I am a standard member and AFF will only let me respond to 10 emails a day, so thank you for your patience! Because I am a free member, AFF will not let me contact you. I can respond only if you send me an email. I delete flirts and invites. I only accept invites once I've met you. That way, my profile has only the people I've met and can tell you about. I had a whole bunch of great friends and excellent testimonials, but they dropped off once the people stop using this web site. Please keep in mind that I am 5'4" and I weight 220#'s, so if you don't like BBW's, don't contact me. I took my primary photo in Aug 2005 (thanks to dfwnightowl). AFF will only let me post one pic. I'm interested in joining an established group of three or more men AND women, but I'm not rude. If you email me, I will respond as quickly as I can. Men, if you can't handle other straight men in the same room fucking me, then please don't contact me. I don't have a place to meet, so if you aren't comfortable with me coming over, don't contact me. No, I'm not looking for a marriage on paper at all. I'm looking for an established group of regulars that I can do things with in and out of the bedroom. I want to enhance their lives as much as they will enhance mine. I don't want to be the only female in the group. AFF advertises as "a place to find a fuck buddy for free sex in your area" and "a place where hot, horny, slutty women want sex". Well, I don't know about everybody else, but I would like a little bit more commitment than that. If you are with me, your gonna get a lot of sex because I'm not the jealous type. The more people the better. If I only want you for a fuck buddy, I'll let you know, but don't bet on it. I REALLY hate one-night stands. No out-of-towners please. I don't consider that "regular" enough. I'm NOT into the "one-night-stand" business. I am not discreet in any way. I'm very proud to be poly. I will not date married people who sneak around on their partners. I do not date the jealous type, stalkers, insecure people and newbies to group sex. I'm not into BDSM or M/s. I am a nudest in a clothed world. I'm sorry, but I can't be around ANY smokers. I don't do drugs. Never have. I don't want you to either. I like to lick nuts during blow jobs, so please shave. I tend to be a follower when it comes to "outside the bedroom" activities. I am a heavy squirter when I cum. If you've never been with a squirter before, I don't want to be your first. I give oral, but I do not like receiving oral at all. I know, I know.... I think I'm the only chic on this earth that doesn't like receiving! Toys don't do a thing for me either. I don't discriminate... if you like toys, I'll use them on you! I don't date shallow, closed-minded people. Polyamory is not a cult. I know I can love more than one per at a time. I'm not on birth control only because I can't afford it, so.... RUBBERS FOR EVERYONE! It's just safer that way anyway. Something that I've noticed over the years in general: Single men and women that have less than three really good friends (sexual or not) tend not to be as social as I would like them to be for my taste. I don't mean to sound bossy, but I really like people that have a *lot* of friends. If you introduce me to them, that tells me you really like me! I'm not interested in home bodies. I like active people. After all of the bullshit above, believe it or not, I am not a drama queen. I'm very laid back for a chic. I consider myself a great communicator, because I don't know anyone who can read my mind and I sure as hell can't read yours! Tell me what you want or don't want. I'm extremely respectful and go out of my way to do it right. TURN ON'S: Everybody wants to know what turns me on, well here it is and I'm not lying..... buy me a boob job and/or a tummy tuck. I'll be the hottest chic worshiping the ground you walk on! giggle UPDATE** I am a polyfedilist. THIS IS NOT A CULT. That means I'm capable of loving and making love to more than one per at the same time. Most people were raised to be serial monogamists.... well, I have more fun in crowds. [B]I am not a poligamist (one man and several women) or a swinger.[/B] A one-on-one, monogomist relationship puts too much pressure on each other to fulfill each others needs (I prefer several people meeting my needs and visa versa). I can't put up a blog on AFF, so here are some definitions below: Poly = Short for polyamorous. Polyamory = The non-possessive, honest, responsible ethical philosophy and practice of loving multiple people simultaneously. Based on the conscious choice of how many partners one wishes to be involved with, rather than accepting social norms that dictate monogamy as the only acceptable form of love. Polyandry = The state or practice of having two or more husbands at the same time. (Note: I do not practice this) Polyfidelity = A group in which all partners are primary to all other partners and sexual fidelity is to the group. More primary partners can be added with the entire group's consent. Polygamy = The practice of having more than one wife or husband at a time. Polygyny = The state or practice of having two or more wives at the same time. (Note: I do not practice this) Primary = In a hierarchical, multi-per relationship, the primary partner is the one to whom one is most strongly bonded, often through legal marriage. If you are interested, I can give you the a website to plural, consensual, non-jealous relationships. I don't collect friends on my profile unless I've met them. Thank you for taking the time to check out my profile!

My Ideal Person I can find something good in everyone. I'm getting so many responses that I'm going to limit my search to the Dallas area.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Linkin Park, Disturbed, Metallica, U2

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't fantasize about having sex with a celebrity. It is unrealistic and a turn off.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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