisses. SSOOO HHHOOOOOOTTT!!! We have only done this 2 times now but I so look forward to doing it again.
I LOVE how open my guy is and how he is always up to trying new things. Love you babe
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MMM...Eating Yummie Ass
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Posted:Sep 22, 2009 3:39 pm
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2009 11:53 am
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Just had to share a lil experience I got to give to my guy.
We met up with the guy we got to experience our first mmf with. I was hoping we were going to be playing in the woods (we all went hiking). So when I saw nothing was happening I asked them who was going to bring out their dick first. Neither wanted to ( I think my guy was waiting on the other guy to get his out first. We actually wanted to suck the other guys dick. Earlier in the week my guy n I were discussing different techniques so we wanted to test it out).
Anyway, the point is we didnt get to suck any dick n I was horny as hell. So we finish our hike n my guy n I head back to my house. We were going away for the weekend (camping with friends so no really time for us to get down n dirty over the weekend), so I knew I needed to have my fun before we left.
We are in the shower playing n using the shower head on each other (I love good shower heads) n he enjoyed it so much he exploded all over . We finish up in the shower n head to the bedroom. Cant wait to have more of that cock. Not totally sure what exactly happened next but I know there was pussy eating n fucking...I was just enjoying every moment.
Well, until it ended up I had him lying on his belly with his legs spread n cock n balls sticking out between them. Everything in a nice lil area so I can get at all the fun zones in 1 lil area for me...Oh how I like!!
I just dove right in. I couldnt help myself. I licked, sucked, bite n fucked his ass with my tongue. I had him moaning so good. Then I remembered the cock n balls...Oh fuck yeah...I work my way to the balls. Still licking,sucking n biting, I get to the balls. Taking them into my mouth, making them feel so wonderful (at least from the sounds he was making...he sure didnt mind it). Then I worked my tongue down his shaft n I had him screaming...damn just thinking about how he just couldnt control how loud he was makes me so horny...anyway, I continued to take my mouth/face n licked/rubbed them all over his ass n cock. It was so fun. I cant wait to do it again...n I know he cant wait either
Had to make a quick ending going to go play
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How many for a train?
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Posted:Sep 21, 2009 2:51 pm
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2010 10:23 pm
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My guy and I were wondering...How many people do you need for a sex train?
*Just a fun lil topic that I would love to know peoples opinions on. Thanks for your time...Cant wait to hear from you all.
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A World of Nonsense
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Posted:Sep 20, 2009 11:06 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2009 2:04 pm
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"If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is, because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn't be. And what it wouldn't be, it would. You see?" Alice from Alice in Wonderland
The more clearly we experience something as "nonsense", the more clearly we are experiencing the boundaries of our own self-imposed cognitive structures. "Nonsense" is that which does not fit into prearranged patterns which we have superimposed on reality. There is no such thing as "nonsense" apart from a judgmental intellect which calls it that.
Nonsense is nonsense only when we have not yet found that point of view from which it makes sense. - The Dancing Wu Li Masters- Gary Zukav
Welcome to the World of My Nonsense
'But I don’t want to go among mad people,’ Alice remarked.
‘Oh, you can’t help that,’ said the Cat. ‘We’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.’
‘How do you know I’m mad?’ said Alice.
‘You must be,” said the Cat. ‘or you wouldn’t have come here.’ – Lewis Carrol
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The Purple Monster Vs. Ass
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Posted:Sep 13, 2009 11:06 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2009 8:05 pm
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I met this guy at a party...I've met him before but things were different this time. All the times before, either I was with someone or he was with someone. We never talked or even made eye contact. No real communication until this wonderful night, when we finally got to talking and realized how much we had in common.
The party was about half over and everyone was feeling pretty good. We are all hanging outside, talk and just having a good time. This guy, who I was kind of checking out all evening, was talking about his 'circle of weirdness'. Well, this certainly got my attention since I am all about the 'weirdness' especially when its in a sexual nature. I let him know that I would love to hear about his 'circle of weirdness' but he does not want to let me in....Does he not like me?...How could he not Does he not trust me?...He doesn't even know me ...Why will he not let me in??
A little while later, we are in the house and my best friend decides to announce how I like to stick things in people's asses. Well, the guy I was checking out starts shouting out his number. I turned beet red, wanting to crawl into the nearest hole. This is not how I was suppose to start talking to this guy. How do I face him now? I'm a shy person (I am, even though my profile and blogs dont show it).
After saying his number a couple more times, he walks outside to have a smoke. Do I follow him? If I follow him everyone will know that I have an interest in him. What do I do? (Remember, this is all drunk thinking, I didn't get that I already had an open invitation )I walk outside to him. We start talking for a while. We find out we are both bi and neither one think anything is taboo. Oh, what fun!!
