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_Rafe_
12 Comments
BDSM 104
It saddens Me to no end when I talk to other Dominates and They say I got a slut under My protection (and even collar's can be involved). These so called Master's let any and all trolls fuck them. if only They knew how much damage this does to the submissive's who knows little of the Lifestyle. After awhile these sub's start thinking its all about getting fucked and turns into room whores. "Protection" means "EXCATLY" what it mean's Guys... Protect them, Keep from harm.. Nourish them into roses instead of weeds where E/everyone walks... A true Master who has a submissive under They're control "Will" teach them how to be a submissive and grow within the Lifestyle.. A Master who collars will do the same but more intensely just because the collar is involved. Sadly to really get where I am coming from You already have to be a "True Master" or You'll never get it...

Watch Ang and Tigress.. T/they are a great example of what I'm talking about...
Angel_Beast69
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 Rafe I couldn't agree with you more. On many occasions I have been insulted and called names like "paper Dom" and ridiculed for My appropriate conduct and behavior of My sub. I have also doubted Myself as I have seen A/all these "Doms" treat their subs abusively with pain, punishments, and abusive behaviors. That IS NOT what a Dom is about. You are to protect and nurture like Rafe states above. Your sub has given you the greatest gift she can.......herself and will and devotion. That is to be RESPECTED. Yes it's A/all based on individual likes and needs between the D/s, but you must communicate and just not think it's about pain and control. It's so much more than that. You should test her boundaries and help her stretch her limits in a safe and caring way rewarding diligence and effort. Know your sub and she'will reward you daily and endlessly as you watch her grow and become a true woman for you and herself. Rafe's weeds and roses analogy is perfect here. I would no more allow someone to harm or hurt My tigress than I would Myself. I pick and allow who she and I play with and a lack of respect towards her or other women by an individual be he Dom or not is a deal breaker straight away. So I think you wanna be's should think before you act and take your Dom personas on. Real Doms will know and call you out quickly.


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