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Posted:Nov 3, 2013 7:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2014 10:48 pm
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Gemini is the writer, Cancer the more social.. so what you see here will be mostly Gemini, if you see us in the chat rooms it will be Cancer.
Before marriage Gemini had a few unusual sexual experiences. Among them 3 MFMs, and 1FMF . As the extra man invited to join a couple I felt incredibly complimented and trusted. It was a revelation to discover that a husband could love his wife's pleasure so much that he'd ask a friend to join them. And I learned then that women are capable of so much more pleasure than we poor men are, and how erotic and fulfilling it can be to let HER pleasure be the focus.
Cancer also had some past experience, but hers was unfulfilled. The experience she thought theyd have, with a friend joining THEM, played out as her and the friend alone while her husband went elsewhere to masturbate. Turned out he had been single and porn addicted so long he couldn't be a fulfilling sexual, or a good husband.
We shared our stories when our 8 years as friends turned to romance, and surprised the hell out of each other. As friends we had no idea how naughty each of us could be. And we agreed that if the future brought us the opportunity to be naughty together wed consider it.
We have since then mostly let fate bring our experiences. We have had intimate encounters with 5 men and 1 women. None of them went exactly as we had thought, so we are used to the idea you can never really plan out a fantasy in advance. Each had its erotic excitements for one or the other of us, but both of us came away with different opinions of the experience.
A couple of the men Cancer wouldn't have picked purposely, and they actually disappointed her sexually. But Gemini did finish the evening for her were they failed, and he thought it was really erotic just to have tried. But Gemini also has to admit to a little disappointment that neither man could finish the act. One it turns out had a long term erection problem... and the other just freaked out by it. Which is one reason we feel waiting for a random chance doesn't work, if the extra party is surprised and uncomfortable, well it doesn't make for a good erection.
Two of the men were involved multiple times. Cancer decided she might be more comfortable, and able to make the man more comfortable, if she was intimate with him alone first. Gemini, as open minded and erotic as he is, really isn't in to that. He really likes Cancer's orgasms, and wants to be a part, even if its just watching or holding her hand. But we gave this a try... with the first Cancer explained that Gemini was cool with them being together, but really wanted to be involved eventually. The sex was always in the house with Gemini .. and Gemini got to do a little peeping which was fun, but the friend dropped out of the picture.
The next guy was in many ways a mistake, but not a regret. He was a previous lover of Cancer's, and doesn't live in the same town. Gemini was uncomfortable because he just couldn't feel a part of what was happening from so far away and not being able to be with Cancer immediately after, flush and wet with orgasm and ready for more with Gemini. But Cancer was getting a lot from this, and it became a regular boyfriend thing. Being away from home, and and stress, Cancer was more relaxed than at home. Her boyfriend had found in her new ways of pleasure, and she brought what she found home to share with Gemini. BUT.... it got out of hand... Cancer begin spending ALL of her sexual energy at the boyfriends, the boyfriend while agreeing to takes steps toward involving Gemini never went through with it... and eventually it ended badly.
Finally to be said.. Cancer had a lovely girlfriend who was separated and 18 months sexless. She offered Gemini to her friend for a night. Gemini was really surprised.. it took a few weeks to work up to it. But when it did happen was truly amazed. Taking the lady by the hand, kissing her, and then taking her to the bedroom to please her.
Again, things didn't go quite as planned, Gemini did please the lady in ways, but Cancer was just a little freaked to see him actually fuck another woman, so the intercourse for the night was just between Cancer and Gemini. But Cancer did make sure Gemini did all he could with the rest of his skills, and even got so aroused she helped a bit.
The sum of these experiences is a more aware and mature understanding of what we want and what might happen, the good and the bad. The best times were those when we all new what was happening in advance. And when we all new the sex was for fun. In fact, Gemini was amazed with how much fun it was not to have to date, romance, seduce, worry about rejection, or the morning after. JUST FUN SEX was really really cool. We also learned that you need to keep your relationship as a couple ONLY for love and intimacy. You can go outside one partners comfort zone for the other, but not too far.
