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Impossible to have an orgasm when receiving oral sex
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I am in the same boat as you. I love getting oral but can never have an orgasm from it
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4/18/2011 7:32 am |
I will put my seal of guarantee that I am the solution to this issue. I have not yet had one girl to fail my pussy sucking techniques. And they all REALLY enjoy it. My guarantee is that if it does not work the first time, continuous additional attempts are performed at no work for the fine lady!!!!
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1 post 4/18/2011 7:36 am |
hello how are u doing ? this is Asheq ALyaman from Yemen i waolld like to say i want to fuck u you are so charmming best regards
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4/18/2011 7:53 am |
My wife has the same problem whenever she comes from a long trip. It is brought about by the familiarity her pussy has with her two pocket vibrators she brings along wherever she flies. But the difficulty to orgasm only happens on the first fuck when she arrives. What I usually do is not to give her any oral on the first fuck. I always go for the brutal rough fucking she always enjoy when she arrives. The oral sex is done when her body is relax which happens on the next day. There we normally do the slow burn oral sex, if I may call it that way...it starts with so much caressing all over the body from each other. She licking me all over then me doing the same to her. Then the pinnacle fo this is me licking her pussy for an average of 6 songs in our fuck playlist - an average of 25 to 30 mins..a very long time. At this point she cums and cums and cums her pussy gushing with so much of juice and saliva...she normally begs for my tongue to be inside her pussy at this point, quite very tiring I should say but also very erotic..
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The questions for me would start with: do you enjoy oral sex, but just can't reach orgasm? Do you reach orgasm with a partner, or only by yourself? If you're extremely sensitive, oral may provide too intense a sensation - or it may not feel good at all. If you enjoy it, but don't reach orgasm, but reach orgasm through other methods with your partners - I wouldn't worry about it.... enjoy the ride, and don't expect orgasm, make sure your partner knows that you don't cum that way, and proceed. One day you may surprise yourself, and if not - enjoy the ride! If you're really wanting to reach orgasm through oral, and you do enjoy it, try masturbating while he's going down on you. Or use a vibrator.. whatever does it for you. Many guys find it extremely hot if the woman they're with joins in - and, face it, you know how to touch yourself.
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4/18/2011 8:03 am |
YEP YEP in the same boat but after doing some research (yes i look it up) it might stem from the fact that you need to be totally relaxed and not worried about the ending. So i guess just try enjoying the trees and the hills instead of getting to the Rocky Mountains hahahahah.
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4/18/2011 9:02 am |
magnaotter hit the nail on the head. I also cannot cum by oral stimulation as I have to be thrusting to get off. Being bisexual I've given numerous blow jobs to men some of whom jack off after I've been sucking for awhile and I have no problem with that. Proudly the women that enjoy oral from me have all cummed, or at least I think they did.
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4/18/2011 10:53 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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4/18/2011 1:00 pm |
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Welcum to blogging bonny lass. And I wouldnt be too concerned, and certainly dont think you are in anyway abnormal. Mastturbation is always the sure fire way to cum, especially for women I believe. Getting off in other ways is the best excuse in the world to throw the monogamy rule out of the window and try out a few more partners. As they say, nothing worth having ever cums easy. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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Thank you all it has been taken on board... 
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4/27/2011 12:46 am |
Hard to comment on! but would love to proove u wrong by giving u one of yr greatest orgasms with my tongue!
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5/1/2011 6:45 am |
i think we may have to get together and try a few different things, maybe even positions and see if anything works
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5/5/2011 4:31 pm |
Arousal and teasing is the key, its not all about the little boy in the boat right from the start, getting to the point where the first touch of the tongue is electrifying takes time but so well worth the work
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1 post 9/30/2011 7:56 pm |
hi.. was shown a technique that has been able to get a female to orgasm within 3 mins... yet to fail.. instructed a couple on the technique and both very thankful regards Dean
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11/7/2011 11:05 am |
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1/24/2012 5:24 pm |
Hmmm .... I think the answer is practice, practice, practice .... with me of course! Seriously, I think it has to do with trust and relaxing .... find a partner you like and trust .... and experiment a little. (Like me ... LO 
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Hi, perhaps the people who are giving oral to you have a technique that does not work for you. would be great to keep trying till you find the one that suits you best. However it would be a good idea to include a finger or 2 to help the outcome. I would be more than happy to offer my technique for a trial. Cheers,
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Hi there beautiful lady. I suppose because you have not come across someone who gives oral in a way that makes you have orgasms. It definitely happens & I am an expert. Try me & you will be directing other to do it in the same way.
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Happy to work through the issue and try to find a technique that helps you achieve this special feeling. Must be frustrating?
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I would think you have to trust the situation you are in, the person you are with, and then, take time, and if you relax, and sensations rise, and you think of the sea just waves shifting, not rushing, the shore will be reached in time, ride on those sensations, and if you do reach the shore sought well great, if not just enjoy the drifting sensuous sensations, and let the other person take care of you...... Thoughts in sensual pleasure to erotic writing writ. Feel free to travel - click - to my blog: An exploration introduction
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4/5/2021 1:59 am |
Yes I agree with the previous response. You're probably not comfortable enough to let go. You need to be able to trust your partner and be able to relax and let yourself go. It might help to masturbate in front of you partner first and feel safe climaxing with them. Then progress to him getting involved in your masturbation. Communication is important too. Vocalise what is working for you and what is not. Also give the vibrators a rest for a while and just use your fingers to masturbate. Slow build up, deep breathing exercises gentle touch and stopping and starting may help as well.
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