How do you choose your pussy?
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Posted:Sep 23, 2008 8:33 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2008 1:47 am
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Men, answers on a postage stamp please!!!!!!!!!!
No seriously, do you take whatever is on offer or do you choose carefully your sexual partners?? Do you feel you are in a position to choose or just accept anybody you can get?? Are you picky about the shape and looks of the women or are you more interested in what you find on the inside of the woman?? How important to you is the person attached to the pussy even in a NSA context?? Id be interested to hear your answers either in my mail box or over dinner!!
I know many guys on this site struggle to get a look in (the numerical disparity of 21 men to 1 woman does make it hard) let alone feel able to choose pussy...Even those guys who have evidently cracked the Discreet Gay Dating code for obtaining a fuck still seem to believe en masse that they are not in the driving seat when choosing women...strange even tho they have a lot of success with them which would indicate otherwise!!! I suspect men carry from their normal lives an insecurity about the ability to pull women cos of the knockbacks...and because unfortunately masculinity seems to be in crisis under the pressure of girl power...
BUT men take note when women fancy men they really really fancy them and you are definitely in the driving seat...
I personally choose my sex partners extremely carefully...not because im necessarily in a position to do so (tho i do get lots of offers like many other attractive females here) but due to the fact Im naturally selective in all areas of my life and my pussy deserves the best!! I choose the guys for personality, friendliness, integrity, looks and sexiness and I try to discern who has those things to offer me....It takes time and effort: I have developed an instinct for those guys who will be the sexiest in bed which I can tell from the first email and face pic... and the guys do need to be on that same wave length to get with me....
If I werent so fussy I would end up with mediocre and average sex, with men I have less than full attraction for and it would feel ultimately like mistaken one night stands from my 'misspent' past and potentially unsafe aswell..
I think discernment is so important...quality not quantity as my friends say on the site...plus no man nor woman wants to feel that they are just another one in a long list of sex partners or that one pussy/cock is as good as any other...How special you make a woman feel is fundamental to all good sex...or at least it is with me!! And perhaps surprisingly its also the men who dont wish to feel like they are just another cock either or only have a cock to offer...
In a place where sex is so plentiful, if you know how to get it, ironically people and personalities actually matter much more because of that, as theres a proliferation of sexual people here...its a turn about from the situation in real life...the sex is freely on offer.... now the question is who to choose to have it with!
I like those men who use the same selectivity as i do and appreciate that in me...Ive had quickies at parties but thats a very different situation to those guys i meet privately and the sex at parties is actually much like a snack as opposed to full course dinner sex...
"Romantic sex gets the best results"...Yes it certainly does...add onto that erotic, sensual, athletic, fantasising and knowing how to make love to a woman even tho its in a casual context and I think we are going to explode...
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Never Have Sex ......
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Posted:Sep 17, 2008 1:49 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 3:9 pm
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"Never have sex unless its for money or favours"....
You know how some comments stick in your mind, even years later, well this one has with me. It reverberates on several levels. It has a raw, brutal, relevance to my 10 year long single parent life.
It shocked, appaulled and saddened me simultaneously when the single parent pretty lady said it to me....It revealed the stark realities of her single parent situation...We were both working as gardeners, physically extremely hard male dominated work, doing the jobs of men cos they are paid twice as much for their labour than traditional womens work...You couldnt get a man to work in ANY job for less than £10 per hour...but womens work you can...
Her comment spoke volumes to me ...about the economic difficulties which impinge on all aspects of our childrens and our lives and socially are very alienating....how you cant afford to give anything of very slim resources away for free without receiving more back than you give out...use everything that comes your way to the max and have to hussle continuously...Always have to think how can i make this situation better for my family....
Its a very unfeminine state of affairs and akin to how men function and I could see how after several years, demanding more and more energy, perseverance and money year on year, a necessary hardness and cynicism permeates our situations and unfortunately our selves...
