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GROUP IS DEAD! Please try another Group!
We try well over 20 different "GROUPS!" In 99% of the "GROUPS", the topic dates were ancient. In 99% of the "GROUPS", the replies were next to nothing. We don't have that kind of time to wait. MAYBE in the future things will pick up. Till then, were off and running. 
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Hello nice post. I would love to meet at Laura's and go from there. I am in sales and able to make my own hours. I am respectful but not shy. Would love to see more couples there
2BenticedBiU replies on 2/2/2014 1:36 pm:
To many arm chair quarterbacks,,,
They chat a great game,,
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Soon! We're at a stand still, as far as, Discreet Gay Dating is concern. As is the case with every group we've belong to,,dead or dieing. See if things don't improve after the holidays. 
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The problem we have is, hoping Discreet Gay Dating would help with meeting other like minded people to join us. Over the years, as members of a number of swinger type web sites,,it has been to few and time consuming. In the time it takes to exchange numerous e-mails and sort through the B S,,we'd find it easier to just go. Swinger clubs are to expensive and just about as hit and miss as these sites. In most case,,getting to know people and find a comfort zone,,,once again,,,time consuming, not to mention,,costly. In the future,,if we happen to meet anyone from this group at a theater or bookstore,,then we really are there on a spur of the moment. We can't wait any long for these swinger web site members.
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HOW TO MAKE THESE GROUPS WORK FOR YOU!
Especially for standard members, it's important to use every free tool that A F F gives you to connect with others. That's why we're here, right? We want to MEET someone.
For the guys, it's even more important to be active, because we outnumber the women seeking men by about 16 to 1. We have to do something to make ourselves stand out from the crowd, because the women can literally pick and choose. And before you say what a great profile you have, remember this: many women are also standard members, and they aren't allowed to look at that many profiles trying to find a great guy like you. Besides, THEY DON'T HAVE TO--they are literally flooded with emails from the men!
First, here are three ways that groups WON'T work for you:
1. Lurking--Just joining a group and not being active in it is a sure-fire way to stay invisible. That's like buying a hammer, and expecting it to drive the nails for you.
2. Posting Only "Pick-Up Ads"--You know, those little posts where someone says how big his cock is, or how eager he is, and "where are all the younger women for older men?", etc., etc. This is slightly better than just lurking, because at least you've started driving the nail. The only problem is, you still expect it to finish driving itself, and it's a safe bet that pretty soon you'll be yet another one of those whiners complaining about how "this site doesn't work".
3. Being Impatient, Shallow or Rude--Everything worth having takes patience and work to acquire. If you're going to throw a little temper tantrum because you haven't found what you're looking for--even though you haven't invested any REAL effort--you don't belong on A F F, let alone in a group! This may be a sex site, but people still want to know that you're honest, non-violent and in possession of a mind bigger than your genitals.
PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE!
This is how you get the most out of any group. Did you know that many standard members actually hook up with each other simply because of getting INVOLVED in groups? It's true: I've even seen long-term relationships develop that way!
Here's the thing: when people post questions, thoughts, feelings, fantasies and jokes in groups, they do it because they are looking to interact with you. It's a way for them to get to know something about the personality behind the keyboard, and that often leads to great friendships or more. It also lets them know that you're interested in them as people, not just sex objects.
It's the same reason why I, as the Moderator, post discussion threads. I'm not doing it because I just like to hear myself talk; I'm doing it to try to provide more ways for members to interact with each other, and also to encourage them to start discussion threads of their own.
Get involved in the discussions. Post some threads of your own. Show people there's a mind, a heart and a sense of humor behind that picture. Gradually, people will get to know you and like you--and THAT, my friend, is how you will end up meeting someone.
OH--and, fellas? The next time a young lady posts a thread about how she's looking to meet someone, don't just join the stampede of men rushing to say nothing more than "Hi, I'm here, please hit me up". First of all, she probably doesn't even know where you are, let alone what kind of person you are mentally and physically. Secondly, she's already got tons of one-liners coming at her from all directions.
You'll stand head and shoulders above the rest, if you find an interesting way to respond to her. Tell her you looked at her profile and what you liked about it; ask her an interesting question, or show a gentle sense of humor. Give her a reason to want to know more about you than just a picture of your cock. If you're consistent about it, someday you'll be telling the group about this wonderful person you met here.
And we'll all be glad with you!
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If anything else,,maybe we could exchange alien UFO sightings, experiences, abduction stories.
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HELP ALL OF US,,HELP YOU!
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Does anyone know if Laura's or CVE will be open New Years eve?
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We're still here.  We still stop in to check up on our topics.  Wish we could receive a few replies. Hope this group picks up soon. We may find ourselves checking out of this group. This group won't be the first group we've left. 90% of the groups we've tried to get involved with are either dead when we signed on or dead soon after.  PEOPLE,,help keep this group alive! 
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Hope to receive replies to our posted topics, hear from, and "SEE" a few members from this group in the 2014 year!
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Doesn't seem to take much for anyone topic to die. This group goes weeks without a topic reply. To bad too. This group has potential. CVE and laura's seems to be a great meeting place, but no one cares to contact anyone from on here.
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Ever get the feeling were all alone and chatting to ourselves?
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Try the CVE Watchers Society group! So far, it has been active. 
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WENT A GROUP DIES,,SOMEONE NEEDS TO CANCEL THE CABLE AND LIGHTS!
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