MEN DO YOU SQUIRT OR DRIBBLE?
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Posted:Apr 25, 2017 11:50 am
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Following the studies of Masters and Johnson, one of the more perverse study had to do with male orgasms. Not having the study to quote; I will paraphrase what I remember of the book.
Masters and Johnson were interested in the different type of orgasms me had; did they squirt when the came or did they just dribble cum out of the penis.
The had 20 individuals in the test all of the different ages and ethnic backgrounds: but from what I could garner was that all the males were either gay or bi-sexual. I don't see if that would make a difference or not.
The had the subjects stand around an 8X12 plastic tarp and masturbate until they came. From the test group, it was determined that the majority of the pre-thirties had a squirting orgasm while the 30-50 group was almost equally divided in squirting and dribbling. There was no mention of an older age group.
The conclusion seemed to say that a lot of factors would determine the outcome of the study. Age, stimulation and perhaps embarrassment of jacking off in a group, left one falling into the dribbling category.
For myself, it depends on a lot how aroused I am and who I am with.
Now you know more about the male orgasm then you really wanted to know.
tommo
all mention of Masters and Johnson is available on the net.
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THE STEP--IN-LAW
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Posted:Apr 19, 2017 3:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2017 1:43 pm
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My wife has a stepson from a previous marriage and he and his girlfriend were living with us until the could find a place of their own. They were with us for about 6 months when the stepson got a wild hair up his ass and just up and left one day. No word where or what, leaving his girlfriend S. stranded with us.
She was a sweet girl and we referred to her as our step- and had no problem with her staying with us until she could get her shit together. S. was a large busted girl and liked to wear tight clothing and low cut blouses that did not leave much to the imagination. And on occasions was known to wear short shorts or mini skirts. She wasn't really blatant about her sexuality but made it clear she enjoyed sex.
One day S. approached my wife about getting a nipple piercing and wanted her to go with her to get it. She agreed and after the piercing, when they got home and told me what they had done, my wife was not into piercing herself, and S. asked her if she could show it to me. Well, I got to see a very nice nipple with a string piercing in place until the hole healed. When she got the real thing she showed it to us again.
Now we were not put out or embarrassed by this and in fact seemed quite natural, it was not long after that she started to go nude around the house. Being as we were nudists ourselves, usually not at home with S. around, but that changed. We became a nudist family at home.
S. seemed quite content to not date or even go out at all, she stayed at home and we were a close-knit unit. It soon became apparent that she wanted to become sexually active with us and thus we became a threesome in a Poly relationship.
Now, there are those of you who will look down your noses at this, but as far as we could see, it caused no harm to anyone. And we were sad when she finally decided to move back to be close to her ailing mother.
Was it love? I would say that the three of us had a very loving relationship and still keep in touch....she has since married and has one little girl of her own that refers to us a grandpa and grandma.
Goodness, how time flies, that was 15 years ago.
tommo
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Are we to damn old to have sex?
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Posted:Apr 6, 2017 11:35 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2017 2:43 pm
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Is there a finite age that says no more sex for you. I know couples in their 70s that are still sexually active. I think it comes down to the old "use it or lose it" saying.
According to new studies, it is found that while the male seems to need more visual stimulus, porn or some aggression on the part of the sexual partner, notice I avoided using the "female' term due to a lot of males are in a gay relationship with the advent of the great "coming out" of the 21st century.
There is almost a direct opposition for the older female. It has be determined in scientific studies that when it come to sexual stimulation, the female is more cerebral. Finds reading erotic stories, hence the huge sale of Romantic Pulp Fiction with Fabio like male models on the cover. Perhaps reading allows the female to be able to be sexually aroused without being afraid of being caught looking a nude photos. That is my own interpretation of some of the sexual research into aging sexuality. Masters and Johnson did an extensive study on the subject. I have included that below.
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Sexual response in the aging person (1966-1975)
Masters and Johnson were the first to conduct research on the sexual responsiveness of older adults, finding that given a state of reasonably good health and the availability of an interested and interesting partner, there was no absolute age at which sexual abilities disappeared. While they noted that there were specific changes to the patterns of male and female sexual responses with aging – for example, it takes older men longer to become aroused and they typically require more direct genital stimulation, and the speed and amount of vaginal lubrication tends to diminish with age as well – they noted that many older men and women are perfectly capable of excitement and orgasm well into their seventies and beyond, a finding that has been confirmed in population-based epidemiological research on sexual function in the elderly.