This lady was really saying to me "we dont have the luxury of circumstances to give anything away for free and sex is a commodity just like any other to improve our situations with" That sentimental views of sex are for those who are safe and have plenty...
I found it appaulling that single parenthood had impacted on her this way and corrupted her opinions of sex and men...
It saddened me cos Ive never had sex with anyone I didnt feel I wanted to(including my ex during our troubles) and Ive turned down a few dates Ive met on this site due to insufficient chemistry...Ive always had 'loving' experiences of sex and not ones to gain any advantage of some kind from a man...Looking back over my life perhaps I should have been more calculating and plan better for the future!!!
Curiously my NSA sex here on this site has brought me so much love and warmth, self belief, confidence and friendships that its priceless! So giving freely of yourself can also bring unprecedented benefits...
In reality I cant afford to have totally NSA sex cos I need the friendships, social contacts and fun attached to it aswell as the sexual partners....but hey Rome wasnt built in a day....and as my lovely Mum says with characteristic wry wit "It only takes one buyer to sell a house!" Shame the property market is in decline!!!
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One of the best nights of our lives....
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Posted:Sep 15, 2008 3:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2009 11:41 am
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He had waited months for me. "He couldnt wait to touch taste and feel me". The Atlantic had kept us apart. He knew everything he needed to know about me as we had chatted every day and night for months..We mutually had feelings for each other and he had reassured me my feelings were safe in his hands....We returned from dinner and now he stood in my bedroom, tall, leaning against the wall and this handsome black man suddenly had an expression that looked like a eagerly anticipating all the sweets he was about to consume. I shall never forget that quite distinct personal look.
I slid under the covers waiting for him, hardly daring to breathe, savouring the last moments of anticipation and desire before he touched me, as i had imagined on so many nights over the past 8 months...I had unzipped my silk evening dress but kept it on, barebreasted and pantyless as i was all evening during dinner at the restaurant, and craving his touch...I thought he would enjoy the feel of the silk as he explored my body for the first time...I wriggled under the duvet imagining our touch....He said I can see you and then crept under the edge of the covers and then his mouth was near mine...I could sense his warmth, smell, and physical presence near me and my mouth instinctively searched for his.. he kept his mouth at a small distance from mine for what seemed like ages and i felt a moment of intense desire almost panic as if i may be denied him...my mouth searched frantically for his...his mouth was on mine and his lips and kiss unlike any i had ever known before...never had i experienced a sensation like it...they engulfed me in a sensual world...I began to swim and spin as he explored my body...Moving the silk across me I realised I loved the feel of his flesh, his arms, the smell of his skin, his warmth and sensual touch, the beautiful big head of his gorgeous cock and how he moved my body to his rhythm. The nights awesome sex was just beginning as he expertly sunk into my pussy to explore the pool of wetness he had lusted to taste for months....
For You and Me XXXXXX
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Life changing
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Posted:Sep 13, 2008 8:32 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 3:9 pm
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This experience has changed my life forever....I am a new woman with new sexual terms and desires to fulfill, I dress like a real woman now, love to go out, dance, clubbing, flirting, I feel rejuvenated and remade by the men ive met on this lil old site, I shine with the life and energy ive found.....nothing like good sex to keep a person healthy, desirable and young...I enjoy mens company enormously and their bodies...I have become a minx, a sex diva and am likened in lovely compliments when im out socially by both sexes to a model or like one of the great Hollywood beauties...all of which I find totally wonderful and take it in the context its meant....Light heartedly but great!
I have come on an amazing journey in a very short space of time from a life which had become that of a long term single parents, lonely, sexless, isolated, heavy on practicality and rarely went out at night...I stayed at home, raised my for the last ten years alone, played mummy and daddy simultaneously, breadwinner, homeowner, professional gardener and provided for my in all ways possible...There was fun but it was largely orientated and involved swimming and cycling...
