Sharing fantasies
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Posted:Jan 14, 2009 5:32 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 6:19 pm
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I'd love to share my fantasies with my wife but I'm not sure how to get the ball rolling. She's very private about revealing her fantasies. Perhaps that's why she doesn't ask about mine.
So, how do I get the conversation started? I've looked for advice but everyone has a different approach. I remember some career / interviewing tips that said ask open ended questions but she seems to find the one word or perhaps one sentence answer that inhibits further discussion.
And when is the best time. Some folks say during or just before sex. Others say that's the worst time. Seems forced to bring it up most times.
Please share your advice and experiences. Thanks.
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Tits and Boobs
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Posted:Jul 24, 2008 6:47 am
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2008 6:37 pm
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Breasts, tits, boobs, knockers. All the same but not interchangeable. All are nice and sizes doesn't matter as much as the fact that it goes with the rest of the package.
Let's talk about tits. Can you have big tits? I suppose (it's a phrase I've heard used) but to me, tits sounds like the better word when the breasts are smaller, firmer. "Perky tits", or "Firm tits". "Huge tits" doesn't really work for me.
Boobs on the other hand suggest more softness, larger size, and mobility. "Big boobs" works. Similarly, "Perky boobs" just doesn't roll off the tongue quite right.
Knockers have to be big. Just doesn't make sense otherwise. I don't think you can be less than a D cup if you have knockers.
Personally, I like them all. Nipples may be more important than the platform they're resting on. And what you do with the whole thing, is most important of all. If you've got it, from the smallest tits to the largest knockers, show them off.
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Big and Beautiful
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Posted:Jun 12, 2008 7:17 am
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2008 6:45 pm
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BBW is an interesting label. It seems to be self-selected and, to me, indicates a self-confidence about one's body image that is attractive. It's hard to find a woman attractive if she doesn't think she is. And there is a difference between a woman who says she doesn't think she's attractive and a woman who actually has a negative body image. If you're not self-confident about your physical appearance, it's hard to get naked in front of someone.
Is there a masculine equivalent (BBM)?
Tell me what you think.
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Those TLAs
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Posted:May 29, 2008 5:56 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2008 10:47 am
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I've been thinking about TLA (Three Letter Acronyms). Some of them are well-understood (LOL, SWF) but some have more loaded definitions.
Take MMF. Well, the simple definition is threesome, 2 guys, 1 girl. But that leaves lots of possibilities open for interpretation.
Is a MMF the same as a MFM or a FMM? After all, still 2 guys, 1 girl?
Here's one possibility. The ordering of the letters implies something about the physical proximity / interaction during the threesome. Imagine the 3 letters sitting on a couch. In an MFM, the girl is the center of attention, with a guy on each side. In this case, an MMF would imply one of the two guys in the center.
Or perhaps the left-to-right sequence is a matter of timing. The letter on the right indicates the person getting the most attention. MMF implies two guys focusing on a girl but in sequence, one after another. MFM would imply one guy as the center of attention, first with the woman, then the guy.
And of course, with a threesome, if the position does matter, knowing which M you are / want to be might be important.
Tell me how you interpret this TLA.
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Work, work, work
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Posted:Apr 17, 2008 12:08 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 6:19 pm
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I like mature women. Nothing wrong with "girls" but I prefer women with enough experience to know what they want. Mature doesn't mean "must be older than me", although that's not a limitation either. I just prefer someone with enough life experience to have a conversation with and with enough shared reference points (e.g. was living during the 80s).
Anyway, there is a woman I work with who is about 10 years older than I am. I find myself thinking about her quite a bit. We're peers and work in different departments, so there is no harassment concern but it's a work environment, so it's awkward to approach her, especially if feelings are not mutual. She's married too, so that's another issue. She occassionally makes fun of her husband in conversations but I have no reason to suspect anything deeper there.
I'd like to find out if there is any possibility of a relationship but can't think of a way to broach the subject appropriately.
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