Only with another
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Posted:Feb 12, 2016 9:45 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2016 10:00 am
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So here I am in a sexless marriage. There is not much I can do. "It's the change" I suppose. The light has gone out, and I'll be dammed if I can't find the switch to turn it back on.. Going on 15 years now since we have had intercourse, Sure there is the obligatory BJ (after practically begging), a little play sometimes after a back rub, but there is no passion, it's mostly like the last time, after lovingly rubbing her all over her body, me hard and ready, she says, "Ok, come on, throw some baby oil on my ass and get it over with" I'm allowed to only stroke in between her cheeks, bam! done and over. Better not take too much time anyway. I LOVE to lick, pretty good at it if I do say so myself, but I am shunned away from touching "down there" at all, and haven't tasted her for way too long.
So yes, I has a mistress..(see previous post) she, having the same problem with her mate, we would meet 1-2 times a month , (would have loved more, but little time to get away) but it was enough to keep us happy, and fill in that gap we both so sorely needed. 
Sex with her was wonderful! Think it was the excitement of the clandestine getaway, combined with the fact that we could experiment with various types erotic play, made our sessions so hot! And never ever make the other feel like they were a pervert, crazy, or weird. Both of us were open to any suggestions to make our time together more intense. After all, it was usually just an hour or so of getaway, so had to make it worth the time 
We played "doctor", other role play stuff, light bondage, played with toys, spanked each other, (after all we were being so bad,,lol) ass play, switching dom/sub roles, sometimes her the aggressor, sometimes me., All things I know we wish our respective spouses would be doing with us, but know, they would never go for. We would be perverted!  God knows what they would think of us... 
So I am wondering, does anyone else find "clandestine sex" better, more erotic than their own? Would you, do you, do things with your lover that you would never do with your loved one at home? I'm sure I'm not the only one..
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Is hoping to find "that one" again still hopeful?
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Posted:Feb 2, 2016 8:38 am
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2016 8:18 pm
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Yes I had that one, a woman who was married as I, who just needed an occasional romp to let go and enjoy her body and feelings without any pressure or judgement. 20 years! We would meet once or twice a month, behave like pornstars, then go back to our significant others, happy, contented.
That was in Florida, I have recently moved here to Ct, and had to leave my special gal our 20 years of play, and friendship, have come to an end. Ha! I remember us laughing about growing "old" together,  Had a great time. Shared a lot of up's and downs, We bitched about each other's spouses, how they didn't do this or that for us, but knew we would do all right for each other. Was a great way to vent all of our frustrations.
Now I'm back in the game again, not sure, in this stage of my life, (60! ughh) if finding "that one" is still possible. Wondering if some of you who are "up there" and on this site for obvious reasons, find that there are some who still like that occasional romp? Or are we too far and in-between now?
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