WE thought wed try here to continue our journey... take random fate out of the mix, and find partners who were already up for the experience...
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Life and it's many roads.
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Posted:Oct 8, 2014 4:36 am
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2014 2:19 am
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So, here we are and this account hasn't been utilized a whole lot. There's many reasons for this, in fact too numerous to even list. But the main reason is that life has shifted roads for us especially me, Cancer. There have come about new and exciting possibilities, but also some disappointment. Somewhere in there, there has to be a happy medium? I'm a glass half full kind of gal, so I tend to be overly optimistic, where Gemini is a "don't count your chickens before they hatch".
Also, we have separated in some facets of our lives and with that comes change. While Kendell is opening some desires that he has personally and I do not share. I have found solace in where my career path is hopefully leading and and inevitable "real" contracted job with benefits. The bonus is that I'm really good at what I do, and it is obvious by those around me.
Now, you may be wondering what this has to do with this site which is about sex..or at least that is it's primary function. Well, I wanted to point out that you won't see me/us like you did at the very beginning of the year. My personal motivation has shifted, so I tend to hold fast to what I NEED to do, instead of the primal sexual awareness. I'm funneling those energies into a future the is drastically more important than my pussy. This is my view point and Gemini most certainly won't agree. He doesn't frequent this site anyways..but I won't speak for him.
For those of you that are our friends, I apologize for basically "falling off the planet", it was necessary (at least for me) to re-prioritize what is really important for the "bigger picture". Hang in there friends, I'll come and go to chat every once in a full moon....lol tonight full and an eclipse. Thanks Cancer
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Posted:Mar 30, 2014 6:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2014 2:42 am
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Just posting a quick, well maybe as I NEVER am brief, update. Gemini here, the male, btw. I got a little frustrated and left for awhile...its been so hard to meet people. When we have had the time and opportunity, which is rare with our schedules, things have fallen through.
And the people my lovely Terra has met online and like, and so do I, are for the most part too far away TO meet. We finally decided....what does it hurt to just MEET a couple of local members in a neutral setting like Startbucks even if we haven't gotten to know them well yet online. But, I think we've dilly dallied around so much the people we were interested in decided we were flakes and gave up on us. Can't blame them, although I did give my phone number to 2 members and was serious about meeting.
And with our schedules so ridiculously busy, even when we find the time, the energy and will are difficult to muster for just a cup of coffee...LOL. Me, as the resident pervert would be easy to seduce quite frankly, but she( and righteously so as she risks the most) is much more careful than I.
I even sent a message to a new couple this evening, admitting up front I was probably wasting their time... but I needed to reach out to SOMEONE at least and let them know I found them attractive.... The wife at least is finding a lot of fulfillment in making friends and talking here. I do get a lot out of sharing stories, but haven't been as successful at it. After all, she is the attraction. And so I am more "action" desiring....
So what more can I say. To those of you we have started getting to know, and never followed through. Its not truly that we are fakes or flakes. But just damn time and willpower challenged. Terra's lady friend she met we should have met again weeks ago, but crap just got in the way.
The photographer I convinced her to let me meet, she actually surprised me by saying she wanted to go too. But he hasn't called me back. And the other single man that mentored me in a way through some confusion, I am sure feels we are a waste of his time. Too bad though, I seriously would like a first time with something new to include him, even if it were without the wife.
As for the couple I contacted tonight? If I were in charge, and you were interested, Id find a way. Id love to just get OUTDOORS in the clean mountain air for an evening! And if we also got to experience something new as well, oh yeah LOL. My lovely wife and I are just too different. We have the same end goal, but I can decide I want something, commit to it, and find a way to make it happen. But she needs to be romanced into the right mood. And if I were able to romance her, well, we wouldn't be here so much LOL. Id rather right now be in bed giving her all sorts of pleasure... instead of blogging here and hoping someone nearby can get her attention as well as a couple of our new friends who live so far away. She even got too busy to play much on Skype, just when our favorite friend had asked me to join in LOL.
