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I find it ironic that so many state "Freedom" like it were all or nothing. In this day and age, you are free to do what you want. You can have your freedom and still be married. Sex becomes a recreational sport for fun...enjoy the moments when they occur. If you become obsessed with it, maybe that will become a problem. It CAN be more exciting if you include your spouse but not necessarily. You can flirt and fantasize and if you happen across someone who, at that moment is on the same page as you...knowing it is meaningless and just for fun...do it. Enjoy yourself. If you have doubts or guilt...then it's not for you.
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Congrats on your new job. If the travels ever take you up to western Canada, let me know. I would love to show you around my part of the country. There are lots of sights to see.... lol.
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I have been in the lifestyle for 25 years and I have seen some horrible things come out of cheat situations. This is why we do not play with anyone who is in a cheat situation no matter how much we would love to play with them.
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7/21/2020 7:11 am |
People can give their advice and it really means nothing because they do not know what your home life is like, for example do y'all argue & fuss all the time, Is he or you mentally or physically abusive to you or you to him, do y'all have sex on a regular basis if not how long between before you have sex with him, do you all get along with each and love each other but the sex is just gone, do you and him love each other but the physical attraction is not there anymore, just so many questions that needs to be answered before you follow anyone's advice, just like my situation, you need to ask yourself if cheating with another man is worth giving up your marriage also it just depends if your husband cares if you cheat or not, he might not even care if you cheat, he might done be cheating on you, so many unanswered questions to this that needs to be answered first before you listen to anyone's advice
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7/22/2020 5:11 pm |
Why stay with someone you don't want to be with?
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pienso que ser libre es la mejor alternativa pero casado no me gustaría engañar si me caso ya no se vale poner el cuerno hay que aceptar la responsabilidad de mi acto
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it's depend on partner .. some partner allow to sex with others.
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7/24/2020 2:01 pm |
Medical reasons prevent having sex with my wife, so when opportunity knocks, I answer....
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1 post 7/24/2020 7:28 pm |
Hot as you are either way, wow
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Everyone has their own thoughts when playing but I think it’s more of the thrill for ones I have been with
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I have dated married women in the past and found that I get turned on being with another mans wife.
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My wife plays with married men frequently. We find it easier. They are more interested in sexual fun without an emotional attachment. SIngle people are generally lonely and need more than sexual fun. I have also played with several married women. Picture here is of the last one. She’s a blast!
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Voted. Everyone has their thing.
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Whatever works for you. I prefer married women because I think there is a lesser chance of STD's. The thrill is greater too.
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In a somewhat similar dilemma. Love my wife, but not able to get what I need (loving touch even more than sex). Haven't actually cheated, yet, but intellectually willing to (hence my being on this site). That being said, if you are in my neck of the woods, give me a holler. I'll take you to dinner, and we can talk.
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not knowing the specifics of your situation, I shall refrain from voting but comment. I am currently married, asexual situation that he wasn't honest about before marriage. i waited many dry and emotionally empty years before making the decision to cheat and when I did, i told him, it really didn't change much in our lives. i guess my advice would be to identify the ability and opportunity for open communication, perhaps poly is the more appropriate route or approach. if the marriage is open to the discussion of having a partner or partners who are able to satisfy needs not being met within the marriage itself. good luck to you
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If you are married and cheating you are the sorriest piece of shit on the face of the earth. Grow up and get a fucking divorce so you can get away from from the shit storm YOU got yourself into. Nothing wrong at all if you have sex with others AND YOUR SPOUSE APPROVES IT.....NOT JUST OK WITH IT BUT ACTUALLY APPROVES IT. When I was younger I dated a woman who was in an open marriage - learned ALOT about how that dynamic can work successfully - sad to say I have yet to meet anyone else who can pull it off as good as they did. For that reason and the fact that people can end of getting killed over that shit I avoid married women all together.
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every situation is unique. but cheating there is usually no commitment or attachment. its about the fun and thrill of sex without anything expected after.
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Enjoy yourself. The ones complaining about cheating are just jealous. If you ever travel my way look me up.
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If he isn't meeting your needs, then he deserves to be cheated on because you are a beautiful sexy woman. You can visit me in Maryland anytime.
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you come first and foremost
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7/28/2020 8:21 pm |
You may just need a little extra-curricular activity
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mmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmm
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7/31/2020 12:00 am |
I am a single male. I really shouldn't comment. I do find a lot of couples that swing or the woman says she is free to do what she wants. When I was young I never crossed the line with married women. Now I would.
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8/3/2020 11:27 pm |
Id say it is ok to stay together for kids, property, living location, job, etc. If you can get free why not go for it?
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