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Wanna Play A Guessing Game?
Posted:Sep 2, 2015 11:29 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2017 7:58 am
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I'm gonna post photos from some places I have visited, you tell me where I was when I took them. I'll check in at naptime tomorrow and give the answers.

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No, I'm Not Dead. Today.
Posted:Aug 30, 2015 5:28 pm
Last Updated:Sep 4, 2015 5:31 am
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At least not in this instance. Death comes to us all, I am not about to waste the moments of life I have worrying about it, either.

So, how the hell is everyone?

Shit here at the Casa de Wild is pretty much the same as it ever was. I have the girls, I have been watching the first year of life as it grows and develops. I am always a little in awe of that first year. It is some amazing stuff.


My little butterfly garden has really paid off. It is very cool to look out into the backyard to see them floating from flower to flower. And my Hummingbird plants have drawn a little interest so I am hopeful.


There is a new addition to the family, a little two pound terrorist named Loki that was rescued from the front porch of a house in February. There were 12 puppies in a cat carrier, different breeds and different litters. He was one of the smallest, he is a Min Pin/Chihuahua cross. (He is up to 8 lbs now and the older dogs have each found a hiding place to nap.)

I'm still about, still doing the same mundane things I have been doing for the last 6 years. I travel when I can, I read here when I am bored of my other sites.
I doubt I will ever have a blog of any measure to post, but I will share photos once in a while. And if a muse ever descends on me again and I can think of a damn thing to say, I might return to writing again. So I will keep this blog open, in case it ever happens.

My roses are doing well, but I do think I have a sickly one. I am going to move it this fall, and see if a new location will help it out a bit.
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Scenes from the Yard
Posted:Oct 10, 2014 6:28 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2015 8:16 am
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The Bloody Moon


The sky has tears in her eyes.

The Gladiolus Moon

She has grown a bit this summer. And it now takes two people to get her inside for winter. Does anyone have need of an overly large and toxic plant to feed their moths?

Moth under Glass

I bought this dead plant, simply because I wanted this guy. He lives in my morning glory vines now, and dines heartily. Plus he has his own little harem, I have no less than 3 females in the backyard. One lives in my garden, one lives near the wood rack, and one lives in the potted plants that sit on the back steps.

What you can do with a broken wheelbarrow and some broken pottery, a thrift store tea pot and some crystal studded rocks.

A fiery sunrise.

Hummingbird feeder filtering red sunlight onto a Morning Glory


The Watchers. There are actually four of these guys, but the largest one prefers to sit away from the others at the upper end of the pond most of the time.
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To Busta with Love~
Posted:Oct 5, 2014 12:27 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2015 11:49 am
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I Need a Muse, Damn it.
Posted:Sep 30, 2014 10:43 am
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2014 8:31 pm
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So hi there! Did ya miss me?

It has been a busy wonderful Summer. I have had adventures (locally), spent quality time with the , was given the most awesome camera I have ever owned in my entire life, (Again...I murdered my birthday camera a few months ago, the actual gears that control the lens aperture broke.) All in all, I have been a busy bitch.
The sad part about it, there is very little of it I can (or would) share here. Most of what I do these days involves kiddos and I would rather not write about them here. And that leaves me at a loss. What the fuck am I supposed to write about? I am so not going to do any political or theological discussions here. I'm pretty sure I would rather have my nails pulled out with pliers.
So with that said, why don't you guys give me some ideas of what to write? Do you want some fiction, some recaps of my wonderful days as a high priestess of the Waffle Shrine,or my nights spent at swingers parties or do you want me to tell you tales of my gardening adventures. Maybe should I just stick with posting photos? ( I am certain they will have a cow if I post photos from this new camera, the file sizes are HUGE. But damn it is such an amazing camera.) I will likely stick with cell photos because the others I use them on a nationally syndicated site and I am sure I am not the only person utilizing that site and this one and I am more certain that I don't want these two 'worlds' to collide. (No worries, I have a shit ton of cell phone pics to share. I don't want to call photography and obsession but yeah, it is an obsession.)

My life is rather placid these days. I need suggestions because Winter will be here soon and I will need a way to fill the long boring days stuck in the house.
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By Any Other Name
Posted:May 31, 2014 3:34 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2015 8:43 am
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Yeah, yeah...I have been AWOL. I have yet another sinus infection courtsey of the tiny terrorist and it has been a bit busy in my life.

I found a new photo editor for my phone and all of my lovely roses are blooming, so have some photo art as an apology.









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New Edit-ions
Posted:May 14, 2014 11:17 am
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2014 8:26 am
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It is a cool Spring, but my flowers are blooming, there are birds finally nested in one of my bird houses, butterflies pass through the yard at regular intervals, we have a bunny in the yard that I am feeding so he doesn't find my tender young vegetable garden...Spring is such a beautiful time of the year.
Hope you like the photos.


Wish and Blow


Rainy Day Friendship


Inner Fire


Gathering Tears


Hidden Charms
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I Has the Cruds..again
Posted:May 5, 2014 11:33 am
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2014 8:17 am
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So have some photos, again. I love vintage nude photography.









