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Survey describes the ideal man
Posted:Jul 27, 2006 12:22 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2006 8:48 pm
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from today's Dallas Morning News

Survey describes the ideal man

06:59 AM CDT on Thursday, July 27, 2006

Sixty-four percent of women say they would rather be with a man who is poor and attractive than rich and unattractive.

That's just one finding in the recent Woman's Day-AOL survey, "What we wish men knew," an in-depth look at what today's women think about the opposite sex, intimate relationships, and what they really mean when they say they're "fine."

Woman's Day and AOL surveyed more than 1,500 women nationwide and found:

Women want men to help out around the house by:

Taking out the trash, 31 percent

Cooking, 30 percent

Doing laundry, 23 percent

Not bothering; 16 percent say they'd rather do chores themselves.

What do women want in a husband?

64 percent say that would rather be with a man who is poor and attractive than rich and unattractive.

54 percent would rather marry a man that makes them laugh, such as actor Will Ferrell.

10 percent would prefer to marry a man who has washboard abs, such as Matthew McConaughey.

Woman's Day
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a lamenting
Posted:Jul 24, 2006 10:51 am
Last Updated:Jul 24, 2006 7:32 pm
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“The LORD God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone….’” ‒ Genesis 2:18a

What I miss most, what I long for the most, isn’t the orgasm. Surely I do enjoy the climax, the culmination of passions and sensual lust with the spewing forth of my juices. But more to the point, that release into a special woman. However, this is not what I miss the most.

I am not made up only of balls and testosterone. Anyone who’s spent more than five minutes actually getting to know me realizes that I am far from the stereotypical “guy”. I fully know that there is so much more to love than a conquest between the legs.

Holding hands ‒ anywhere, everywhere, anytime, every time. Praying together. Writing notes to each other on the sermon notes during church. Passing in the kitchen, grabbing her ass. Legs entertained and wrapped around mine. Nakedness and the feel of soft, cool cotton and warm, smooth skin. Looking eye to eye. Soft quiet whispers in pillow talk about everything or about nothing. Her back pressed into my chest and her breast cradled in my hand. My face covered with her hair. The sound of her soft snoring. The softest of all kisses.

Us mortals are not only flesh and blood, but also spiritual beings as well. It’s a rare thing to stumble across the intercourse of spirits.

Perhaps one day soon a girl will cross my path, and as we get to know each other we find that we have enough in common There must be reasons I am where I am now. What will it take? How long? Will it ever happen? I don’t know. I’ve spent a great deal of effort trying to make it happen and I have worn myself out. There’s not much I can do to hasten things long. I can go to the gym and to my bike and get my body back into shape. I can go to The Word and allow my soul and spirit to be put back into shape.

“Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.” ‒ Song of Solomon 2: 7a
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Understandin' the Freak Within Me
Posted:Jul 17, 2006 10:16 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2006 4:18 pm
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Now what will you think when you look at me,
Will you wonder if I can make these words reality?
Please believe, everything I write I can do physically,
This is a true to life excerpt of how I please a woman Sexually.

And now that I have your attention,
its time you experience something new,
I'm gonna get the honey,
whipped cream and body oils & get prepared for you,
You see, you may have had good sex before,
but you can't egin to dream about what I'm gonna do.

I've got the handcuffs, don't worry I'm not into S + M
Its just enough to keep you still,
Tonight you"ll need to be restrained until you can handle the
Way I make you feel.

I'll take the body oils and massage away the tension,
Relax your mind & body then proceed with attention,
Put you in the mood for the night at hand,
Tonight is just for you,
I'm your sexual servant, your wish is my Command.

I'll slowly kiss every part of you,
My curious mouth needs to explore,
Until I find each and every spot that causes your body tremble,
Your back to arch and make you moan for more.

And although I'm not blessed with being hung,
my favorite method of pleasure is my talented pearl tongue.

I'm a real man, you know I love to eat, and your body is what I desire, my
Personal delicacy.

So Mommi pretend I'm your baby, it's time for me to feed,
Let me drink the juices expelled until I've satisfied my need.

There's this little thing that I love to do,
As I am licking and sucking I stick one finger inside and caress that G spot
Just for you.

You're breathing is changing, your nipples starting to swell, your getting close
I can tell, it feels too damn good to hide,
MMM baby you taste so good as you climax, I want it all in my mouth as you take
My finger for a ride.

Far from a minute man, I could wear you out with my tongue,
Just the tip of it, I will have you satisfied, exhausted, and sprung.

But tonight you're in for a treat,
Because my manhood can easily match my tongues feat.

