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Come on ladies...let's not be cunty.
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Come on ladies...let's not be cunty. On a scale of 1 to 10, most women on this site-most-are about a 5. I'm no ten myself. I am maybe a six. I have to attract women with my words and attitude not my looks. I am unlucky in that regard. But I feel I have a healthy view of myself. What I have realized and I am only being honest; that women on this site THINK they are much more attractive than they actually are. Question: Do women think that because men want to fuck them they are beautiful? Question: Should men be honest to women about how they look? Question: Can men be honest with women about how they look? I've tried to spark up a conversation with a woman late one night. I had sent her a message asking about her preferences. No answer. I do not assume she isn't interested in me sexually. I sent another message, no answer. I still assume she didn't get it. I have been told my messages don't appear. I think nothing of it. I try again weeks later to strike up a convo with this lady. She finally messages back saying she isn't interested. Facts about me: I don't like window shopping. I don't look at things I cannot have. I do not desire women that do not desire me. I tell her: ok, I was just trying to chat with you, I don't want you, just chatting. She got intellectually cunty. I CAN be happily married and fuck other women. Sex is not just an act to me akin to pissing. It's more like a recreational drug I partake in when the mood strikes. My feelings for my wife have nothing to do with anyone but her. This is a sex site. If you can parlay it into finding a sexually compatible mate for life that's impressive and I applaud that. It's not that way for everyone. Don't chat up every Tom Dick and Harry that messages you. But don't be cunty. To the sweet ladies-stay sweet, that's what attracts.   |
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We're not dealing with celebrities here. These are everyday people. ..... That doesn't mean these people have to lower themselves to fit you. You shouldn't lower yourself either. Women are not special creatures that fell from starlight and mixed with sugar and spice and everything nice. When a woman self-image conflicts with reality-everyone loses........ Wow, nothing like negging to try to get laid now. I think when anyone's self image conflicts with reality it is a loss, but no one should be told they are ugly because you think they are so therefore they should have sex with someone less than what they enjoy or want. Reading some of these ladies profiles is like reading the guidelines to a secret society or something. There are edicts and laws and penalties. Give and take is no longer and option in today's relationships. It's becoming one way. That will never work..... Key word here - relationships! As you are not in a relationship with an unknown why should they from the start begin lowering what they like just so you can get a date or a shot with them??? I have never seen so many excuses to get someone to change for a stranger just so strangers get a shot at someone. I am hoping you are not one of those do anyone that let's them guys that will take a woman they don't even find attractive because it IS sex. Any person that needs to name call and degrade someone telling them 'hey you ain't all that so you better take me' is the one with the problem. Insulting someone to get laid is really pathetic.
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Wow. That is what comes to mind first. No one, American or egotistical alike, is entitled anything. As adults on an accumulation of several adult-like sites you learn that respect is earned. I'm no 6. I'm a 5 with make up and heels on, but because men feel they are on a site promoting sexual endeavors that any woman who happens to be in reach to contact is open to the possibility. We're not all low hanging fruit, guys included. I don't believe that just cuz I message a dude he's going to be instantly interested in me. Everyone has personal standards. You should as aman feel comfortable telling that woman how they look but don't think the response you give will be the response you get. Everyone has a complex also, so dish out what you can handle. And for the attitudes being given to one another that seem so guarded and the ensuing name calling and bashing. I want you to think back Sonnyboytuff. When you first logged into what ever penthouse affiliated site you are on and you got an inbox full of messages from other dudes telling you all the freaky nasty things they wanted to do to, with, on or about you, presuming you weren't interested and you either deleted the messages or replied no thanx and one or two messaged you back trying to convince you it would be worth your while, how did that make you feel? We're you in a good mood still, willing to open up that NEXT email from them. Maybe that individual felt you were being kinda cunty. After all they felt you were down for the cause since you logged in, but now YOU were just being a tease or a bytch or ugly lesbian just cuz you weren't interested in what they were offering. Having a penis or vagina doesn't entitle you to anything. You are not special, nor am I or anyone on the siteS. This is an outlet and opportunity to potentially meet someone, anyone, of YOUR choosing, not theirs. Read the profiles if you can (if you can email, you can read the profiles first) so not to waste time inappropriately and not get so butt hurt about rejection for something as measly as a chat. Just sayin. MANNERS are automatic, respect is earned.
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sonnyboytuff replies on 4/22/2016 12:18 pm: Ah! I welcome opposing views. It's healthy. I looked at your profile and I can only say with so many caps and exclamation marks you must have a lot of boundaries. I have all those caps and exclamations because men don't get what the meaning of NO LET'S MEET... NO LET'S CHAT... NO LET'S BE FRIENDS!! I constantly get men sending me dicks pics and insisting that THEY can make my day, get me to change my mind, and don't realize I am NOT interested at all for anything other than being on MY cam. I don't want to see their dicks. I don't want to rush to service them like an on call whore. I have a man for any personal contact I want and being an exhibitionist online is MY thing. He knows I do it and is right there watching too. If guys didn't think they had some magical dick and are going to get me to cheat and go with THEM I wouldn't have a profile written so loudly. I get tired of having to say wtf don't you understand about NO??? It doesn't make me cunty, it makes them assholes for thinking they are so hot with their ego. I clearly post I don't want that. Nothing is misleading.
