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Loving your Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I passed mine up more than one time this week but that is another blog. This is not what I was going to blog on originally, but I feel like it. First, I would like to say Happy Father's Day to every man, woman, and (sibling ) that is helping or have has helped raise a . I admire each and everyone of you. My has been in a serious relationship for about 3 months now. She does not date lightly. Her last serious relationship was maybe 4 years ago. We all liked this guy. He brought out so many attributes in her that I did not see in her before. And she really loved him. For whatever reason, he has decided it's going to end. To her and me from what she has explained, they are not what I would consider valid reasons. But it is to him. One of the issues can be changed. And to me it's not a major issue evidently it is to him. He said she was smothering him. She did not realize she was, and she said she would back off. If he would have communicated this with her right away, she would have backed off. She didn't realize she was. I guess it's like the time I was 20 minutes late to dinner, and never heard from the guy again. It breaks my heart to see my crying like a baby, knowing exactly what she is feeling. Like her best friend said last night, no matter what we say or do she has to work through it herself. My is very level-headed, she is saying the right things but she still hurting. I guess, over the years because of that pain, I have learned to put my heart in a box. That way I can still be involved with someone. But I don't go through the pain. To those of you that are actually looking for a exclusive relationship or have been in one and had it end, what do you do with that pain, that comes along, when it ends. How do you work through it. I usually find another someone to help me forget, or I work alot. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls |
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Life is not always pretty or predictable, but strangely we all manage to survive and prosper (for the most part)/ Things happen for the best and guys are not very predictable and/or nice. All the best, this too shall pass./d
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the famous serenity prayer says it better than i.... woop woop
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You're right- you need distractions. Another person, or just plenty of other things to occupy your mind. Stay busy and you get past it before you realize you're getting past it. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Life is not always pretty or predictable, but strangely we all manage to survive and prosper (for the most part)/ Things happen for the best and guys are not very predictable and/or nice. All the best, this too shall pass./d Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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the famous serenity prayer says it better than i.... Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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the famous serenity prayer says it better than i.... Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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That's what I was thinking when she was cryiing, we get to do this again. The cycle..........,thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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You're right- you need distractions. Another person, or just plenty of other things to occupy your mind. Stay busy and you get past it before you realize you're getting past it. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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