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just our thoughts and experiances
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FWB= What it means to us
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Posted:Jan 15, 2010 5:43 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2013 6:36 pm
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We see a lot of people talking about making friends with benefits and have wondered what that means to them. To some of them it seems to mean nothing more than a booty call. A person that you know and call up just when you want to get laid.
To us it has a different meaning. A FWB is a person who is first a friend. Someone or some couple that we like to just hang out with. Go to dinner, take in a movie, go out for drinks, what ever, but maybe no sex that time. You know what I mean, the things you do with your friends who aren't part of the lifestyle, but with the added benefit of the sex when we all are in the mood.
We have been lucky to have met people like this, as you can see from our other blogs. These are people who we have had a lot of fun just spending time with weather it was between the sheets or not.
So now that we have told you what FWB means to us. What does it mean to you?
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Time with a friend
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Posted:Jan 4, 2010 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2013 6:39 pm
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We got together with a friend over the weekend. We had met with this person once before at a local restaurant to get to know each other a little better than you can in emails or IM chat. It turned out to be a great night that I think none of us wanted to end, Good food and great conversation.
So finally the stars lined up or something and schedules agreed. We had the house to ourselves and she wanted to make us dinner. We invited her out to the house for the evening. Now no play happened, but that is okay. We had another evening of good food and great conversation about what kinds of things we like to do and many other subjects. We all got to get to know each other even better, and get more comfortable with each other.
Now this is important as the lady of this couple(meaning us) won't play with anyone she isn't comfortable with. As the evening was winding down we had decided to let her know that we would like to take things to the benefits stage, if she was agreeable to it. Now we weren't pushy about it(we believe in treating people the way we want to be treated) and didn't mean that it had to be that night, all though we would have been more then willing if she had been.
The end result of the evening was time well spent with someone we count as a good friend and an agreement that we all would like to take things to the next level.
We hope the stars don't take so long to line up again as we really enjoy spending time with her.
Thanks for another great evening Miss X if you read this one.
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New Year
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Posted:Jan 2, 2010 8:59 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2013 6:37 pm
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We had a great time ending the old year and bringing in the new. New Years eve we went out with a couple we had met threw Discreet Gay Dating back in the spring. They are great people to spend time with and are definitely friends first with benefits close behind. Anyways we had dinner then went to one of the bars in town. We didn't stay there to long, just had a drink then went to another one that had karaoke and had a great time. Shot some pool did some karaoke(them and my wife, I can't sing). Since we had the house to ourselves we had said they could come out to our place for some play but it was a late night and everyone was tired so we all decided to call it a night after a great evening out with friends.
On New Years day we found out we where going to have the house all to ourselves again( spending another night at her friends house). So what do we do with this free night and nothing planned. We give our friends a call and invite them out to the house for an evening of benefits. Wife came up with a great idea, lets play strip poker. They were up for that so we taught the other lady how to play Texas Hold'em and let the game begin.
My wife lost all her clothes first. Now this was her idea and she didn't dress for it, six hands lost and she was done. He lost next so the two of them head off to the bedroom together. Two more hands and she is done. Yeah I win, or did I loose? No worries, my clothes didn't stay on long.
So in short we got to end the old year with good friends and start the new year with some great benefits with those same friends. Who could ask for more? Thanks to you two great FWB's if you read this.
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Met someone new
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Posted:Oct 31, 2009 12:22 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2013 6:38 pm
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Well we finally got to meet someone new. She is the second person we have met threw Discreet Gay Dating. We invited her out to dinner to talk and get to know each other a little better. We had chatted with her a couple of times first, but wow she was just a great person to spend time with(no we didn't play with her but do hope that will come in the future). We spent several hours, that seemed like a lot less just talking about what ever subject came up.
We had not gotten many responses for a little will so was just great meet with someone new that we really feel can become a friend, and hope she will become a friend with benefits in the future.
Like I said she is the second person we have met, the first being a great couple that have become friends and FWB. We really count ourselves lucky to have these new friends and meeting such great people really makes up for the slow times in between.
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any one else have this problem
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Posted:Oct 19, 2009 9:57 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2024 8:58 pm
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It sure seems like the majority of the responses we get are from either married men looking to cheat on their wife (we are not into helping them and will not even meet them) or single men who seem to think I can't satisfy her in the sex department and need their help.
Why can't these males understand that we just want to try new things and don't have to be here to have a great sex life?
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