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Sanctum is a term for a private place. Nothing more private than a person's thoughts, however a little insight into what makes me tick may be apealing. Hope you enjoy.
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Fake flirts and spam bots
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Posted:Jun 14, 2010 11:49 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:58 pm
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Wow this has really gotten bad lately. Getting about a dozen flirts from people I can't find and I'm sure they don't exist. It's actually getting in the way of seeing who has contacted me or has shown actual interest in me. I can only hope that something can be done to filter this out better.
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Couple interest
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Posted:Jul 23, 2007 6:21 pm
Last Updated:Aug 2, 2007 4:05 pm
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Okay I know my profile is focused more for finding a woman however I have included the option of finding a couple. I've always wanted to try a threesome but since I'm single I figured it might be easier to be a third for another couple. That has actually proven to be tougher than I thought. Most couples are looking for women or other couples. That's fine I understand the swinger lifestyle and its fun to get someone for everyone and fullfill their fantasies. I also know that alot of guys on this site are rather rough to deal with and most couples aren't looking for a guy just to do the girl if they are looking for guys.
I know its something I've wanted to try but really need to talk with the couple and get to know them a bit to relax a little bit since this would be very new teritory for me.
So any advice on how to go about this? I've messaged a few and been turned down once and ignored all the others. Wondering what I need to do differently to show that I am serious and that I know what such a grouping would entail.
Feel free to drop a line and offer some advice. Heck if your a couple read my profile and other posts drop a line if you'd like to talk and who knows what may happen, worth trying at least
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Small World
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Posted:Jul 8, 2007 10:30 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 8:13 pm
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Well Bismarck is a small place. I wrote a person here in Bismarck. I liked her profile and we had some mutual interests. I can honestly say it wasn't about sex. I actually wanted to chat with this person and get to know them. Well we exchanged some contact info and chatted on MSN and what the hell we knew some similar people. Its funny when you know several aquaintances and then find out who they knew.
Finally she asked if I was doing anything so we went out for drinks, well okay she drank I just had water since I was dehydrated from a long drive from fargo in 104 degree heat. Anyway we had a nice conversation about some of the people we knew, life in general and then some of our shared interests. Its a shame the heat took so much out of me I called it an early night.
Upon getting home I got a message from someone that previously rejected me on Discreet Gay Dating. To cut a long story short we initially talked for a few days she led me on and then all of a sudden pulled a 180 and brought up several reasons. Well I was put off by that and just cut all contact. It wasn't the rejection that hurt it was the sudden change. I'm okay with someone not liking me, not everyone will, however when you are lead to believe one thing then another occurs it will set you off. Well she wanted to talk so I heard her out and will give a second chance. However I'm not going to get my hopes up. That way if she still decides that there is someone better then she can go do that.
Everyone seems to be in a rush with the excitement of meeting someone new. I know I'm very guilty of that as well. Guess we all need to remember that even if something doesn't work out right away doesn't mean it won't ever. I need to reread this post when I think otherwise to bring myself back on track.
Glad I renewed I'm getting messages back finally it just took some time.
To all that read this little slice of my mind thank you for the time. Feel free to drop a line if you want to contact me and can't via email since your a standard member.
I can always use more friends, and you never know where that may lead.
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Bismarck is empty
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Posted:Jul 4, 2007 9:55 pm
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2007 10:17 am
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I feel alone in a vast desert. I've messaged many people and only gotten 4 messages back. Four. I know I'm not a musclebound stud but I'm not hideously fat either. I don't open with a cock picture and what I'll do with it either. Perhaps I should. I'm just at a loss on why things aren't working. Perhaps there are just too many guys and not enough women to go around.
Just don't know what to try anymore. I was hoping to have a more positive post but things just don't seem to be working out. I'm going to give it one more month some messages are out and some folks are busy so I'm hoping they'll still get back to me.
I'm really sweet when given the chance, just want some respect and a chance to make someone special, and hope they make me feel the same way.
Probably shouldn't be posting this on my blog but can't keep it quiet anymore, Bismarck just feels baren, I miss Fargo.
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This week in...
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Posted:Jun 16, 2007 7:20 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 8:13 pm
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Well about a week into Discreet Gay Dating and things are looking possible. Okay I'm really a few days late I got busy but I'm glad I didn't mess with the site for those two days. Finally got a good message so there seems to be hope for Discreet Gay Dating in my eyes.
You want to know what worked? This blog. The power of word. Not even just normal text but the chance to express myself. It also helps that I use proper grammar. On a site like this all you really have is your power of text to get someone to look at you and if its sloppy, misspelled and hard to read folks won't spend the time on it. Don't want to sound haughty but you really need to show your best and a picture just isn't enough. Most girls are interested in the muscle in your head as well as the one below, show that you can use both and you will truely impress.
So one week down three to go and who knows where things will go!
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Opening message
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Posted:Jun 11, 2007 10:19 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 8:13 pm
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Alright been a few days sent a few messages out of folks I'd like to learn more about and even meet.
It's strange I read the profile and the ones I respond to usually have the most to say and I can somehow think of a way to show I am interesting and more than the common denominator you see on this site. Seriously take a look around and its a sea of penis pictures and one liners. I mean I sit and laugh at the responses but at the back of my mind wonder geez can that even work? There is no way you can really look at a profile and see any measure of contact success. Oh sure you can see more comments but it seems like a front. I guess that's really where the talent comes in to actually get your real sincerity across rather than seeming like you are faking it.
Don't really know time will tell, no way I can convince someone that I DO want to meet them and find out more about them aside from how to get into their pants.
A hot body is one thing but a sexy mind will keep you coming back for more. Can that be found here in ND on this site?
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The Begining
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Posted:Jun 9, 2007 10:07 am
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2007 10:12 am
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Well I finally decided to give Discreet Gay Dating a shot and made myself a member. I have seen a few people that I really like and messages have been sent. Now the real test begins, the wait for a response.
I suppose I should explain my hopes for this site. I hope that I can get the chance to meet at least one person in Bismarck willing to just go out. Attraction is a subjective thing and you really need time to see if you are attracted to one another. I like my personal looks and am happy with myself as a person but will anyone else?
I read so many profiles on dating sites and seems folks get this perfect ideal in their mind of their match and they close their mind to an even better person standing right in front of them just because he may wear glasses or is a certain hieght.
Yeah okay coming to this site you do leave the pretense that you enjoy and are looking for sex. But I really hope I can find that diamond in the rough, that friend you can rely on to be there and make you feel special.
I've always felt the best relationships are those that have developed from a good foundation and friendship is one of them. Why be with someone that you can stand or doesn't respect you? You think you can change them but you may break the spirit and lose that which attracted you to them in the first place.
So is there room in Discreet Gay Dating among all the sex crazed men looking for a one night stand, for an intelligent guy seeking someone to be close with again.
Well is there?
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