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Thinking about someone else while fucking your partner?
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Thinking about someone else while fucking your partner? I was away over the weekend. Decided to spend some quality time with Mr Married (after he's been complaining about us not spending a lotta time together lately). He was on a business trip and I got him to extend his stay over the weekend and I flew up on Friday. So this is...part of what happened. I thought this bit is funny, figured I'd share it. Plus, a thinking point to boot  Saturday morning, I got him up early cos I wanted to soak in some sun and laze by the pool after breakfast. We had spent the entire Friday evening in our room. Quality time  We were lazing around when I notice him ogling at this lady in the pool. She was with her (about 3 years old, i think) in the pool, while her husband was playing with their , about 6 years old, in the play area nearby. Anyhow, her tits were huge. She was in a conventional one-piece swimsuit, and already she was popping out the sides, and threatening a full blown wardrobe meldown. LOL It was hilarious to see all the other dads in the area try to look, and try even harder not to be caught looking. It was disastrous  She was managing as best she could, re-adjusting, swimming, taking care of her . So I turned my head and noticed that Mr Married was ogling at her through his shades, which was sooo obvious. He was also spotting a hard on, and kept shifting in his sun bench. I laughed, and teased him about it. I told him if he didn't stop staring, he'd get caught. And of course, he categorically denied the hard on, and that he was staring. Shortly after, they left, I swam for a little, and we went back up. Walking back to our room, we were discussing our plans for the day and such, and he slipped his hand into my bikini bottom and was sliding his fingers deeper in. I was like, oh-kaay. More of that coming up We got back to our room, and I suggested taking a quick shower to wash of the smell of the Chlorine from the pool. We got into the shower, got all soapy and was rubbing each other around when he got me to sit on the edge of the bathtub. I thought he wanted a blowjob and was about to wash off the soap on his dick when he slid in closer, pressed my breasts together and started sliding his dick between them.That surprised me a little cos it's..unlike him. Of the years weve been intimate, we've only done this a handful of times. I thought it was out of the blue, and liked it, cos he was really getting into it. I squeezed my tits together and he was thrusting so hard at one point, it knocked me back and I almost fell backwards onto the floor We stopped, washed the soap off and decided we'd continue in the room. That was the point that I realized something - and I don't know why I just confronted him about it. My filter must have been broken It had occurred to me that he must have been aroused from the lady we saw in the morning, hence the breast fixation. So, the minute the thought came to mind, I asked him about it. He seemed stunned by the accusation, thought for awhile, then admitted it, smiling wryly. He then asked me if I was ok with it. And THAT, made me think about it. All the while, we were washing down, and toweling off. I told him I don't know, cos, at the time, I didn't. I then threw my towel at him, told him to let me think about it, walked over to the window, drew the curtains back, letting the sunlight in, dragged the dresser chair to the window and sat there, with my back pressed against the window, and me facing him with my legs apart. He hung the towels up (yeah! That's my man! LOL ) and dashed over. I was expecting him to go down on me first, but he lunged straight into me and started slamming his hips into mine and grunting away. Him being him, he kept looking out to see if anyone was watching. I couldn't care less at that point To be fair, he DID alternate between his hip thrusts, to going down on me, then back up again, and so forth. Then in the middle of all that, I started the conversation going again about that lady in the pool. I asked if he was thinking about her. Ok. It started out a lot dirtier than that. Then it got a little awkward It went along the lines of, Me - You thinking about her now? Huh? You thinking about her big fucking tits? Him - Yeah.. Me - Oh yeah? You wanna fuck those big tits? Me digging my nails into his back Him - Urgh...oh yeah..I wanna fuck them. Me - Ha! I knew it...and you denied it too! I can't fucking believe you were thinking about someone else! (Talk about bad timing right..LOL ) Me - You were getting a hard-on cos you were imagining fucking her earlier right..? Him - (slowing down a little bit, but not stopping entirely) Him - But you're okay with it, right? I mean...seriously? Awkward silence...him still sliding his dick slowly in and out of me... Me - ...yeah. I actually don't mind that much. Just fucking tell me next time if I ask. Him - Yes ma'am. (starts sliding his dick in and out a little faster) Me - (I pinch his left nipple) You thinking about her now? Him - Argh...no..I'm thinking how I used to call you my little fuck toy... Which I completely forgot about Me - Hahahaaa! Oh yeah! I forgot about that...she DID have huge tits...even I was marveling at them. Hahahaa Him - (starting to thrust faster and harder) Yeah...I wanted to slap my dick on her tits so bad...I wanna fuck her so hard her titties bounce Me - ..... (in my head, I thought that was...kinda funny )Him - (Slamming his groin into mine, and squeezing my tits and pinching my nipples) Me - Fuck me harder! Make my tits bounce! He came shortly after that He told me he wanted to cum while tit fucking me but never made it that far. LOLWe did later that evening though. That was not the whole conversation, but I thought that bit was hilarious. We talked about it after and I couldn't stop laughing But! There was a point to that...it got me thinking if I actually minded him thinking about someone else, or rather, getting aroused by someone else. Actually, more like, getting aroused by someone else, then having sex with me. I suppose, I am a bit, but not to the point where it's going to be an issue. One one hand, it feels like I'm being used, as an outlet. On the other, is it really all that bad? I mean, at the end of the day, there's really nothing you can do about it. And I rather him be honest about it with me. Cos, isn't that what watching porn together, or alone too, for that matter, is about? I guess it's okay, as long as he still finds me attractive, and I'm not some permanent substitute. Plus, it is kinda hard to fault or get mad at him for it considering I'm guilt of it too. I'm sure we all are. I'm just glad we get to talk about it. I'm not even gonna ask...I'm sure all of you do that at some point.
