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Breast v Dick  

SweetorSharp 53F
82 posts
9/19/2017 7:33 am
Breast v Dick

So I know I am not alone not liking dick pics. I do understand it is a matter of choice and some men and women feel the need/desire to display their genitals to the world That is fine, good luck to them but I really do not need or want to see.

I am though constantly accused of having "double standards" because I have pics of my breasts. Am I odd that I see breasts as a totally different level of exposure to genitals?

You go to any standard European beach and you will see breasts but will you will not see gaping vaginas or hairy dicks.

A subtle image of a breast in lingerie is not the same as a crude graphic close up of a penis, it is not on the same level as a vagina opened up to the world like a gaping chasm. So display if you must but please respect my desire not to look!

FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
9/19/2017 2:22 pm

 It's not about equal level of exposure, it's equal lack of imagination.

Men are accused of a lack of imagination for posting yet another dick pic, with the frequent comment "seen one seen 'em all". But then you see a woman's profile with... tits, tits in a bra, tits in another bra, tits, tits in yet another bra, a bit of nipple, more tits, yet another bra .

(I have seen women's profiles with four or five almost identical tits-in-a-bra photos - differing only make of bra )

As you say, nothing special, on display on any European beach.

So when women say they want a man who is more than just a penis, well men want a woman who is more than just a pair of tits.

And some men want a woman who won't just get her tits out and expect men to come running - the lack of effort is a bit disrespectful, even if it works


SweetorSharp replies on 12/26/2017 3:07 pm:
Lack of effort is evident all over I agree. Just look at all the ridiculous chest in mirror head off or camera phone covering face pics. Just careless thoughtless snaps. A real case of "that will do".

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