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Why Blog?  

Red_Elf 51F
578 posts
3/10/2016 7:28 pm
Why Blog?


So, even though this is a new profile, I've been familiar with Discreet Gay Dating's blogosphere for a very long time, having been on here for over a decade with my ex. I liked it here because people would just say what they thought without a lot of pretense and I found it refreshing to hear the way people thought without the everyday filter most of us wear.

It's also nice to hear from people who are sexually open-minded in ways that go far beyond the garbage that lands in my inbox most of the time (reference yesterday's post, for instance, for the lack of quality that entails).

People who write are people who care about thinking. They care so much about thinking that they want to share thinking with others...share their own thoughts and hear the thoughts of others, as well. I've begun to realize these are also the only kind of people I truly care to date--those who care enough about thinking to give others' thoughts significant care and consideration.

Sure, chemistry and physical attraction are huge, as well, but without the ability to think about the thinking of others, a man's physical body means very little to me. Without the ability to think about one's own thinking, a man's physical body means very little to me. The chemistry, for all intents and purposes, is gone.

So, why do YOU blog?

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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ReBar100 57M
4167 posts
3/10/2016 7:51 pm

I blog because it is one of the few places I can post nude photos without earning a prison term.

Rebar100
Just the right amount of wrong. Occasional participant in various ongoing blogging projects. Rather be naked. The Blog: [REBAR100]


CookiesNMischief 38M

3/10/2016 8:34 pm

- Who else will read my thinking stuff if I don't get it out there for those to perv?

Blogging is a a great forum for like-minded individuals to share sensual interests, and to exchange ideas in a place felt most comfortable. Plus, I like to see what other bloggers are up to when my writing tends to hit the wall.


Kootie_Kat 108M
410 posts
3/11/2016 6:19 am

Good post.
I have been on the site for over 5 years and have quit looking.
I enjoy the blogs and the comments.
Thank you for being interesting.


Red_Elf 51F
617 posts
3/11/2016 11:58 am

    Quoting ReBar100:
    I blog because it is one of the few places I can post nude photos without earning a prison term.
Roflmao

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
3/24/2016 3:11 am

I write a non-sex blog already, so it was no stretch to write one here too. I started it because Discreet Gay Dating had a deal where one could stretch a 12-month gold to 18 months with three conditions:
- Write a blog message at least once a month,
- Write at least three first-contact attempt messages per month, and
- Something else at least a certain number of times per month.

I still write occasionally, but I never really got enough replies to keep up the motivation. Reading others' blogs and writing replies seems to generate a lot more interaction. Maybe I should try to think of more to write about, and give it another shot.


Red_Elf replies on 3/24/2016 2:08 pm:
I always enjoyed reading your blog.

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