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Our Discussions About Full Swing
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Posted:Dec 6, 2006 6:39 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 9:26 am
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As I stated in my first post we started out just looking for a nice single women. And while we did find two, regrettably they both turned out to be one-night stands. So my husband brought up “doing” more with a couple, and I said no. Then, a year later, he brought it up again with a specific couple that we had been chatting with for a few months and planned to see while on vacation. At first I said no, but for some reason I started to think about it and thought it would be interesting so I agreed to this one time. And as fate would have it, they flaked out on us right before we went on vaca. In other words, it did not happen, and my response ever since then has been NO. All in all we have probably had 6 full discussions about swinging in the past three years. Now we have discussed “it” since then, as early as last week to be precise, and have come to a monumental agreement. We both have confessed that neither of us really wants or desires to swing, but we both know that we would if the other one really wanted to. My husband says he kept asking because he wanted to make sure I did not change my mind. He thinks too much. Of course none of this has to do with my desires to have a girlfriend.
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Our Discussions About Full Swing
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Posted:Dec 6, 2006 6:38 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 9:26 am
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As I stated in my first post we started out just looking for a nice single women. And while we did find two, regrettably they both turned out to be one-night stands. So my husband brought up “doing” more with a couple, and I said no. Then, a year later, he brought it up again with a specific couple that we had been chatting with for a few months and planned to see while on vacation. At first I said no, but for some reason I started to think about it and thought it would be interesting so I agreed to this one time. And as fate would have it, they flaked out on us right before we went on vaca. In other words, it did not happen, and my response ever since then has been NO. All in all we have probably had 6 full discussions about swinging in the past three years. Now we have discussed “it” since then, as early as last week to be precise, and have come to a monumental agreement. We both have confessed that neither of us really wants or desires to swing, but we both know that we would if the other one really wanted to. My husband says he kept asking because he wanted to make sure I did not change my mind. He thinks too much. Of course none of this has to do with my desires to have a girlfriend.
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Clarification to my last post
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Posted:Dec 3, 2006 8:20 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 9:26 am
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My husband pointed out that my percentages could be alittle off since we rarely chat with couples that are upfront about wanting to full swing since we are not looking for the same things.
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Common History of Couples
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Posted:Dec 2, 2006 7:42 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2006 8:21 am
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I am finding a lot of married couples where the wife wants to experiment with another women. This is GREAT. They start out looking for the elusive single female that will “BE” with both of them (a lot of the wives really don’t want their husband to “BE” with the other women but say okay since they are being allowed to). This is where we started too. Then after some time goes buy, and they cant find the single female, they discuss opening their play list to include other couples. Usually it is the husband that wants to full-swap and the wife feels some pressure to go ahead and do it. Reasons include: love him, want him to be happy, he might to it behind my back, REALLY want to feel another women and it’s worth the compromise. Now I have chatted with a lot of women who have swapped and most say that it was sort of fun. My interpretation on that is the physical act would have to be pleasurable simple due to friction alone, then you have a room filled with the smell and sounds of sex. But in the end, most of the women are really only okay with it. It is their husbands that are like WOW that was Great lets do it again. That being said, some of the women loved everything about swinging. Now I did not keep detailed listed of any of the conversations I have had, but it feels to me like the same number of wives that were not pressured to swap but wanted to try it are the same percent of women that loved their swinging experiences. My only advice to you is being honest with yourself and with your husband about everything you are comfortable with.
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