Been here a few months. To the older guys, enthusiam makes up for lack off beauty. I'm told I'm attractive but I am also a bbw, lol. Older. Younger guys, I am not looking for hook ups, please. I have been to lunch and/or bought dinner for someone from this site. Me buying let's me leave without obligation. One wanted to be my "boytoy" and call me mommy. That's not me. Trying to get anyone reading this to understand that I'm looking for a mature person who has their life together. I have enough money and a great support system of friends and family. Not looking for marriage or a bailout. Just tired fo being alone. I want intimacy. I want someone who has time for me. I want to spoil you. Make you happy and you be generous in return. It may not ever be love but at least respect and honesty. So this is me. Added this at someone's suggestion; SUGGEST TO PUT THIS ON YOUR PROFILE... WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Because I am a working professional I need to be discreet. LEGAL NOTICE: The words and images posted by me, remain my sole and exclusive property and their use is expressly limited to the uses I affirmatively authorize(d) . Any other use or reproduction of my words or images, in whole or in part, is expressly forbidden. Any unauthorized use shall cause me to suffer irreparable harm, will constitute a severe breach of my privacy and will result in a lawsuit and injunction where I shall demand all legal damages and equitable remedies to the fullest extent allowed by law. I hereby assert all of our statutory and common law rights under applicable state, provincial, and federal laws as though each were fully set forth at length herein. So be cool. Play nice. (I authorize, indeed recommend, other members use this legal notice for their protection.)

My Ideal Person Mature older guy who is drama free. I'm low mantaince and want the same. By that I mean I don't demand attention or your time all the time. Would I see you everyday, sure if possinble but usually things aren't that simple. Must love physical contact, cuddling and kissing as well as intimacy.

Follow your hobbies and desires. I'l join in if you like and if I can. Guys who have children and grandchildren they want to see are a plus. Means you're emotioally available.