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Train humans the animal trainer way...  

LadyLord1 58F

2/28/2009 4:11 pm

Damnpoop. You're married. Sigh.

Life is measured by the number of time’s one’s soul is stirred.
Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
3/1/2009 12:02 pm

And LL, way too far away... We all train each other, just some techniques work more effectively than others...


peachy_feline 65F  
6 posts
5/23/2009 8:40 pm

Wow! What an excellent post...I really never thought about this until I read the extire blog. Seems like I need to stop the nagging and compliment more to get any positive results....thanks


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
5/24/2009 10:37 pm

Honey works better than vinegar to catch flies or train lovers...


DESIRIOUSRHYMES 74F
488 posts
7/21/2009 5:53 pm

Thanks for stopping by and this is an interesting article. Will read it later.

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wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
8/7/2009 7:02 am

This is without a doubt one of the most brilliant blogs I have read so far!

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
8/7/2009 7:44 am

I am shining brightly on you wild and wanton...


LaurenComesHome 74F

12/31/2009 10:44 am

Brilliant! Thank you.


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
1/3/2010 10:40 am

Have a wonderful 2010, training your friends and lovers...


rm_nish704 34M
9 posts
9/20/2010 8:34 am

ya good one...


torqmistress 57F

12/7/2010 8:32 am

very nice


rm_always_lily 72F
1012 posts
3/4/2011 5:13 pm

What a great article. Thanks for sharing it! As a speech-language pathologist, I have used behavior modification extensively. One of the biggest things you learn is that you are modifying your behavior as much or more than you are theirs.

Your article was a great example of how to get along in a relationship. While she initially thought she was 'training' her husband, she was really learning to be more aware and understanding of who he was and modifying her own behavior...in effect and actuality, 'training' herself. I love it! (It really does work, too.).


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
3/5/2011 4:27 am

I boil it down to accentuate the positive and do not respond to the negative. You weed out the bad behavior that way...


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
10/14/2011 5:43 am

We all use these techniques all the time without realizing it... Being aware of the best way to do it makes it easier to succeed...


ultimatefun01 42M

7/3/2012 9:11 am

gud one ....


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/30/2013 3:45 pm

Good one ty for sharing with us. Loved it very interesting too.. hugs V

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warmandsexy52 71M
13158 posts
11/19/2013 4:52 am

I specialised in human behaviour management in the latter years of my career. We're really not so different and the same basic principles of boundary setting apply.


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
11/21/2013 8:13 am

Interesting how we mold the responses of others, often without any awareness we are doing so...


rm_suprisingly 46M
18 posts
1/3/2014 9:05 am

great post keep them coming please


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
1/4/2014 4:22 pm

I always try to keep coming...


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/14/2014 2:57 pm

Good read ty for sharing with us bloggers hugsssssss V

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LaffLuvLilyslive 57F
2456 posts
12/8/2014 5:06 am

all f that is great advice

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
2/5/2015 9:18 am

The husband at the end of the article also was training his wife! Excellent post hugs V

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redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
1/26/2016 4:34 pm

Some behaviors interfere with the fun. Those that can be trained away are helpful to be rid of...


nc143728 75F
31 posts
2/21/2016 3:44 pm

This article is wonderful! I know I'm late to this party, but thank you so much for posting it. i just love it and find it so useful as a reminder of how i want to be in a relationship, of any kind really, but certainly in an intimate one, where our expectations, desires, dreams, and individual sensitivities can wreak havoc without the use of insight to modify our own behavior.

Not a new concept, but explains so well one I have long loved and endeavor to live by: we cannot change others, but if there is a chance we can effect change in others, it is through changing ourselves. Thanks again. I'm enjoying your blog.


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