But to be fair, she has REALLY been working very hard, and very successfully. I am really proud of her and the recognition she has gotten by her employers is well deserved. But I am, as she will tell you, a horny little toad.... and I would very much like to be giving pleasure to someone right now, preferably my wife, but also very lustfully wishing to play well with others also.... if you are thinking it Ill say up front... I wouldn't want to play without her... if she suggested it I might....but it wouldn't be as fun and Id be worried about her feelings the whole time.... besides, I'm the toad and she's the princess LOL. While my life experience is that I am appreciated AFTER the fact as a passionate and giving and somewhat skilled lover.... getting past my awkward shyness and lack of self confidence in my looks( great face, great legs, but way too much flabby me between the two) is a challenge. Close your eyes and go for it, I am worth it!
Hey, at least I have a sense of humor. Well, I think I am funny! And while Id rather be touching and pleasing someone with my hands and mouth right now( don't want things to end too quickly so have to leave the "rat bastard" as my wife named him in my pants until he is called for.)... at least writing this is making ME laugh a little. Its Sunday morning, I am in Fresno for 4 or 5 hours, but have to be elsewhere about an hour away by noon or so. And I am ALWAYS horny in the mornings,lots of sexual energy when I wake up, while my dear wife is rarely even awake in the mornings LOL. So if you are one of the lucky few with my phone number and by some miracle see this blog in the next few mins give me a call and Ill buy you a cup of coffee at Startbucks and enthrall you with tales of what I WISH we could do...
Btw, I don't match the picture. I hate the same face in the mirror every morning so I change occasionally, and this time went for the extreme and shaved the face and head. And, if I must say so myself, I am DAMN good looking, and Like Sean Connery am just getting BETTER with age.
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Two paths to the same destination or so we thought
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Posted:Jan 9, 2014 11:30 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2014 11:09 pm
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You may not believe at all in astrology. I certainly have my doubts, but decided a few years ago that if God IS.... then he certainly COULD have given us signs to guide us like astrology and numerology. Its a lot more productive and interesting to accept that "anything" is possible instead of believing nothing is.
Have heard it said many times that astrological profiles are so broad they fit anyone. Well, not in my experience. My brother, pure Aquarius, major asshole. Me, Gemini to a fault. My father... Gemini Cancer cusp, strong traits from both and a formidable man.... rational thought combined with empathy and profound intuitive gifts. And my Cancer. I wrote to the "Skeptic" columnist for Scientific American about her. He had written, correctly, that statistically speaking, with 300 million people and 70 years of life, we were all bound to know SOMEONE who had made a correct prediction just by pure chance. But Cancer has made 9 specific predictions within hours of them coming true. Just one example... she woke me up one night, in overwhelming grief...not because she had "dreamed" but that there were absolutely without a doubt THOUSANDS of people drowning.... We got up a few hours later to the news of the terrible Tsunami in South Asia... Indian Ocean. And the Skeptic wrote back in agreement... the statistical probability of random chance could NOT explain Cancer's gift/curse.
So why do I bring this up? Because She and I agree on so many things... but come to those conclusions so DIFFERENTLY that sometimes in an argument we start off "Yes we agree completely, but the WAY you reached the same decision as I makes no fucking sense!" So here we are on Discreet Gay Dating.
Both of us would like to expand our sexplay to include others. Before Discreet Gay Dating we depended on random chance, luck, alcohol and friends to bring us infrequent, unplanned and unreliable encounters. SO, we decided to try a different path. Instead of trying to find sexually open minded and compatible playmates from among a small pool of friends, try finding friends form a LARGE pool of sexually adventureous others.
