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Girlfriends, boyfriends, nasty cum and running away to an orgy. Hoo-yeah..  

partygald 41F
3085 posts
3/12/2015 5:38 am

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3/19/2015 4:14 am

Girlfriends, boyfriends, nasty cum and running away to an orgy. Hoo-yeah..


Amongst the myriad of random thoughts I want to put out, let's start with...

Clothing Design
It's official - I think men design womens' clothes, and women design mens' clothes. Ok ok, to be fair, not ALL of em. Definitely exercise attire. I think men design women's exercise attire. How else would you explain it getting tinier, and the materials getting thinner. I was out for a run with the girlfriend (our first run together, and my first run since....a good few months back) last week, and halfway through our intended route, we stopped (I kinda had to for fear of blowing out a lung ) and started talking. I guess like with so many other things, we've been desensitized by how small my shorts were. I certainly didn't give it much thought until she pointed it out. It's not only that it's barely covering both my buttcheeks, it's also cut very high, to the point where I lift my leg higher up and I'll flash someone. I suppose I understand why they've made it such, to increase mobility for runners. But still. hmm..

I was looking around at the other runners too, and a lot of them had similarly revealing attire. Some of the tights were so thin I can see through to what flattering and severely unflattering underwear they were wearing. Oh! Speaking of which...

Neighbor's mom
One of my neighbor is hosting her mom for a few months. They are not local, so her mom is making her tour to visit her family, before flying North to KL to visit her brother. This neighbor of mine is one of the few that I actually get along with. We bump into each other here and there, and are friendly, but it ends there. So anyhow, her mom has been here for about a month plus now and I've noticed that she has a habit of hanging around outside her apartment chatting with people, and simply watching the world go by. Fair enough. Except this poor lady likes to wear these night gowns that are not sheer, but the fabric's really, really thin (to deal with the heat, which I can understand..). Add that to a habit of not wearing anything underneath, it kinda makes things a little awkward for the rest of the neighbors. LOL

I find it fucking hilarious! An 80something year-old lady, who had a habit of chatting with whoever makes eye contact with her. I see her almost every morning and by gawd, I'm greeted with the largest, most unflattering, granny undies (literally) and 80year old tits, in all their glory. LOL I hope IF I ever live to that age, I have at least half of that free spirit

Relationship Status - Mr Married
I haven't been spending a lot of time with Mr Married. Which is an odd thing to say cos we actually work together in the same office. Well, it IS a fairly large office. Still. Had a bit of an argument the other day too. Clearly, he's unhappy about it. The lack of time we spend together, that is. At the same time, he's been very...understanding too, with me getting involved with someone else (the relatively new girlfriend). Well, since his divorce last year, we've been trying to make it official, as if it hasn't been official the last few years But I digress. Yes, trying to set it like a regular relationship. But that's never gonna happen, is it? I dunno. He wasn't too crazy with the fact that I actually got involved with someone else. Had an argument when I told him too. But he's less...possessive about the whole thing considering I got involved with a girl. Go figure. I don't know how that makes sense to him but hey, I ain't complaining. So we had a talk and he's suggesting (this is him being supportive. What a darling, right? ) that we should, or could meet up for dinner or something of the like. Ahh...see, for one reason or another, I'm not too sure if that's a good idea. At least now. So gonna play my cards separate for now. There's a Seinfeld joke in there somewhere about worlds colliding, if I remember correctly..

Anyhow, he's scheduled to travel for work next week and I've also booked my air tickets and will meet him at the end of next week. That should cover our catch up time. Which brings me to another issue. Of late, he's been asking to cum on my face or in my mouth. He was never really into that before, but I guess our taste vary over time. (I know mine does) I don't have a problem with that. Actually, I quite like it. The only issue is he's on some medication recently, and it's making his cum taste, well, nasty. (Urgh!) Like really bad. I've told him about it and we've tried getting him on plenty of fluids and pineapple juice the day before but the last time, it was still quite bad. So as a sidenote, I've been reading up on how to combat that I told a friend of mine and she suggested, "why don't you just don't swallow? Don't have it in your mouth?". LOL

Which, for some reason, reminded me of Sex and The City But yea, I'm not giving up on the research yet. I've got til next week so...let's hope I find something that works, eh?

Relationship status - the Girlfriend
A friend of mine dropped me a mail asking me to tell more about the girlfriend, and I realized I haven't yet, so here goes. She's in her early 40s, petit as hell (like 1.6m tall, 52kg maybe..?), works in the fashion/television industry and has a turning 19 this year. She saw me in a bar/club sometime last year and actually got my number from a mutual friend of ours She's also not crazy about the fact that I'm still seeing someone (Mr Married) while she and I are seeing each other, but I'll spare you that little drama for another time And here's the kicker - she doesn't do hair removal. So it's a full on bush down South, as well as under her arms. What's really odd? She bothers with hair removal on her legs and eyebrows. I've got friends who are similar, but I've never thought I'd be someone who had to deal with that. And, I guess I am okay with it. Ha..go figure

And in other news - I've been put in charge in booking a place for my annual Bali thingymajig with the group. I'm hoping a certain couple from HK will attend again (like last year) but we'll see. And this, damn. This will be difficult to deal with. Mr Married will give me the same crap he does year on year. The girlfriend will be a whole new ball game though. In any case, it's only gonna happen in a few months so let's deal with that when the time comes eh?