We end up kissing a little that night and exchanging numbers. We met later on that week and got to talk some more. I tell him about how I always wanted to fuck a guy in the ass and I tell him about my purple monster. He informs me that he hasn't had a real dick in his ass and he would like that first
To make a long story short. About a week or so later he left me fuck him in the ass.  
We were talking about it all week. Texting each other about how much we both wanted it and what positions we wanted to do it in. Got ourselves all worked up waiting for Hump Day. We go out for drinks and he lets me know that he is so really to feel the purple monster in him. Was he up for the challenge?...Hmmm...Either way it will be fun trying.
We are back to his house. I have on this cute lil black shirt and sexy black heels (no shirt). With my strap on, he sits on it, facing me so he can watch my facial expressions. He loves it! I love it! We both can not keep our moans of pleasure in. I then decide that I want to bend him over so I can truly give his ass a good fucking. And boy does he love it. As I pounded his ass as hard as I could, he was screaming in ecstasy, begging for more. He looked so sexy the way he turned his head back to me as I had him bent over. The way he closed his eyes and opened his mouth with every thrust...Take my dirty, dirty boy! And u will love every inch of it!!...We came together. He was in amazement that he came even though his dick wasn't even hard (he had fucked me earlier before I fucked him).
He truly enjoyed himself, as did I. We've been hooking up ever since and I know call him my guy... And boy can he take that purple monster like a champ!!
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Purple Monster
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Posted:Sep 9, 2009 1:33 pm
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2009 5:43 pm
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A friend of mine (we will call her Sara), who I helped find her way into the wonderful world of PUSSY, asked if I could help fulfill a fantasy for her girlfriend (we will call her Tiffany).
Tiffany always wanted to see Sara with another girl. To see her smooth silky skin rub all over some other hot girls naked hairless body...mmmm...it got her wet just thinking about it. Being that I had already been with Sara before (again, I introduced her to how much fun eating tacos can be. I was also the first one to make her cum ...Yay Me!!!)...I was more then ready to feel her tongue swirling all over my clit.
The day arrives! It is understood that Sara is not ok with Tiffany and I playing together, which is fine, I'm just here to help out a friend. I have on this cute lil light pink babydoll lingerie. Sara had on this lil, tiny black outfit made mostly of nothing but straps...Yummy
We came out of the bedroom from getting dressed. We started by taking each other into our arms and kissing deeply (we always had a thing for each other so there was no faking the lust). Sara's hand traveled from my arms, to my face, to my breasts. The feel of her touch with only a thin layer of material between her and I...It's been so long since I have felt her lips on mine. I almost forgot the passion she kissed with.
Sara has me lay down on my back as she slowly slides my panties down. She can feel that they are already wet. She gives me a smile, then dives right in ..."o how I've missed you" i think to myself. Moaning and cumming in sweet ecstasy, I realize that this is just the start of the evening events.
There was lots of eating and fingers every where. Sara and I put on one hell of a show for Tiffany, who sat there enjoying herself. Then out came the strap on... She used it on me, then I used it on her, then she used it on Tiffany. While they were having at it, I started using my rabbit on myself. After they came, they both took turns using my rabbit on me until I came in an exploding orgasm.
After we ended our festivities for the night they let me keep the strap on. It's my memory of our night we helped fulfill a fantasy.
They were the only girls that got to be fucked by the Purple Monster (it's big and purple) but I have gotten to fuck 2 guys in the ass with it and I hope to fuck plenty more guys and girls with it
Maybe I could post all the different encounters the Purple Monster has
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4 Randy
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Posted:Sep 1, 2009 5:32 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2010 10:02 am
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This goes out to 1 of my fav guys. Lets share a lil fantasy of the things we could do to each other.
I see u standing there from across the story. U looks so good, i NEED to talk to u. I make my way over to and run my cart into the back of ur leg...'real smooth' i think to myself...u turns with a face that does not look happy..as soon as ur eyes meet mine, they get lost in a sea of blue...ur face lights up...as the smile starts forming I know I m hooked. With very few words we make our way to ur truck. U can feel my want for u as well has I can feel ur want for me...with all the energy flowing through the 2 of us, we KNOW that we will b 'painting the town' with the screams of pleasure and the site of cum....mmm...randy, tell me where we go first to have our first encounter...i decided to start out a lil slow
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The Great Puzzle
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Posted:Aug 24, 2009 2:21 pm
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2009 10:44 am
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I wonder if I've been changed in the night? Let me think. Was I the same when I got up this morning? I almost think I can remember feeling a little different. But if I'm not the same, the next question is 'Who in the world am I?' Ah, that's the great puzzle!
Alice In Wonderland
Ever wonder that? Can you tell me who you really are?
