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Posted:Jan 16, 2013 10:19 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 2:40 pm
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Headed to the expo looking for some fun not really hearing much about whats going on in vegas.
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Posted:Jan 15, 2013 4:54 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 2:41 pm
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Why does Discreet Gay Dating keep changing me email to this stupid format.
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Posted:Nov 19, 2012 7:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 2:41 pm
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Discreet Gay Dating your new message format sucks.
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For newbies and oldies
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Posted:Aug 30, 2011 3:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 2:43 pm
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LifeStyle Definitions
AC/DC - Bi-Sexual Person(s)
Arts - Fetishes
B&D or BD - Bondage and Discipline
Back Door - Anal Sex
BBW - Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight.
BDSM - Bondage - Discipline - SadoMasochism
BI or Bisexual - Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.
Bi-Curious - Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited Bisexual experience.
Bondage - The practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure.
Can Entertain - Someone that has a private location and is willing to invite others over.
Can Travel - Someone that is willing to travel, generally beyond an hours drive.
CD - Cross Dresser - Person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally used by men.
Clean - Diseases and Drug Free
Cougar - An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.
Couple - Two people, generally one male, one female.
CPL - Couple
Cunnilingus - Oral stimulation of the vagina/clitoris
DD - Clean, disease and Drug free.
Discipline - Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire.
DP - Double Penetration, simultanious Vaginal and Anal.
DVP - Double Vaginal Penetration - Two penises in one vagina.
Entertain - Can Entertain
Exhibitionism - Showing off in public, involving nudity.
F - Female
Fellation - Oral stimulation of the penis
Fetish - Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects.
Full Swap - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to AND including intercourse.
FWB - Friends With Benefits: Friends who have casual sex without any kind of commitment.
Gay - Homosexual, generally a male, but not always.
GBM - Gay Black Man
GWM - Gay White Male
Heterosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex.
Homosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex.
Hotwife - A happily married woman that enjoys having sex outside the marriage with the full support of her husband. The husband is generally monogamous with his wife and may or may not watch her with other men.
Hung - One with a large penis
HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight.
ISO - In Search Of
Lesbian - Gay women.
LTR - Long Term Relationship
M - Male
MBC - Married Black Couple
MBiC - Married Bi Couple
MILF - Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck
Moresome - More than four.
MWC - Married White Couple
NSA - No Strings Attached
Off-Premise - A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play. This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.
P/P - Photo/Phone
S&M or SM - Sadism/Masochism
Safe - Someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.
SBF - Single Black Female
SBiF - Single Bi Female
SBiM - Single Bi Male
SBM - Single Black Male
SGL - Single
Sodomy - Usually Anal sex, possibly forced.
Soft Swing/Swingers - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.
STD - Sexually Transmitted Disease.
STR8 or STR or Straight - Straight, a Heterosexual person.
Swap or Swapping - Two couples exchanging partners
SWF - Single White Female
SWM - Single White Male
Unicorn - Slang for a single, generally bi-sexual female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare.
Versatile - Bisexual
Voyeur or Voyeurism - One who enjoys watching.
Water Sports - Urination involving sexual stimulation.
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Got it done
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Posted:May 1, 2011 9:13 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 2:43 pm
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We had a mmfm play date and have the vid a couple of things off our bucket list for the year.
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10 commandments
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Posted:Mar 18, 2011 7:48 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 2:43 pm
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1. Never attempt to break up a marriage.
2. Always keep dates unless you give ample notice of changing circumstances.
3. Always keep the first meeting on a "no strings attached" basis, but be prepared to swing if it is mutually agreeable or to give an honest answer if something doesn't click.
4. Never, under any circumstances exert pressure on a partner to swing.
5. Restrict discussions of swinging to known swingers and interested persons seeking information.
6. Protect the anonymity of other swingers by refraining from unauthorized "name dropping."
7. Always maintain the highest standards of personal cleanliness and appearance.
8. Do not engage in any unlawful activity that would discredit swingers as a group.
9. Be friendly and warm with your swing partners, but understand that there is a type of emotional involvement, which is properly reserved for a spouse or "primary significant other."
10. Always show respect for the personal attitudes, feelings and "hang-ups" of other swingers.
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Just a reminder
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Posted:Feb 17, 2011 7:55 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 2:44 pm
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General Swinging Etiquette
All of us want to be successful as swingers. It doesn't matter how often, with whom, where, or in what style we swing. One of the nicest things about our lifestyle is that most of us relate to each other with understanding, thoughtfulness, and common courtesy; just as we ourselves wish to be treated.