I never wore anything other than trousers, practical shoes, owned one handbag, one pair of shoes, never wore jewellery or accessories, didnt own any evening wear, wore my hair in a short crop ...I didnt even know how to wear high heels, apply nail varnish, wouldnt have dreamt of wearing revealing clothing, never wore short skirts, or skirts at all really, didnt know I had great legs... wouldnt have shown my breasts off ever, didnt own any sexy lingerie, felt uncomfortable being looked at by women or men when out, dressed down every where i went, had various complexes about my body and felt reluctant to go out...I didnt know how to shop for sexy flattering clothing, couldnt afford to do so and had to practice for hours at home in front of the mirror to get the confidence to go out dressed in a provocative and sexually enticing manner when I found the internet and started dating...
My first dates were on Dating Direct and I actually visibly shook when I met men for the first few dates...very embarrassing but as the guys I met there subsequently have become my friends we can look back and laugh about it now...At that time I had no idea if I was attractive at all..Suspected i was too old to be so....I thought I was destined never to find a man to share my bed or life with ever again...I reasoned I couldnt be attractive to men otherwise why would I be without one?...Living in Italy I had always had boyfriends since my teenage years and up to my ex partner....
Well all those insecurities have been banished forever thankgoodnes...It took a lot of bravery and dedication on my part to overcome things which had built up over many years since my separation from my sons father...and each man I met on this site in the last 18 months has contributed unbeknown to them to enable me to feel confident and renovate myself...and Im now at the stage of feeling the best ive ever felt and ready to find a man to share my life with...in the meantime Im still going out partying and meeting the occasional lover but only wish to meet those men who cant get enough of me... I cant have ANYMORE taster sessions!!...
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The Search Deepens ......
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Posted:Mar 10, 2008 8:19 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2009 11:33 am
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Many men who mail me think or assume because of the nature of this site that I am only interested in their cocks and sexual favours....This is a WRONG ASSUMPTION...
The guys who I notice, interest me and who I like to be friends with are:
Single: that is totally unattached
Aged between early 30s and early 40s...masculinity develops with life experience and maturity
Can Accommodate: preferably have ones own place
Be prepared to Travel: I live outside London
Available on Saturday nights, for interesting dates. Will involve me in their lives as they would any friend...
Educated, intelligent, fun and passionate as I am too...
I am tall, dark and beautiful and I naturally like men who are the same...not necessarily conventionally handsome but definitely good looking, groomed, stylish, physically toned and confident...
I have a strong but not exclusive preference for black men because they largely understand these factors and have the qualities im describing here....
Its important to send a face pic showing me your eyes and smile from the first mail...I shall also appreciate body and cock shots...at some point...
Mail me but not about sexual fantasies and one/off sex or what you would like to do to me...there are thousands of men here who would like to do the same things...Instead give me a feel about you as a person, your individuality, your lifestyle and your potential to be my friend...Show how we would empathise...
Offer more than a sexual encounter...I am a very sexual person but i need mental stimulation and a high degree of mental chemistry ....I am interested in fun dates with sex attached...on an ONGOING basis..I cant stress the ongoing enough...
Chemistry between us will become apparent when we speak on the telephone...and in our subsequent contacts...
Pursue me...this site is full of women offering sex at some level or other, some are more desirable than others, some are exceptional, just like the guys here...If you appreciate, desire and find a woman compellingly attractive you will pursue her...this will reveal to me that you are discerning and selective ....such as I am aswell...
So lets play!!
Kisses
Marianne xxxx
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Thinking of you
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Posted:Jan 26, 2008 2:55 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2008 5:03 am
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Ill give some of my cool
Take some of your heat
Mix my massage oils
Play a cool beat
Let the blizzard blow
From night till the morning heat
Afternoon storms may rage
Hunger satisfied while we eat
Towels, Linen
Wine and Clothing
Passion fruit, Cherries
Grapes and berries
From Morning till Night
From sunrise, sunset
Jupiter and Mars
Each with Clouds and Stars
May lovemaking calm our distressed hearts.
Written when thinking of us...
Every inch of you M still smells of desire even if we are worlds apart now...
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