While many of our younger generation shake their head at the thought of, dare I say it, their parents engaging in sexual activities well into their 70s. I hope by the time they are adults, they have the knowledge of "procreation"!
So have heart you sexy senior citizens, sex is still feasible!
tommo
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INTRODUCTION TO SWINGING FOR COUPLES: 102
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Posted:Apr 4, 2017 10:02 am
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2017 10:21 am
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Ok, you have placed your ad and may have even responded to other's ads that sounded promising or nearby. Let's start out with a few cautions. (remember: you can be anything you want with the anonymity of the Internet)!
Outside of "common sense" there are no set rules to the lifestyle. I always used my gut feeling when talking to new people. And always left an out if when meeting you are not interested in a particular couple.
I always found the incomplete profile a red flag, if they don't want to take the time to spell out who they are, what they are looking for, then you can usually put them in the "FLAKE" file, but not always, some are cautious of to much information leading to others knowing who they are in public life. I never responded to the ones that request a nude photo with the first contact, they are usually picture collectors and you never know just where those photos might show up. Wanting you to give them your phone number or e-mail on the first contact. If you are not looking to meet solo males; no matter how often you state this in your profile you will get single males fishing, hoping they just might be the one to turn you on to a threesome. You will find that often the other party will insist on meeting right away. We never felt comfortable doing that, it would be up to you to make that decision. And if you indicate you want to meet in public, I doubt that you will ever hear from them again. We always planned a public meeting and if they were not interested in that then the red flags waved again. (Beware the ones that say "Meet us in the parking lot behind Dennys Resturant") believe it or not, we had several of those requests. You might be amazed at who you may meet. We once met and played with a couple that she mentioned she was a teacher at a certain school, not only was it the same school that our grandson attended, but she was his teacher....small world...had a grat time, perhaps because we had something in common.
Don't push things, especially if your significant other is a bit shy or nervous. If you do decide to play with a couple and a motel is mentioned, be ready to pay half the cost of the room.
Breaking the ice when you finally have a planned play time....one good way is if the hotel/motel has a hot tub, relax and enjoy some conversation. Also, take a deck of cards with you and play a round of "strip poker" always a good way to get everyone's clothes off.
If you have done all your checking and it looks like sex is a go... for the male, don't let performance anxiety let you down, this is not a porno video and not a performance to impress the other couple. To help alleviate that foreplay can be just as arousing as the actual "Deed"...For the female..it might be beneficial to talk to the other female and see what she has experienced....also a nice set of lingerie is ver erotic to both sexes when playing.
Have fun and don't let the lifestyle consume you. We know others that their whole existence in built around meeting new couples. We have met and played with some of the same couples for several years...I was nice to know what..when..and how it was going to go down...pun intended
Have fun, be safe and be sane....
tommo
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Oh the charms of a mature woman!
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Posted:Mar 29, 2017 2:28 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2017 2:29 pm
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I must admit that even as a younger man I was always drawn to the mature woman. They seemed to hold back no chasity that you may find in a younger woman.
I was introduce to sex by a woman 20 years my senior, and she not only taught me the finer arts of lovemaking, but also how to treat a lady as a gift, not a right. She showed me the ways of the tounge abd how to satisfy a woman with just my mouth, but also how to show respect to those who do not enjoy such endevers.
I will always remember her with foundness and I can not help but think of her as I enjoy the delights of a mature woman.
tommo
photo is not mine and in the free space of the internet...
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INTRODUCTION TO SWINGING FOR COUPLES: 101
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Posted:Mar 24, 2017 11:07 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2017 7:39 am
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A little background on the blogger; I have been involved in the "swinging lifestyle", I hate that term, but it is what it is, for a little over 25 years, first as a solo male and later on I met and fell in love with a lovely lady that later became my partner in the lifestyle.