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MAD LIBS FUN
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Posted:Aug 5, 2009 2:00 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2009 9:42 pm
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OK...I want to try something. It's called 'Mad Libs". I have a story that is missing some words. I need help filling in the words. So how this will work is, I will post what kinds of words I need (adj, adv, n, v, etc). When you visit the blog, look what word we are looking for and join the fun of creating crazy, funny stories. After i have all the words I need I will post the story that we created. Remember I can't post the story until I have all the words I need. So if you are just looking at the blog and not adding to it, it's going to be forever until I can finish the story. PLEASE, HELP ME
1. Adjective
2. Adjective
3. Verb ending in "ing"
4. Part of the body (plural)
5. Verb
6. Adjective
7. Noun
8. Adverb
9. Adverb
10. Noun
11. Adjective
-just put the number and the word down that you want used in the story. also feel free to tell me what you think of this blog. if you would like to do another or if you think it's stupid.
In case you forgot:
ADJECTIVE-describes something or somebody.
ADVERB- tells how something is done; it modifies a verb and usually ends in "ly"
NOUN- name of a person, place or thing.
VERB- an action word.
PLACE- any sort of place (country, city, room, etc)
The title for the story is "BEWARE THE FREAKS!"
Remember: the more creative you are with you words the better the story will come out.
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Squirting
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Posted:Aug 5, 2009 11:35 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2010 10:03 am
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Here's info on squirting
By now we know that women are capable of doing anything men can ‒ and this applies to ejaculation too! Though different on the outside, a woman's anatomy bears many similarities to a man. Much like a man's prostate, women have a urethral sponge, which is located about two inches inside the vagina and above the vaginal wall. This is more commonly known as the G-spot. When the G-spot is stimulated in just the right way, a clear fluid can be released. Sometimes it's just a dribble, but really strong muscles can result in a full-on spray through the urethra ‒ aka squirting!
For some women, soaking the sheets is nothing new; they've been doing it since their very first orgasm. It comes naturally for them and often occurs at or close to orgasm. These women may have even held back thinking that their ejaculate is urine, or feeling ashamed or embarrassed of their squirting capabilities. But thanks to the Internet and heightened sexual awareness, more women are realizing this is not a shameful or "freakish" trait ‒ in fact, many are dying to know how to do it! By following these simple steps ‒ and listening to your body ‒ you can be well on your way!
Before going further into the anatomy and mechanics of it all, it's important to note that, just like any sexual act, what really gets one person revved up may fall flat or even be painful for another. Some women like their nipples lightly tickled and others like them bitten, yanked and pulled. The same concept applies here, so I fully recommend exploring the G-spot and female ejaculation either by yourself or in a safe and trusted environment, to see what works best for you.
Get a Work Out
Having strong Kegel muscles (also called the PC muscle, short for pubococcygeus) is important for overall vaginal strength, but especially when pertaining to orgasms. Some women can cum simply by rhythmically squeezing these muscles. If you've never done a Kegel exercises and don't know how, think of what you do automatically when you stop yourself while peeing. By practicing clenching and unclenching these muscles, you can strengthen them - but it's important to do these exercises with an empty bladder. Do them after you pee, while you're waiting for the bus, wherever, whenever! These muscles are also worked when you orgasm ‒ so have at it! You can never have too much!
Back to the G!
If you like penetration, most of what feels good is G-spot sensation. It's not a magic button, but rather a part of your body to get to know. You may be fast-friends or it might take some time. Feel the first few inches in your vagina. It's a smooth tube. Focus on the top wall of the vaginal canal, the one near your belly button. You will feel the texture change. It might be subtle, but it can feel like a walnut and is about that size; that's your G-spot. And you'll notice it's more of an area than a spot. When you push or touch this area it might feel sensitive or uncomfortable, kind of like you have to pee.
Warm Up!
Empty your bladder. When you are playing with your G-spot it may feel similar to having to pee, and with an empty bladder you won't be concerned that you might wet the bed. And if you're still scared of peeing put down a towel or even a wee-wee pad that you can get at the pet supply store. Keep in mind that usually only a teaspoon or two of ejaculate is expelled. Start getting yourself off the way you usually do. And remember, lube is your friend! It's a good idea to tease yourself to the highest point of arousal or, if you can have multiple orgasms, have one or two. Either way, when you're all warmed up, you're not only more relaxed, but your G-spot swells and will be easier to feel.
Go Further...
Play with your G, press harder, feel around and hook your fingers upwards. Stroke your G by moving your fingers in a come-here motion towards your adbomen. Fingers are great G-Spot stimulators, but toys and penises are great too! Anything that curves upwards like that can easily excite your G. During sex, take note of the curve of your partner's cock and try to position yourself so he's working your G. Bonus points for you ladies using strap-ons: you can turn that rod in any direction you like until you find one that hits the spot ‒ so to speak!
