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What do you look for?  

Red_Elf 51F
578 posts
3/15/2016 6:27 pm
What do you look for?

So, I often think what men think women are looking for and what women are actually looking for is terribly out of alignment. Well, it's not just me thinking this. There is plenty of data out there to support this idea, as well. Men just don't know what women like and they often project what they think women like in hopes that it will get them the attention of women.

What do I look for? I look for authenticity and I look for people I think I may find attractive and people who don't seem to define themselves by society's norms, but by their own sense of right and wrong and try to live by that. My idea of attractiveness is not some Fabian looking character or some super buff male. Often I wind up with men who are relatively slender, and relatively attractive, but not someone who stands out in a crowd attractive. I look for people comfortable in their own skin and who are kind to everyone around them. I look for people who aren't pushy or demanding in any way.

What do you look for?
MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
3/15/2016 6:46 pm

 Kinda the same as you! Normal everyday attractive, girl next door type! People who are funny and can laugh at themselves. Down to earth people!


iwalkstilts 49M
2869 posts
3/15/2016 7:34 pm

 Teacherspet has a point.
If a lady shows interest that alone can be very sexy!


Red_Elf 51F
617 posts
3/15/2016 7:41 pm
    Quoting techerspetxxx:
    I look for a female that's interested in me. I don't have a type because I'm a guy and guys don't get to pick.
If that's how you play it, you'll wind up making both of you very unhappy eventually.
MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}


Red_Elf 51F
617 posts
3/15/2016 7:43 pm
    Quoting iwalkstilts:
    Teacherspet has a point.
    If a lady shows interest that alone can be very sexy!
I have to say that occasionally it's the interest a male shows me that also flips my switch, as well. Can't be pushy, but authentic interest without expectations is hella sexy.
MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
3/24/2016 3:45 am

 What do you look for?

I already have the sort of partner I want.

But to the extent that I'm looking for someone on here, I'm looking for
- A woman who might be interested in both of us as a possible threesome partner
- A couple who might be interested in a non-swapping watch-and-be-watched encounter
- Friendly interaction in general


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