Oh!! Shit...this is getting quite long. Okok...one last thing.

Sometime last month, a good friend of mine was leaving the country for good cos he was getting posted somewhere else. I had spent the weekend with him (it WAS his last weekend here..) and he threw a get-together party at his place. I knew some of the people that showed up, although naturally, I was closer to some than others. So I ended up sticking with him and another one of his friends the whole evening. One couple though, was...um..I'm not sure how to put this, but they were a married couple. I've seen them around and know who they were, but never felt inclined to speak to them. It's one of those things, you know? Anyway.

The wife was clearly intoxicated, and the husband was also a lot tipsy, but still pretty obvious he had had a lot to drink. Or maybe they were on something, I don't know. Anyway, later in the evening, he kept bringing his wife around and asking, even goading some of the other guys to have sex with her. It's clearly not my business, but I thought that was a little off putting. I mean, his wife really looked out of it, like really intoxicated. It just didn't seem like..I don't know. Something I can agree with. Someone took up his offer and they disappeared into another room. Later that evening, he kept coming around trying to get with my friend and I too, which was never gonna happen. But yea, I thought that didn't sit too well with me.

Aaaannnyhhoooo....this turned out to be a long, and somewhat incoherent one. In my defense, I started typing this in the morning but somehow got distracted with work and other things, and I'm resisting the urge to hit "copy all" and "delete". So here goes. Another blog entry. I promise the next one will be a little more...coherent. I hope.

It's getting late. Gotta run.
Thanks for reading.

SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
3/12/2015 7:17 pm

I always enjoy reading your sexy adventures young lady.

And believe it or not I always thought Singapore was a boring place when the working day ended. I must have been going around with my eyes closed.

Sir Teezalot

WAR IS ABSURD


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/13/2015 3:40 am

    Quoting SirTeezalot:
    I always enjoy reading your sexy adventures young lady.

    And believe it or not I always thought Singapore was a boring place when the working day ended. I must have been going around with my eyes closed.
Hahaha..don't we all..
Thanks for reading


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
3/18/2015 12:17 am

Girlfriend -
I don't really get the fashion of shaving down below. That skin is sensitive! Putting a razor there, or chemicals, or yanking out the hairs with wax? That sounds like pain for no gain. The hair doesn't get in the way of anything I want to do there; when the legs are open wide, I get plenty of nice visual stimulation. If a woman washes regularly, the smell and taste will be just as nice with the hair as without, and I don't have a problem with a little hair in my mouth for a good cause. (And of course it doesn't get in the way of penetration, but that's no an issue for women with women.) I guess the hair works like fancy lingerie for me, hiding things until it's time for them to be revealed.

Party -
If a couple wants to share each other with other people, that's just fine. But if they do it when they're drunk beyond reasonable consent, that's very inappropriate, unless they've made very clear plans ahead of time that they're sexually available to anyone who wants them at the party.

Even worse was the guy who took up the husband's offer of sex with his wife. If she was drunk beyond consent, the guy who had sex with her was guilty of non-consensual sex, unless the wife clearly gave consent to her husband to offer her up to any guy at the party while she was drunk, the husband explained that consent to the other guy, and the other guy had reason to believe that the husband was telling the truth.

Drunkenness is not consent.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/19/2015 4:14 am

    Quoting discreteSteve62:
    Girlfriend -
    I don't really get the fashion of shaving down below. That skin is sensitive! Putting a razor there, or chemicals, or yanking out the hairs with wax? That sounds like pain for no gain. The hair doesn't get in the way of anything I want to do there; when the legs are open wide, I get plenty of nice visual stimulation. If a woman washes regularly, the smell and taste will be just as nice with the hair as without, and I don't have a problem with a little hair in my mouth for a good cause. (And of course it doesn't get in the way of penetration, but that's no an issue for women with women.) I guess the hair works like fancy lingerie for me, hiding things until it's time for them to be revealed.

    Party -
    If a couple wants to share each other with other people, that's just fine. But if they do it when they're drunk beyond reasonable consent, that's very inappropriate, unless they've made very clear plans ahead of time that they're sexually available to anyone who wants them at the party.

    Even worse was the guy who took up the husband's offer of sex with his wife. If she was drunk beyond consent, the guy who had sex with her was guilty of non-consensual sex, unless the wife clearly gave consent to her husband to offer her up to any guy at the party while she was drunk, the husband explained that consent to the other guy, and the other guy had reason to believe that the husband was telling the truth.

    Drunkenness is not consent.
My thoughts exactly! Drunkenness isn't consent. I didn't hang around long enough to find out but i did ask this friend of mine after if he knew them. This according to him cos he knows the couple, he thinks they must have taken something cos they have done it before. Still....not very pleasant to me.


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