Release the Gates!
From this direct pressure alone you may squirt. But remember if there's a toy/penis/finger inside of you, you may not notice the impending squirt. So if you feel a mounting excitement, pull out the toy/penis/finger and breathe deep. Relax your PC muscles! It may be difficult because you're all revved up, but don't tense. If you keep this up and still feel like nothing is happening, bear down with your PC muscles.
Don't forget the clit!
Still nothing? Keep stroking your G-spot, and apply direct clitoral stimulation on your clit, either with a vibrator, tongue or fingers. Playing with your clit will make your body want to tense up to get closer to orgasm, but keep breathing and push your PC muscles out again. Most likely, you'll squirt out the ejaculate. You may even sprinkle, gush or dribble.
Practice makes perfect
If it doesn't happen for you this time, don't feel defeated. There can be a lot of reasons why. Did you put too much pressure on yourself? Remember, G-spot stimulation can take some getting used to. It can also have to do with your menstrual cycle. Our bodies change so much throughout our lives - something you loved last month may feel awful the next month. Just listen to your body. Continue practicing your Kegel exercises and G-spot stimulation, and before you know it you'll be gushing like a geyser!
How It Works
Females ejaculate? Yes, they do. We’re talking about a gusher of fluid spurting out of her pussy as she comes. Actually, to be more accurate, the fluid comes squirting out of her urethra. Don’t let this gross you out, though; it’s not pee! Female cum is a clear, odorless liquid produced by a small organ called the “female prostate,” or urethral sponge, which is located between the urethra and vagina. The fluid it produces just happens to come out of the pee hole, but...so does guys’ semen, right?
While some women may experience ejaculation naturally in the course of intercourse or other sex play, most require some concentrated stimulation of the G-spot. Massaging the G-spot causes the urethral sponge to become engorged with fluid, which is then expelled during orgasm. And, as with an orgasm, ejaculation also requires the woman to “let go.” Before ejaculating, the woman will feel as though she is going to pee. However, it is nearly impossible for her to urinate while coming, because the muscular contractions of orgasm close off the bladder and prevent the passage of urine.
Use Your Hands
The most reliable way to induce female ejaculation is by manual stimulation. Lay a towel on the bed before you begin (the amount of fluid released can be considerable). Make sure your hands are clean and your nails well trimmed. Get into a comfortable position between her legs, as achieving ejaculation can take half an hour or more. Use lube if necessary to get started or in case she starts to feel dry.
Find the G-Spot
Begin by stroking or licking her clit to get her aroused. Once she begins to get turned on, insert two fingers, palm side up, into her vagina. About an inch to two inches inside the vaginal entrance, you should feel a round, roughened area on the front wall. This is the G-spot. Stroke against this area using firm pressure. It should enlarge and begin to feel more solid. Try touching or licking her clit as you manipulate the G-spot. Follow her responses and pace yourself to prolong her period of arousal; the more time she’s aroused, the more juice is building up in there.
The Urge to Urinate
As she gets closer to coming, she will start to feel as though she has to urinate. That’s the cum beginning to flow into her urethra. In order for her ejaculate, she has to relax, let go, and push down and out with the same muscles she would use as if she were peeing. It may be hard to overcome the impulse to hold back, but you can reassure her, again, that if she is coming, she will not pee.
Instead, as she comes and pushes the fluid out, she should feel extra intense orgasmic pleasure, and you should be rewarded with a spurt of nectar that may range from gentle gush to a drenching spray.
Hints and Tips
Attaining female ejaculation may take some practice and experimentation. You may find it easier to stimulate her G-spot if she gets on her hands and knees and you enter her from behind, pressing down on the G-spot instead of up. For more information and demonstrations, you can also check out Fanny Fatale’s video “How to Female Ejaculate,” which features women masturbating to ejaculation. As a woman gets more familiar with ejaculation and the sensations associated with it, it should be easier for her to achieve.
How to have a G-spot orgasm
Why do I refer to the quest for a G-Spot orgasm as trying to find the “Holy Grail?” Well, because for many women a G-Spot orgasm is the end-all, be-all of orgasms ‒ the one that will make their sexual life complete ‒ and it is just something that she never seems able to achieve! Well, I am here to tell you, that most women are indeed CAPABLE of having a G-Spot orgasm ‒ although like a regular orgasm, not all G-Spot orgasms are the same. For some women, achieving a G-Spot orgasm can be the most wonderful sensation of her life ‒ for others, the question remains, “was that really it?” There are reasons for this, which I will explain as I go on.
