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Multiple Partners: when white lies backfire  

HRM902 56M
9 posts
10/31/2017 1:17 pm
Multiple Partners: when white lies backfire

So, I have been with my partner for over seven years, and i have also had a girlfriend for the past two years. They each knew about each other but have never met or spoken to each other, until this week.
I had told each partner what I thought they wanted to hear about the other, but tried to keep things separate. Trust me now when I say, this is absolutely the wrong thing to do. I have lost one partner and possibly both from my ignorance. Although in my mind, I thought my intentions were good, they were destructive.
I hope to make amends someday, but know it will never be the same. I lost trust of the people I care the most for. My Lovers, My Loves.
I write this with hopes of therapeutic nature and for me to look back upon should I ever think this road is the right path. IT IS NOT.
When venturing into a multi partner relationship, all things must be transparent. All emotions an open book. Though some things may hurt along the way, it pales in comparison when it comes out in the end.
I am hopeful I can keep my long term relationship, I am heart broken I lost my girlfriend.
Beware, words hurt, especially if the are blindsided.
Please reflect on your relationship and open up about all with each partner you may have.
TRUTH is the only way to manage a TRUE relationship.

GixxerLust 46F
763 posts
10/31/2017 2:50 pm

 Trust and truth is key and you can't have one without the other.
Best of luck to you and your partners.
Come think dirty with me - GixxerLust


partygald 41F
1963 posts
11/1/2017 2:07 am

 Now THAT is the truth. Sorry it all went south but the positive outlook of it being a lesson will go a long way. Hang in there, it’ll get better 👍


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