It turns out, we are on different paths though in seeking that goal. Cancer communicates in world wide forums. Chatting about everything and anything... discovering the people, men and women, she likes in often completely non sexual ways. She finds friends. BUT..... so far nearly all those friends she has made who we are also interested in sexually live so far away that unless someone drops a load of cash and free time on us we will never have the time or money to meet.... YES I like the friends she has made and there are some I would love to play with... that's true. But it just isn't likely to happen. Her path was based on her empathy and intuition, meeting the right people and forming friendships.
Then there is my path. I'm the over rational gemini. Making a plan,
following it until, being Gemini, I get bored and frustrated and quit before fully realizing it. Gemini's are renown for rarely finishing anything as they move on to something else, their attention always moving to something new before the old is complete. So I approached Discreet Gay Dating completely differently, with the idea that to meet, the people had to be reasonably local. From Central California, even the major areas like LA or San Fran were too far for regular friends, only long weekend hookups.
So I played with the cupid settings. Searched for locals myself, or let them find us in our "viewed us" list. Wrote a few messages. Made a few contacts with sexually compatible others. BUT..... that didn't add up to the friendship level that certainly Cancer wants, and I understand. I am a little wilder. Having lived a long time without decent relationships, emotionally or sexually, I could let myself go down the path of random one night quickies, and see the fun in no commitment no regret no romance easy sex.
But I also understand the danger in that, as well as the benefit that could come from actually finding good steady dependable playmates, and friends. One of our friends who was a short term sexplaymate as well demonstrates this. He was known and trusted enough to play free... He could stay in our home with no "suspicions" as he was a friend. We didn't have to worry that he was trying to get Cancer to play without me...they did and it was OK ( to a point). We knew he wasn't motivated by anything other than sex was fun, and we are friends. And to me, the perve, that protection was unecessary so the sex was cummy and messy..that was great!
So... I looked local, trying to find likely candidates for both sex and friendship. But completely opposite Cancer... I looked for likely SEX partners first then considered the friendship issues. And.... well she didn't even feel compelled to even chat with most of them. Her intuition, as well as her different path, made my choices mostly uninteresting and untrustworthy. ( as in MY judgement wasn't trustworthy, which is true in its fashion) There is one gentleman I really like locally, and so does she, but his experience is so VAST she is afraid of him, and I doubt we'd fit his lifestyle well enough to be long term friends.
There have been a few others I shared with, and they instead of following my advice, and cruise that chat rooms patiently and get to know Cancer and let her know them, instead started IM and PM and messaging her and basicly being pushy. There are a couple still in the "maybe" category... but they have probably lost interest in us as we are moving slowly and IN DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS!
And the funniest shit of all, Cancer is meeting a lot of women.... I really do enjoy multiple partner sex where it is more than one man working together to please one woman. I am open to other things, but that's the one thing I have had experience with that has been really fun. Been with 2 women, erotic but TOO much work. And never really just wanted to "swap" So... I have been mostly talking with men.
Cancer also likes men. And has made some good, albeit distant male friends. But... surprisingly, the vast majority of her friends are WOMEN. In the real world that has never been the case... she is one of those women who without at all being a tomboy, knows cars, shoots guns, and just hangs out really comfortably with the guys. She has few very close women friends, and a lot of men friends. So I am meeting mostly guys, and she is meeting mostly gals. We'd be doing better I suppose if I were gay and she lesbian LOL.
SO here we are. I have met a few men here locally and a pair of couples I might like to meet. And two men I do really like and WANT to meet. But sex... and friendship? My way of meeting and communicating is just too analytical, too rational. I don't have a "feel" for my prospects the way Cancer does. On the other hand, she has made some friends who are thousands of miles away that I like not only as friends, but would happily get naughty with as well... but they are thousands of miles away!
The destination we seek...sexplaymates who may become long term friends as well... reliable, safe, fun and more fulfilling. Her path finds great people far away, and mine close people, but maybe not so great.
Its still been fun.... but the desire to experience something MORE than just US has actually interfered in our own sex life. We've spent hours searching for a friend to c2c with when we could have enjoyed each other... and it seems we are masturbating more than ever!