First, let me begin by diminishing any doubts that you may have and state that a G-Spot DOES exist! Women do have them ‒ it is not some sick joke some man made up just to drive women crazy looking for it. Also, G-Spot orgasms DO happen ‒ and when they do, for most women, they are indeed the most intense orgasm they will ever have. It is for this reason that this article will be helpful to so many women ‒ at least that is my hope! I firmly believe that will knowledge, patience and the right techniques most women CAN find their G-Spots ‒ and I sincerely hope that I can help you to do that.
GET EDUCATED ABOUT THE ‘G’
I learned a long time ago that the best way to be successful in ANYTHING, including sexual fulfillment, is to be educated. Therefore, a small “lesson” on women’s anatomy and the basics of what the ‘G-spot’ actually is will serve as a backbone for how to find it.
Ok, first of all I think we all know what and where the VAGINA is ‒ and that at the end of the vagina is the cervix, uterus and the ovaries ‒ this is simple enough. Also semi-connected to the vagina is the bladder, as it lies right above (or next to) it ‒ so to speak. Now, coming down from the bladder is the URETHRA, which is where urine comes from. All pretty simple thus far, right? Closely related to the urethra are the PARAURETHRAL GLANDS ‒ or Skene’s Glands ‒ which are, in essence, the glands which produce the discharge of a G-Spot orgasm! These paraurethral glands are located between the bladder and the anterior (top or belly-side) wall of the vagina. When this gland is stimulated, the G-Spot orgasm occurs!
So, if the glands are called paraurethral or Skene’s glands, why is it called a G-Spot? Well, because it was actually Ernest Gräfenberg, a German gynecologist, who discovered that these glands had anything at all to do with a female’s orgasm. Therefore, this was named the ‘Gräfenberg Spot ‒ or ‘G-spot' in his honor.
Recommended G:Spot Vibe: WATERPROOF G-SPOT STIMULATOR!
The tricky part about a G-Spot, like anything related to human anatomy, every woman is different! Just like her labia is completely different from her best friend’s ‒ so are her paraurethral glands! In some women, these glands are large (quarter sized) and prominent ‒ easy to stimulate, and hence, easier to produce the G-Spot orgasm. In others, these glands are small, indented, or even practically non-existent ‒ hence, not easy at all to achieve a G-Spot orgasm. This is the dilemma with claiming all women can have a G-Spot orgasm. Statistically, only 15% of women have a G-Spot which is completely unreachable ‒ so truthfully 85% of women SHOULD be able to achieve a G-Spot orgasm!
What happens when a women does stimulate her G-Spot? Why do so many women explain the feeling as an intense urge to pee? Well, if you think about where the paraurethral glands are ‒ closely connected to the bladder ‒ and then think about stimulating these glands, it would then only follow that the sensation would feel like you might have to urinate! Also, the ejaculate DOES come from the urethra. This is a much, much debated fact ‒ but it is a fact. The ejaculate from a clitoral orgasm comes out of the vagina, and in fact is secreted there. The ejaculate from a G-Spot orgasm comes through the urethra.
The fact is, while the feeling might be as in urination, a G-Spot orgasm DOES NOT make you pee yourself! The liquid that comes from a G-Spot orgasm is EJACULATE, much like a man’s semen. In fact, scientific analysis of the fluid that comes from a G-Spot indicates a very similar make-up. In this way, the G-Spot is sort of like a man’s prostrate!
Many women who have had a G-Spot orgasm have wondered if they have peed themselves ‒ usually because of the volume of fluid that comes out during a G-Spot orgasm. Although even this varies from woman to woman. For some women, the fluid can be as little as a few ounces, still others about a cup, and others yet, up to a QUART! Rest assured, G-Spot fluid is not urine, it is not even a mixture containing urine.
It is clear ‒ where urine is yellow; it smells sort of like “clover”, whereas urine smells like ‒well, urine; it will NOT stain your sheets, although it will make them wet, urine will stain of course. G-Spot fluid is a matter in and of itself ‒ and there is nothing to be ashamed of when you excrete G-Spot fluids!
It is also important to note that some women will experience a G-Spot orgasm without an excretion of fluids. If her paraurethral gland is smaller, it is possible that there will be minimal liquid ejaculated. So, ladies, do not generalize a G-Spot orgasm simply by the amount of fluid which you may or may not ejaculate ‒ instead, go by the feelings you are having.
Now that a basic understanding of where the G-Spot is as well as what it is, it is time for me to help you women on the quest to find and stimulate your G-Spots! I caution you that this is a general guide to the best and most accepted methods to finding and stimulating the G-Spot ‒ and not every method will work for every woman. I make NO PROMISES that you will be able to find and have a G-Spot orgasm. However, it is my firm belief that if you try and try again ‒ if you are in that 85% - you will have a G-Spot orgasm eventually. Hey, there are worse things to have to practice, right?