1. BE COURTEOUS
Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden and Silver rules.
2. BE FRIENDLY
Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.
3. RESPOND TO ALL INVITATIONS
RSVP means please reply to the invitation. It does NOT mean reply only if you plan to attend. the most frustrating part of hosting, be it a party, a group or another couple, is people who are discourteous enough not to respond, PERIOD. Good etiquette and good social courtesy DEMAND you respond, by either calling or writing to say yes OR no.
4. NEVER ARRIVE EMPTY HANDED
When you go to someone's home for a party, ask if there is something you can bring. (it's amazing how many supplies, other than food are used up at an average party.) If you are not going as a couple, a house- gift is appropriate (and not necessarily wine.)
5. GO PREPARED
Take whatever you personally are going to need with you. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms, etc.. If you plan to stay over, sleeping bags or blankets and pillows are necessities.
6. CLEANLINESS
Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or un-fresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO.
7. RESPECT OTHERS FEELINGS
Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things.
8. DON'T BE PUSHY
If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.
9. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU
Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. there is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
10. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO
One of the basic etiquette's in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, can however lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. the swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.
11. ALCOHOL OR DRUGS
Most of us do not use DRUGs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.
12. PRACTICE SAFER SEX
It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, aids, yeast infection, etc.., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.
13. CALL TO SAY THANKS
Most people only use the telephone if they are going to go somewhere. Lost seems to the social ambience of a "thank You Note" or phone call to someone whose hospitality you enjoyed. It means a lot to most people, and they will surely remember you when planning their next event. Don't you like to be thanked?
14. BE GOOD HOSTS
When you have people coming to your home, try to anticipate their needs: put clean sheets on the beds; keep plenty of clean washcloths and towels available. Show your guests through the house so that they will know where the bathrooms, kitchen, and other rooms are located.
15. ANSWERING ADS
All replies to an ad should be answered in two weeks even if it is a No. Remember not all people you write to are interested in you or your partners sexual heroics. A first letter should include a brief description of yourselves, where you saw the ad, your ad number and your social and sexual interests. An SAE should be included with your original reply as many couples receive a large number of replies which can be costly to reply to.
16. ENJOY YOURSELF
Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.
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Movie critics
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Posted:Jan 16, 2011 9:54 am
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2011 4:00 pm
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Well you really have to love some of the people on here. We post vids on here and there are guys that just want to hate on them they are great critics. Then when you go to there profile they are so original they have dick pics (wow imagine that) and of course no vids.
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2011 SEXUAL BUCKET LIST
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Posted:Dec 19, 2010 11:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 2:45 pm
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1. MORE SEX (duh)
2. WE WILL HAVE A MMFM FOURSOME(CHECK)
3. HOST AT LEAST 3 MEET AND GREETS
4. RENT A HOUSE FOR A WEEKEND FOR A THEME SWING PARTY
5. HAVE 3 MFM THREESUMS
6. HAVE 3 FMF THREESUMS
7. AT OUR SWING PARTY HAVE A SYBIAN RODEO(for the ladies)
8. POST NEW VIDEOS OF OUR ENCOUNTERS(CHECK)
9. TAKE A TRIP TO HEDO III
10. TRAVEL TO ID, WA. OR. NV. AND FIND A NEW ENCOUNTER
11. Expanding to a MMFM lots of cock(CHECK)
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vids
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Posted:Nov 22, 2010 9:51 pm
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2011 8:21 pm
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Well we added some new vids.
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looking to get back out there
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Posted:Nov 13, 2010 8:13 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 1:32 am
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Well we have been taking a break now we are gonna get back out there and get a mixin going.
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Whats up
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Posted:Sep 18, 2010 11:53 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 1:32 am
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Well another summer has gone by. now its time to get some meet and greets going.
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W.T.F. Discreet Gay Dating
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Posted:Aug 29, 2010 10:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 2:46 pm
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So you raise the prices you restict what standard members can see
you dont allow your paying members allow who they want to see what they want. If we allow a standard member into our network they should be allowed to see our page including pics and vids it would help us as paying costumers get more hits and we would not be waisting our money on here. Now since you are greedy bastards arent getting new members you are putting up new members that are old profiles of people that havent been on here for three months or more.
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To link to this blog (candrplay) use [blog candrplay] in your messages.
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