SO I, the easily bored and frustrated Gemini, am pretty much ready either to throw in the towel, or renegotiate with Cancer our goals. If you've read this far, you may as well know my little secret. The Shrink says a lot of men as they age turn a profound love of their own cock into curiosity about another. Its not quite bi sexual, as its attraction to "cocks" not men. But they do come attached. Me, I love the feel of my cock in my hand. And as a young athletic martial artist could almost suck it as well. And that has mutated into a profound desire to at least ONCE before I'm old and ugly( is it too late?) stroke off and suck off another cock. And there's a guy here I think might just do.
And Cancer too has had her own bicuriosity stimulated. It is however completely different and not motivated by sexual desire but something more esoteric. Me, I want to suck a cock, her, I am quite sure she has absolutely no desire just to eat pussy, but she is drawn towards physical intimacy with a woman. So we have ended up not only on different paths, but traveling through unexpected terrain as well.
This may be a complete waste of time. It may be that something she did "for me" turns into something for her and not me. I do know one thing for sure... I am bored as hell most of the time here, or completely obsessed and unsatisfied. And in the end what I think we came here to find isn't what I really want out of this at all. Trying to find long term friendships and sex playmates may be either impossible or just too much work for me. But it might just be worth the money, the time, the frustration, the late nights if we can both at least experience some of what its brought out.
Ironic, that coming here to find heterosexual playmates to share with each other, Cancer and Gemini, and instead all I really want is to suck one particular guys cock( she knows who I mean) and be done with it all LOL. Typical Gemini, never finishing what he starts, but moving off to something different...
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A fantasy of hers.
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Posted:Nov 28, 2013 8:31 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2014 9:32 pm
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I would like very much to have a little photography fun. I am a novice but have a really good camera, software and imagination. I would like to do some photo shoots of a more creative design. I have noticed that most the pictures of people involve a shot of their private parts in some form or another…but nothing really artistically done (not that often). I would like to do more creative shots, adding more intrigue and mystic to it. Using different items and accessories could be not only exciting but very HOT. If you think about it when you take a picture look at what else is in the frame…look at the whole picture..not just the body in the frame. Ok, so I sound bizarre…I don't care. There is more to a photograph than the central object. Lighting, what one is lying on and then presentation makes a difference and impression. Simply by adding vines (silk ones from a store) and wrapping them cascading down the woman's curvature can add a simple elegant and naturism that can be influential. What would the viewer most likely associate with that picture is jungle and exotic. Using body pants to have wisps of waves cascading along will invoke a flowing thought. So, yes I want to play with images and bodies and give them a fuller picture to be had when seen. It gets me hot just thinking about it. Cancer
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So we have taken a few baby steps.
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Posted:Nov 23, 2013 6:50 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2014 8:54 am
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Hello, this is the wifey here. I just wanted to say that we have, over the last couple of weeks stepped out of the box and let loose a little…or a lot depending on your point of view. Last Friday night we opened the webcam up and I masturbated while a great deal of viewers watched. Luckily, I had a lovely lady cam back….and though she did not do anything (like take off her clothes), she served as inspiration. It was a experience that I did not know I would share. Though honestly I got a little flustered when I had to take a break in between orgasms. Yes, I can really cum that much…but I have to take breaks. Many of you viewers complimented my hubby as being "support staff" and also the degree of acting towards the viewer ship. I have done stage acting my entire life and found it just as easy to transition over to camera. Then Saturday night…a wild hair and again a show. This time we took it one step further and invited a friend. This friend is from this site and will remain anonymous but he was just as nervous as us. He was respectful, kind and intent. I'm sure we will see him again even though we were not looking for a single male necessarily.
My hubby was concerned that I would panic after-the-fact on the cam thing…how many watched…and that I invited someone in. Well, none of that happened. THough I do see a necessity for my hubby to get his time in the spot light…any suggestions? Wifey
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