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Adjustments
Posted:Apr 29, 2014 12:39 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2014 11:28 am
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Rainbow in the Flames



Blue Moon



Golden Inertia



Patience

Not much to say today, tis another gloomy gray day and I am pretty fed up with being in the house. Doesn't make for good writing. Kinda like a cat in a cage, to be honest.
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If It Looks Like Bullshit....
Posted:Apr 28, 2014 12:40 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2017 7:23 am
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...And smells like bullshit...well chances are really good that it is, indeed, bullshit.



Let me demonstrate.

I present exhibit a: The written portion of my profile.

"Just a blogger, only seeking platonic friendships.

My Ideal Person: Ideal people...
Have brains, aren't afraid to use them.
Have tact and courtsey, and apply that to everyday life.
Enjoy making friends with people from ALL WALKS of life, not just cookie cutter models of themselves.
Understands what the term friendship implies."

That is it, in its entirety.

Exhibit B: My profile photos.
They are all photos of my feet. Not my feet made up to look all sexy, no heels, no stockings...just my feet in a variety of places. And a couple of those show my feet all puffy and swollen because I had been walking quite a bit and bless them, they do get tired on me at times.

And now for the bullshit.( The Bullshits that set my teeth on edge are marked in red.)

"Nice profile and picture. Honesty and openness is best. Let me begin by telling you a little bit about me. I am passionate, enjoy sex immensely and am spontaneous. I am a MWM professional businessman who is 6' 3", 235 lbs., extremely clean, no facial hair, salt and pepper, hazel green eyes. My likes are really simple, pleasing others. I take the lead from those I am with. Do you enjoy foreplay, exploring, erotic pleasure, playing around, touching, oral; if so, we will have a lot of fun. The type of person I am looking for is one that wants a very discrete relationship and great fun."

"Hey Beautiful, Wow i must say you are very beautiful, forgive me for my lack of manners, I'm XXXXX by name and I'm single with no , I'm seeking for something serious and I'm very new here, You are very attractive and i couldn't resist not to send you a message, I would love to get to know you better and it would be my pleasure to hear from you. You can email me on (contact info) or add me on (contact info)
I hope to hear back from you..
God bless you.
I just added some recent photos to my photo album you can simply check it by clicking the link below or typing it to open the page and then sign in to have access to view my photo album
xxxxxxxx
i await your response as soon as possible.
XXXXX."

"hi lady
how are you?
i have been catched by your profile ..
im an italian guy fo about 35 and really very interested to know you!
im a programmer (writing software for PC) i travel very much ..
so could not be so difficult meet you!
in fact i love to know you new people from all the world around
im very passionate (latin lover) and i think we can have very good time together
i love to videochat ..

contact me as soon as possible at insert personal contact info
or if you prefer at insert personal contact info

i will wait for you"

"I am a Gentleman with few words but when I do express. I express with meaning and respect to a woman. I know this site is for adults who should care themselves in the right way. I believe in that, but I am imaging something erotic after viewing your vision on your page. The start of that is beauty either in body or face. What I feel is erotic, freaky and passionate to being you into this encounter, either discreet are open. I would love to make u experience the fun I would bring under a warm or the hot shower soaping our bodies. Then eating u under the water to make u cum. As I make u moan and groan with water dipping down your face. After working our way to the bed as I lay u down and work my magic with my hands to massage ur body with scent oils. I then grab your ass checks rubbing it gently & firmly. While at the same time I am getting hard. I then open your thighs and slip my cock in between. I want u to witness that. Are you open to my exploring from a true gentleman. Who would continue to respect your world? I WILL BE IN YOUR AREA FOR A WEEK AND I WOULD ENJOY UR COMPANY"

Oh for fuck's sake.

Sometimes, the stupid just hurts me.



Part of me wants to laugh about shit like this. I find con artists highly entertaining, and honestly that is all men like this are. The used car salesmen of swinging. I sometimes toy with the idea of trolling the fuck out of them till I find out who they are and then give them a little of their own back.

Part of me wants to take out my upper plate, find the most ragged gardening outfit I own, skip brushing my teeth or hair, and take a ten mile hike sans deodorant and show up to the tryst with a bottle of Mad 20/20, a stringer of catfish, and a smile.

Part of me is righteously angry that these fools think I am desperate and panting for a hard dick, any dick, please give me your dick!!! And more angry still that they are LYING to me. Out of all the things on earth I detest, there is nothing more abhorrent than bald face liars.

But the sane rational side of me takes it in stride, secure in the knowledge that karma does indeed exist and it does tend to bite people in the ass. Particularly liars.

It makes me sad when I realize that there are people who will respond to this kind of shit. Out of loneliness, out of loss or lack of self worth, out of desperation. And then it angers me again that there are people in this world who justify taking advantage of someone who suffers these problems in the name of having an orgasm. It is inhumane and cruel in my view.

This has always been my biggest beef with this site. While there are some fantastic human beings here, great people with great minds and hearts, there are far more of these bottom feeders than there are genuine human beings.

"But it's a SEX site."