Oh and did I forget to mention, that I have a device that while I'm stroking you
In and out, it'll give your love button some extra attention,
So you will at least be at orgasm number four by the time I switch to the L Seven
From the Mission.

I hope you keep your sanity, don't lose your mind,
As I stop to drink your sweet nectar before I hit it from behind.

A sensual lover, your moans and groans are what arouses me,
So until the cops come knocking, our bodies will be rockin,
Until our bodies collapse in ecstasy.

~Unknown
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slow simmer
Posted:Jul 13, 2006 8:58 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2006 8:33 pm
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Every once in a while it's good to give a blog a bump, just to keep things going, just to keep a pot stiring -- even if it's a very slow pot
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Posted:Jul 11, 2006 12:01 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 5:40 pm
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Last night, as I sat watching TV with my brood, I felt it coming on. I was feeling more tired and more fatigued as the night wore on, though I hadn�t done anything real demanding all day (save for the position of single dad). Just sitting there, I almost fell asleep. It was all I could do to tell each of my to bathe, brush teeth, and get to bed. I think I read to my boys.

Today, similar. The thermostat is set to 74F, and I�m wearing a sweater. I have aches all over, and I�m fatigued.

Not now! The amount of time left with my can be measured in days, if not hours. It�s half-price day at the zoo tomorrow. At the end of the week, I have a thousand-mile round trip.

Pizza tonight. I�ll get them to bed and myself there shortly after. Do I have to do dishes or laundry?

A girlfriend would come in handy right about now.
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sex, by definition?
Posted:Jul 9, 2006 7:59 pm
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2006 8:06 pm
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Main Entry: in暗i搶a搾y
Pronunciation: 'in-t&-m&-sE
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural -cies
1 : the state of being intimate : FAMILIARITY
2 : something of a personal or private nature

The other day a freind of mine said said that she misses initmacy. It's different that sex, which is relatively easy to come by.

I asked her if it that was something eay to say from a person who can get sex easily. If she were a person who found sex harder to find, would she still have the same cavalier attitude?
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Pumping up
Posted:Jul 8, 2006 7:52 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2006 7:53 am
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I’ve been away from the gym too long. It’s not like they have stopped charging me for a membership. But I let the things of life distract me, and then it became easier to find excuses to stay home. It was simpler to relax in the recliner and watch TV.

My will be back with their mom in a week. Then, I can regain my status as a ‘bachelor” (for all intents and purposes). I’ll start with the treadmill and stationary bike. And I’ll definitely put some real miles on my bicycle. I’ll see if there are any rallies still around here. I’ll see when the yoga class is scheduled. Then lifting weights to get what muscle I have toned. The best part is the hot tub!
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Summer shower
Posted:Jul 4, 2006 11:11 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 5:40 pm
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An unexpected rain shower this afternoon ‒ a good one, for about half an hour. Such rains are good for one of two things: to play outside with their daddy in, or a man to make love to a woman during.
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hiatus
Posted:Jul 3, 2006 9:25 pm
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2006 8:32 pm
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Not much to say right now. I'm too busy to date for the next few weeks. After that, I want to meet someone special.
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hoohum
Posted:Apr 6, 2006 2:54 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 5:40 pm
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Since other things haven't worked out as I had hoped, I'll come back to this and give it another try.
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can't figure it out
Posted:Oct 14, 2005 8:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2006 2:53 pm
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Obviously I'm not doing something right...
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Porn: a good thing? pthththth...
Posted:Oct 12, 2005 9:47 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Since I have a lot of time on my hand (ie: I have no significant other in my life), I do have quite a collection of artistic nudes and soft-core. Fantasies aren’t a bad thing on a quiet night, are they?

But then I have an occasional pity party, oh woe is me, and I wonder why I don’t have a girl in my life. And the nudies are a positive, attractive thing to a girl? Oh yeah, that’ll win points.

It’s a circular argument: loose the nudes to gain a real girl ‒ hold onto the pics while I don’t have a girl…

I suppose it depends on the girl.

Being single sucks sometimes, and not in a good, sexy way.
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careful with that match
Posted:Oct 12, 2005 9:39 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Burning bridges must be done with excruciating care and should be avoided if at all possible.

It seems that as I've gone forward from the 'big D' I've met one or two girls. But somehow I've managed to mess up those potential relationships, one way or the other. Feelings got hurt and I doubt that I could make things better. I wish I could. If nothing else I could call one of these ladies up on a quiet Friday night and see what's on TV.

Would flowers help?
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