INSIDE OUT
Many women do not know that a clitoral orgasm is an EXTERNAL orgasm, while the G-Spot orgasm is an INTERNAL orgasm. You can only have a G-Spot orgasm through INTERNAL stimulation of some sort. A true vaginal, or G-Spot orgasm, can only be achieved from the inside out.
In order to find the G-Spot, you must look for the characteristics of the ‘spot’ ‒ which are mainly a rougher, spongy textured area which is in stark contrast to the smooth insides of the vagina. The G-Spot is located about 1-2 inches inside the vagina, on the TOP (belly side) vaginal wall. The spot is small, usually about the size of a quarter or even a bit smaller, like a lima-bean.
The best way to find this spot is to feel with your fingers, to get an idea of where it is. It is easier for a partner to find this spot than it is for you to find it yourself ‒ but it is not impossible to find it solo.
The best way to find the G-Spot is to:
1) Get as aroused as possible. The more aroused you are, the more prominent the G-Spot will become. While the clitoris and the G-Spot are not connected, blood flows to the clitoris and the paraurethral glands in the same manner, so if you are extra aroused and sensitive, your G-spot will become more pronounced. In fact, the most successful you will be in finding the G-Spot will probably be once you have had a few clitoral orgasms!
2) Be relaxed. If you are tense and nervous about it, or over concentrating on finding your G-Spot, you are not likely to find it. Much like over complicating a clitoral orgasm, you can over complicate finding your G-Spot as well. If you are relaxed and comfortable, truly enjoying sex with your partner or your masturbation session, then you will be more successful in finding your spot.
3) Fingers first. Although G-Spot toys are wonderful appliances for stimulating the G-Spot, it is easier to find it for the first time with your fingers. You can sense the change in texture and feel the size and location much better from the INSIDE than you can from the outside with a toy. Once you have found it, toys may become your best aide in stimulating the gland.
4) Lie on your back. Even though the G-Spot is located on the top wall and many people advocate a “doggy style” position for stimulating the spot, finding it the first time is easiest when you are on your back, legs pulled to your sides. The access to your vagina is easier ‒ kind of like at a gynecologist’s office ‒ and the spot can be reached easier this way than trying to put your fingers into yourself while kneeling doggy style.
Once you have decided to find your G-spot, it is good to set your mind to not pressuring yourself. Just try to relax and have fun with it. Remember to enjoy all the sexual touching you do to yourself, or that your partner does to you, whether you find your G-Spot or not.
FINDING WITH A PARTNER: If you are lucky enough to have a partner to aid you in finding and stimulating your G-Spot, then it will be their responsibility to feel for the rough patch on your vaginal wall. As I already suggested, make sure that you have gotten extremely aroused and are relaxed and ready to play. If you have had an orgasm or two it would help greatly. The best way to find the spot is when a partner is engaging in oral sex (helps with the arousal) and has his or her fingers inside of the vagina as well. If the fingers (let’s say 2) are placed into the vagina ‒ palm side up ‒ and then the clitoral stimulation is continued with oral pleasure ‒ the spot is more likely to be engorged with blood ‒ as the clitoris is.
Your partner should use his fingers to feel around for the spot, gently searching your insides for that difference in texture. Once he finds it, there are many ways to stimulate it to orgasm ‒ which I will go into in just a moment.
FINDING IT SOLO: It is not impossible to find and stimulate your own G-Spot. I have done it many, many times ‒ so I know it can be done. Finding it for the first time might be a little more difficult, but once you know where it is, you can get to it quicker the next time. As with partner play, make sure you are extremely aroused. I suggest you give yourself a clitoral orgasm or two just to be as aroused and relaxed as you can be. Then, lie on your back, legs bent as far up as you can. Place 2 of your fingers inside of your vagina and feel around for the different texture inside. When you notice the spongy patch ‒ that is your spot.
While it is harder to do this solo, and easier to do it with a toy, I do advise women to try to find it manually (with fingers) first ‒ just so they know exactly where it is.
STIMULATING YOUR SPOT
I am going to preface this section with a warning. Just because you have found your G-Spot doesn’t mean you will have a G-Spot orgasm. Having a G-Spot orgasm takes patience, practice and the ability to let yourself go in a way you have no idea of until you get to that point. Once you have had a G-Spot orgasm, you will understand exactly what I mean.
So, whether you have a partner or not, once you or they have found your “rough patch” and you are ready, willing and able to try and have that G-Spot orgasm, there are a few tried and true methods to reach that goal.
1) Come Hither Mr. Orgasm: I am sure I will not be the first to write or to explain that the best way to stimulate the G-Spot manually ‒ that is with fingers ‒ is by placing the fingers (preferably at least 2) inside the vagina, PALM SIDE UP, and then finding the spot and rubbing in a “come hither” motion with the fingertips. It is this rubbing motion which stimulates the gland and helps it to fill with the ejaculate. The interesting thing about this is, it can take a long, long, long, long, long time to actually reach orgasm this way. While you may be able to reach a clitoral orgasm in the blink of an eye, a G-Spot orgasm takes longer for many women. Also, depending on the size of your spot, it may take longer than you are willing to spend. This is probably why many women give up ‒ they just think it takes too long.