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THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!! Absolutely he DID mean to call me baby in a disrespectful manner when he did it the SECOND time!!! I was very polite when I said to not do and it and he purposefully did it again. WHEN A MAN'S EGO GETS IN THE WAY WE ALL LOSE!! Where anyone gets that because they have a dick they are entitled to fuck us because we are NOT celebrities is about as insulting as anyone can get. Don't tell people to have sex with others they don't want to just because you DO want to. Quoting the poster: Women are not special creatures that fell from starlight and mixed with sugar and spice and everything nice. Would you tell YOUR daughter to just shut up and fuck anyone that asks because again she is not a celebrity and tell her she is not a special creature??? I am betting NOT!! The lines Pandora wrote that are most important are Women are in a can't win situation where messages are concerned: - If we reply with a simple no thanks, we are argued with, called names, insulted, verbally abused. - If we don't answer at all we are accused of being rude, full of ourselves, having inflated egos, bitches. - If we reply and just chat with someone we are not interested in, we are accused of endless talk with no intention to ever meet, flakes, fakes, not real, if you don't want to fuck why are you here at all, go to a vanilla site. - Half of the messages we get either say nothing more intelligent than "Hi" or worse, "Lets fuck." JUST because we are on THIS site doesn't mean women are cunty if we don't do as you wish. I am betting you wouldn't find it so funny if all you got were gay men emailing you and nothing else regardless of if your profile specifically said you were straight. I doubt you would cave in and not be an asshole to them and let them fuck your butt based on you were on THIS site and should be doing sex with anyone and everyone. We get this crap daily and it isn't spam. There are that many men that are horny and will fuck anything that will let them and they feel we are on this site so therefore we owe them a fuck. Trust me, you have no clue what women go through on here.
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Let's see, I just about have had it with this crap. I simply replied to a man today, which I will not be doing any longer, please don't call me baby as I don't like it. He wanted to know when I would be on cam and kept calling me baby and I find it annoying as hell so I POLITELYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY asked him to not call me that. His response was " I know your problem... you are what they call a CUNT....go fuck yourself you simple bitch." NOW WHY THE FUCK SHOULD I HAVE RECEIVED THAT??? Before you go calling women cunty for not answering the way YOU want, think about how many times we are called fucking names because some selfish, egotistical asshole came along on this site and thinks we owe them something because we are here. Sorry to burst your bubble, but not everyone that responds to you with a no thank you is being cunty. Maybe we have had enough of the fucking abuse we have to go through on this site and now won't answer anyone else because some other asshole came along and ruined it for you. Blame your own gender for women not responding.
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This is a great answer as it is the truth. Women are bombarded on here by the men who do outnumber us massively. Many women get in upwards of 100 emails A DAY. When the IMC is turned on the flooding of messages is off the charts, so to assume someone is just ignoring you, maybe you didn't know this. When someone, anyone, has a plethora of whatever it is they are looking at be it ice cream or someone to go out with i.e. Baskin Robins with 50 flavors of ice cream, no one is going to take the first thing that comes along nor feel they have to take the lesser of what they want just because. You will take the pick of the litter, the top choice, and that is no matter what you look like. With that said, are you aware that over 100 sites log in here? Some of them are for gay people ONLY, some of them are listed as for senior citizens, some of them are for dating and in fact this site itself has in the 'help' section this definition: What is the purpose of Passion? The purpose of the Passion site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At Passion, you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, we offer several powerful features, that allow you to narrow your search so you can find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, we also add new features to make your time at Passion a successful and fun experience. Please note that it doesn't say FOR FUCKING specifically. IT DOES SAY DATING AND FRIENDSHIP, NOT JUST FOR FUCKING! I just want you to see that there is something OTHER than 'this site is here for you to fuck people. Now also take into account, although you may not do this, many DO. Once a woman responds if it isn't the expected 'yes' answer they start to flame us similar to what you are doing with saying we are being 'c*nty' to you. As you didn't give us what she said other than she was not interested, that doesn't equate to being c*nty to me to just say she was not interested, but suddenly when a woman says she is not interested she becomes fat, ugly, skanky, and a whore many more times than I care to count on this site. If a woman doesn't answer she gets the same responses as well when in fact with 100 emails a day it is very difficult to answer them all. Many of those emails don't require a response as that woman may have already said she is not interested in certain ages, marital statuses, distances, or anything else, yet those men DO contact her anyway as if she never gets any emails at all. Then are those that just keep emailing no matter what the woman says and she has to block them. There are many reasons why women act the way they do on here the same as there are many reasons why men act the way they do as well. One shouldn't say because they didn't get answered the way they wish to or get the responses they didn't like that it makes them a b*tch, a c*nt, a whore, ugly, fat, or anything else, but it happens. H*ll, we even get unsolicited hate emails from men that just contact us to tell us off. No one should be expected to do or be anything. It is the internet and almost every site including the dating sites get the same stuff over and over. Sorry to say but those women you consider being c*nty to you may very well be very sweet to the one they want. It is all in ones perspective.
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You have great points on this, A lot of women do think that way, sometimes people just want someone to talk to and nothing more, I feel because it is a sex site, everything doesn't have to be about sex, it is an adult site so why not be an adult,
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