Yep, it is. But in all the years I utilized this site (and several others) for its intended purpose, I never responded to anything that smelled like bullshit to me. If you are going to lie to me before even speaking one word to me why would I trust you? Why would I want to allow you access to the pleasure of my body when you have ZERO respect for me? When you are virtually treating me like a piece of meat, something to be consumed and used and then thrown away? I am all for one night stands, I think they are a great way to scratch an itch and be done with it...no exchanging , no prying questions, no worries about the next day...just good old fashioned fun and then you go on with your life and I go on with mine. But I still expect honesty and respect from a one night stand. I don't have STD's because I demanded this honesty and respect, my corpse has not been found in some deserted place because I would not be intimate with anyone who lied to me right out of the gate.

Now as balance is a part of life, I did occasionally fall for a smooth con artist from time to time, showed up to meet some that had used ten year old profile photos or had been very convincing about marital status, jealous girlfriends...yada yada yada. And I am sure they remember me...I can think of one right off the bat that I left with a very bitter taste in his mouth...don't play a player. While I don't like that side of myself, I have to own up to the fact that I am fully capable of being an absolute cunt when provoked. And to avoid assuming my "Saiyan form" I just never allow myself to be put in a position that I feel a need to become 'that bitch'.



Maybe we should all start drinking this stuff. If you can't beat em, join em, right?

Except no one who knows me could ever accuse me of being a joiner.

And in conclusion, I am starting to understand part of the reason there is so much angst and distrust that floats in the air of this place.

***Disclaimer*** While this does indeed look like man bashing, it truly isn't. I am sure there are women just as nefarious as the men in this blog, but thankfully they don't waste their time in emailing me.

Peace out Peeps!
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Two-Edged Sword
Posted:Apr 26, 2014 8:04 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2014 5:01 pm
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Manipulation:

1: to treat or operate with or as if with the hands or by mechanical means especially in a skillful manner
2 a : to manage or utilize skillfully
b: to control or play upon by artful, unfair, or insidious means especially to one's own advantage
3: to change by artful or unfair means so as to serve one's purpose

Sticky wicket, eh? Well, my kind of manipulation is simply for fun. I have manipulated some phone pics and thought I would share. All are very basic, but I still like the way they look and I think I might print out some smallish and use them in a little coaster project I have going. Hope you like them!






Not really sure about this one, it is a little too busy for my taste.








I hang out with these chicks Mon-Fri. Elder tiny terrorist brings them to play with before and after school. We sit them by the computer to keep younger tiny from mayhem and destruction. My little coffee companions are a rockin' bunch of babes, aren't they?






My purple fairy yard. The side of the house is shaded, and this is truly a sight to behold in the spring when the violets and ground ivy bloom.
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Sunday Service
Posted:Apr 22, 2014 12:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2014 8:58 am
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It is finally Spring in NW Missouri. The Redbud trees are blooming, splashing pink clouds among the dark gray and green of the Winter woods. Trees sing with the sound of the hundreds of busy bees working away, baby rabbits are out, birds are nested down with their first clutches of eggs and hope is reborn.

It was a balm for the soul and a treat for the eyes. I hope you enjoy the photos.



I'm not sure, but I think this is a Greater Yellowlegs. I am still researching this one.



My favorite part of the season, the return of the wildflowers.



Apple blossom time!



The original peeper.



Detail of a Redbud bloom.



This tree was simply alive with bees.



Violets are at a peak right now.



Moss is beginning to bloom.



Avid fisherman defined.



Springtime in Missouri!
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Looking at Titties and Ass
Posted:Apr 17, 2014 12:40 pm
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2017 7:27 am
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Is what I am gonna go do tonight.



Hopefully, it will be in a regular titty bar and not one that deals in 'specialties' such as this. While I am sure there are those who like to look at titties that look like a tennis ball hanging in a tube sock, I would much rather look at the silicone ones and the young ones. Plus, some of these chicks really CAN dance and they can be very entertaining to watch from an artistic perspective. Too bad you can't take photos. But you can make contacts for models. (There is an idea in the back of my head about doing a pinup calendar, maybe. I gotta borrow a good camera before I can though. Or buy one. I have my eye on one in an auction...and now we wait....)
I used to room with a stripper once upon a time, have met several in tattoo shops I have worked in over the years. They are a volatile lot, but once you get to know them, you realize that the stereotypes hold true for about 20% of those ladies. There are some really wonderful chicks who dance, very smart business women who realize how to make the most out of their natural assets. I salute them!
This will mark the third time I have physically left the house for a damn thing since I got back from California I have been feeling kind of hermit-ish for some time now. People in large groups feel 'dangerous' to me, I have watched animals stampede. The small and weak and frail are trampled to death and I am no longer capable of ducking as fast as I once was.



Maybe I will have a tale to tell when I return from "Ye Olde Twitch & Wiggle". Most of my day to day funnies are things I just really am not comfortable sharing on here because I am caring for two tiny terrorists that are not of my family. I was a young mother once myself, not sure I would have wanted stories of my kiddos written in a place such as this, so I respectfully don't share those stories here.

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