The fact is, once that spot is located and the rubbing pressure has begun, you should begin to feel a sort of odd sensation. It should be pleasurable, it also should feel different than when you apply clitoral stimulation. It will feel like a slow build-up that continues to ebb a little at a time, and when you are getting closer to the actual orgasm; you will begin to think you have to pee. YOU DON’T ‒ DO NOT PANIC! What is actually occurring is your paraurethral gland is filling with fluid ‒ the “sponge” which is your G-spot is swelling up. It is putting a little pressure on your bladder, and the fluid will be released from your urethral opening, so it makes sense that you feel the urge to pee.
2) Too Tired? Use Toys: Since sometimes it does take a long, long time to stimulate the G-Spot to orgasm, enlisting the help of a toy can be a big, big help. Or, if you are having solo time, this is the best method to try. The key to having the orgasm is constant PRESSURE. While you might be able to gently rub your clitoris to orgasm, your G-Spot requires a bit harder attention. This is why many G-Spot toys become helpful in stimulating the spot.
Many of the G-Spot toys are specially made with a curved tip. This tip acts as your fingers would with the ‘come hither’ motion. As your partner inserts the toy, the tip rubs your spot in a more consistent and hard manner ‒ which can be more intense than finger pressure. The key is to find the spot and STAY THERE! Keeping a toy on the spot is what is important. Your G-Spot needs the constant pressure to fill up.
While there are hundreds if not thousands of G-Spot toys on the market today, not all of them will work for every woman. Some women require a harder tip, some a softer tip. Still others like the clitoral pressure to be a little more substantial, others don’t want any ‒ just a G-Spot stimulator. Some toys which are not marketed as G-Spot toys can become G-Spot toys when you discover that they get your spot just the way you want them to. In any case, I have tried many, many toys, and I have my personal favorites that seem to do the trick every time I try to have a G-Spot orgasm.
My favorite has got to be the G-SPOT ELATION . This little number gets me every, single time. It has clitoral pressure, plus a rotating shaft. It has a curved head AND pleasure beads that tease all your insides. This is my number 1 pick for a G-Spot toy. After GG, I also had great success with JESSICA’S STROBING PROBE ‒ while it looks a little like a flamingo, the curved head will get you where you need it to. The TERA PATRICK RIBBED G is completely different as it is shorter, fatter, and definitely has a way of getting to that spot. For some water fun, the waterproof WAVE G-SPOT FINDER is an odd looking toy, but really is designed to get where you need it too. It is shorter as far as insertion, but you really don’t need more than a few inches when we are speaking G-Spot. JESSICA’S STROBING PENIS is not marketed as a G-Spot toy, but has that familiar TIP that you will get to know and love when on the search for a good G-Spot toy. Finally, the BLUE META-JEL HEART ON vibrator is not at all recommended or marketed as a G-Spot toy, but every, single time I use this toy, I have a G-Spot orgasm! So, why not call it a G-Spot toy for ME.
Once you have decided on a toy, the key is to find your spot and STICK WITH IT. Many women think that once they get to the spot it will be easy ‒ it isn’t. Sorry to burst your bubble, but it just isn’t easy ‒ especially the first time. You need to remember the first rules ‒ arousal, relaxation, etc. Then, find your spot with your toy and keep it there. Whether you are gently pressing back and forth, or whether the toy has a vibration function, do not give up! Keep the pressure going until you feel that build-up and the urge to pee.
3) Remember to BREATHE!: A G-Spot orgasm, as well as a regular orgasm, is very much about mind control. When you are stimulating the spot for a long, long, long time ‒ frustration sets in. You tend to loose your arousal and get discouraged. DON’T. Remember to breathe in ‒ deep, concentrated breaths ‒ and breathe out the same way. Especially when you feel the crux of the orgasm hitting ‒ do not stop the breathing! Continue to feel the pleasure and breathe in and out purposefully. Once the orgasm hits ‒ you will most likely be breathless for a moment ‒ as many women actually gasp when the orgasm hits ‒ but then as you come down it will feel much like a small high.
4) Positioning for the ‘O’: There are some sexual positions that will work better than others to stimulate the G-Spot, the only problem is, for first timers, this doesn’t usually produce results. However, if you are a more experienced G-spot orgasmer (yes, I said ‘orgasmer’ then you can try these positions in hopes of reaching one during sex.