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I have done that a few times thinking about another man when I am with a guy. After my husband passed away I had a hard time everytime I was with a man i was thinking about my husband. Comparing the guy to him. LadyTeddieBear 
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Which all cums back to the questions I often ask on just where do you draw the line on fidelity. I am pretty sure that you must have had the hots from perving other blokes otherwise the idea would never have entered your mind. Perhaps you have masturbated from it or perhaps you have also shagged your current partner while fantasising about someone else. What if you hadn't flown off to join him? Since that owner of the big tits was with her husband and kids he would have needed some other outlet to relieve himself. I doubt you have a problem with that even though I am also sure you would prefer if his mind was on you whenever he feels the need to wank. But I have met women who would even take exception to their man taking matters into their own hands never mind watching porn or even worse, visiting an establishment of ill repute. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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Interesting... I have never fantasized about being with someone else when I'm fucking someone. I'm too "in the moment", preoccupied with what I'm experiencing, to even consider it. But... It would be foolish to deny that I've been aroused by what I've seen... or maybe thought And there is no doubt in my mind that this has made me hornier, which will in turn heighten the passion when I am with a woman... just as your man got an erection which made him want you there and then! So you might say that the woman I'm with has benefited from the women I've oggled 
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I have been thinking about Chilli Crabs. Does that count? Fun and Pleasure in Sunny Side Singapore. Come visit my blog and let's chat and explore.
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I have done that a few times thinking about another man when I am with a guy. After my husband passed away I had a hard time everytime I was with a man i was thinking about my husband. Comparing the guy to him.
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Which all cums back to the questions I often ask on just where do you draw the line on fidelity. I am pretty sure that you must have had the hots from perving other blokes otherwise the idea would never have entered your mind. Perhaps you have masturbated from it or perhaps you have also shagged your current partner while fantasising about someone else. What if you hadn't flown off to join him? Since that owner of the big tits was with her husband and kids he would have needed some other outlet to relieve himself. I doubt you have a problem with that even though I am also sure you would prefer if his mind was on you whenever he feels the need to wank. But I have met women who would even take exception to their man taking matters into their own hands never mind watching porn or even worse, visiting an establishment of ill repute.
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Which all cums back to the questions I often ask on just where do you draw the line on fidelity. I am pretty sure that you must have had the hots from perving other blokes otherwise the idea would never have entered your mind. Perhaps you have masturbated from it or perhaps you have also shagged your current partner while fantasising about someone else. What if you hadn't flown off to join him? Since that owner of the big tits was with her husband and kids he would have needed some other outlet to relieve himself. I doubt you have a problem with that even though I am also sure you would prefer if his mind was on you whenever he feels the need to wank. But I have met women who would even take exception to their man taking matters into their own hands never mind watching porn or even worse, visiting an establishment of ill repute.
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Interesting... I have never fantasized about being with someone else when I'm fucking someone. I'm too "in the moment", preoccupied with what I'm experiencing, to even consider it. But... It would be foolish to deny that I've been aroused by what I've seen... or maybe thought And there is no doubt in my mind that this has made me hornier, which will in turn heighten the passion when I am with a woman... just as your man got an erection which made him want you there and then! So you might say that the woman I'm with has benefited from the women I've oggled
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I have been thinking about Chilli Crabs. Does that count? Hey, whatever rocks your fancy. Judge free zone, right?
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Needless to say works great if both parties share and are open about it. Sharing is caring!
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Needless to say works great if both parties share and are open about it. Sharing is caring!
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My wife and I sometimes ogle women together; sometimes she points particularly ogle-worthy women to me. Sometimes during foreplay we'll even talk about noteworthy examples: Her: "You'd fuck the redhead in the coffee shop if you had a chance, wouldn't you?" Me: "Only if I could share her with you." (Alternate answer: "You mean there was a redhead in the coffee shop other than you?") Her: (A smile, like that was the right answer.) As for taking matters into my own hands, I'm pleased to say that she's in the mood often enough that I haven't had to do that since we met. Even on the rare occasions when she's not in the mood for a while, she makes sure I'm well taken care of (and sometimes ends up in the mood without starting that way). It helps that we haven't spent any long periods of time apart; I'd much rather play with her than myself.
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I'm a firm beliver in honesty is the best policy. Even if you lite your self on fire or find yourself in the dog house. Many times it worked out in ways I never thought it would.
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