Doggy: While it is hard to stimulate the G-Spot manually in the Doggy position, this is a good position during intercourse. Simply because the G-Spot is located on the top wall of the vagina, and in the doggy position the man’s penis automatically rubs against the top wall ‒ this increases chances of stimulation. In this position, the woman must maintain her doggy position, resisting the urge to slouch down. Also, increased clitoral pleasure will help with the engorgement of the glands.
Woman on back, legs at sides: If you lie on your back and press your legs up and above toward your head, and then your man straddles between you at such an angle to rub the top of your vagina, this will also produce the friction needed to produce a G-Spot orgasm. It is also possible to boost the height by putting a pillow underneath the lady’s bottom to raise her up.
Women facing backwards: If you mount your man facing backwards, and then lie down toward his feet, his penis is pulled forward and down in a manner that rubs tightly against your whole vagina, including your G-Spot. This position can be successful on many different levels ‒ and is fun for general sex.
The ‘X’ Factor: One of my favorite positions, the ‘X’ factor is a wonderful position for stimulation of the G-Spot. In fact, it might even be the best position because it is possible to maintain this position for a long time. The man lies on the bed, legs spread. The woman lowers herself down onto his penis, then slowly, SLOWLY, lowers herself backwards on the bed so that her feet are by his head and they appear as they are in an “X.” In this position, the man’s penis is barely penetrating her, and where it is hitting is just barely within the vagina ‒ right where the G-Spot is. Also, because of the angle, the penis is forced to rub up against the TOP wall of the vagina. This position can be maintained for a long, long time because it is so comfortable. It is also great for clitoral stimulation because of the easy access by both partners. For this reason, the “X” is probably the best position for obtaining a G-Spot orgasm.
Nature of the fluid
Studies have been done by Beverly Whipple, John Perry, Gary Schuback, Milan Zaviacic and Cabello Santamaria but their findings are limited. While current information offers no solid information about the source of the fluid, chemical analysis performed on the fluid has revealed that while it sometimes contains at least traces of urine, it regularly contains chemical markers unique to the prostate (whether male or female).
The latest research indicates the possibility that all women produce female ejaculate, even if they are not aware of it:
* The expelled or released fluid is not urine, it is an alkaline liquid secreted by the paraurethral (alongside the urethra) glands.
* The paraurethral glands produce an enzyme called prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), along with prostate-specific antigen (PSA).
* Skene's gland also produces Human Protein 1, a trait formerly believed to be unique to the male prostate.
Studies have found that:
* 54-60% of women have experienced emission of fluid at orgasm,
* with 6% reporting that they regularly ejaculate in a forceful manner, and
* an additional 13% stating that they have done so infrequently.
Dr. Shubach believes that "most women, the overwhelming proportion of women" are capable of ejaculation.
Skene's glands and female ejaculation
Women do not have an exact equivalent of the male prostate gland, an essential part of the male reproductive system. They do, however, have structures which are homologous to the male prostate. Homologous structures between men and women have developed from the same embryonic tissue. For example, the testicles of the male and the ovaries of the female are also homologous.
The homologous equivalent of the male prostate for women are the para-urethral glands or Skene's glands or female prostate. This identification requires a broader definition Skene's glands because the term is often reserved for the two para-urethral glands closest to the opening of the urethra. These glands are there because, for the first weeks in development, the male and female embryo are not yet differentiated.
Fluid production in para-urethral glands
The relative size and structure of the para-urethral glands varies considerably from woman to woman. The fluid produced is similar to that produced by the male prostate and, as in the male, passes into the urethra ‒ and in some cases may pass into the vagina. The glands fill with fluid during sexual arousal and may be felt through the vaginal wall.
Swelling of para-urethral tissue
The swelling of the tissue surrounding the urethra may be a combination of the glands filling with fluid and of the swelling of the woman’s erectile tissue, the corpus cavernosum clitoridis. In a male the corpus cavernosum penis produces erections. Swelling of the non-visible part of the clitoris will also be evident.
Ejection of the fluid
It is, it seems, the rhythmic contractions of pelvic muscle during orgasm which expel the accumulated fluid as at least one constituent of female ejaculation.
Amount of fluid ejaculated
The amount of fluid released can be considerable, sometimes up to a tablespoon and a half through repeated filling and emptying of the glands during orgasm. In vivo studies show that the amount can be considerably higher, producing volumes as much as one to one and a half litres of such fluid.
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Posted:Aug 4, 2009 12:29 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2009 10:53 pm
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i got to go skinny dipping in the middle of the day for the first time. went with my ex (which wasnt the best idea since i'm trying to not mess around with him anymore). enjoyed it then but now i'm paying for it...i have sunburn that hurts so bad on my tits n shoulders...i guess i should b happy my ass isnt burnt
...so here's a question for u all...where is the worst place u every got sunburned? who were u with?
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...though my guy said he was doing the things that I told him to do and the other guy said he was really good.