Since this is primarily aimed at couples we will stay with that in this post. As with many couples, it could begin as pillow talk or a fantasy by one or the other or perhaps both parties. Perhaps one of the partners had some previous experience with sex with multiple partners. However it was discussed, there has to be, again, there has to be complete agreement on both parties side. More often than not, it is the male who opens the subject of multiple sex partners.
Let's start: After it is decided that you are both willing to try exchanging sex partners then it is time to search other willing partners, some have found close friends that are willing subjects, but most people rely on Adult Swinging sites....such as Discreet Gay Dating and Passion.com and many others.
Placing the ad is not difficult, but be honest in what you want as well as who you are. It pays to subscribe to the site to get more recognition. Try it for a month to see what action you get and I would recommend a photo, does not have to be nude and for goodness sake don't follow my photo of just my cock, which it ain't, (I wish) or her pussy, I really enjoy the ads the have a face or full body photo. Shows who you are and not trying to impress them with your sexual prowess or endowment.
Be very clear in what you are looking for; such as "soft swing" having same room sex with your own significant other while the other couples are also having sex, or "full swap same room or same bed sex" most female partners are more comfortable with their male counterpart close by. Or "full swap" different rooms or even different locations. I don't recommend this until you are very comfortable with your play partners. My wife preferred the same room or even same bed full swap. Or are you looking for a solo male for a threesome? All the above is possible.
Make sure that you indicate if you or your partner is straight, bi-curious or fully bi-sexual. Discuss any parameters you will or will not do, such as, believe it or not, kissing, cumming vaginally, condom use or do they engage in anal sex. You do not want to have a problem after the party begins. Beware of the ads that leave the sexual orientation box unanswered. Ask if they are bi, they shouldn't be offended.
If you get a reply or you respond to an ad that looks promising, don't plan on sharing a plethora of e-mails, 3 or 4 are enough to get a feeling for the other couple. And for goodness sakes be careful exchanging ...be safe and sane, saves a lot of problems later; use your cell number, you can block problems on them.
The first meeting: I will cover that in the next session of Swinging For Couples: 102
tommo
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WARNING: Curves ahead!
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Posted:Mar 21, 2017 10:01 am
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2017 10:02 am
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I will admit it, I like a women with curves....I have found that they are not so body concious and more open to their own sexuality. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of very attractive fit ladies that are in touch with their sexuality as well, but in a few cases I have been turned off by some that if you were not a physical fittness freak, they were not attracted to a fellow with a few, ahem, few extra pounds. And I do not fault them for that choice.
I really think that most men in the lifestyle are looking for that young, hard body and pass over the buxom ladies because of that. Some of the best sex I have had were with women of the more curvaceous body style. They knew what they wanted and were not afraid to ask for it.
Case in point: I had a play partner that had gave up posting a profile on the adult dating sites due to being, what she termed, plumper in body deminsions. She was actually trolled on some sites with responses such as; "We are not interested in obese individules". This lady was beautiful, inside and out and who would turn down a set of 44DD tits with nipples that just begged to be sucked and she was not afraid to go down on a guy and suck him dry...!
So; gentlemen, the next time you faced with an add that requires HWP "Hight and Weight Proportionate" try a BBW "Big Beautiful Woman" you will be amazed how open they can be.....
tommo
Photo is not mine, found on the open internet
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Nudist, nudist resorts and nudity: When the sun goes down!
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Posted:Mar 20, 2017 11:26 am
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2017 5:24 am
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While most nudist do not consider nudity to be sexual nor is there any displays of sex allowed in public, and an erection is taboo in these situation. I remember my first visit to a nudist resort, during the formal introduction, it was clearly stated that if the male finds himself getting aroused, that he should find a private place to take care of the protruding member.
And I am sure that many nudist adhere to the above statement. But I have to say that I got laid more while visiting these nudist institutions than any other venue. I enjoyed the feeling of being nude and was able to keep myself under control.
The people were friendly and open and on my first day there I was visiting with a couple my age and they invited me to their, we will use the term camp here, for a drink that evening. After a couple of drinks the conversation turned to more of a sexual nature and they made it very clear that they would enjoy a threesome with me....I don't believe I need to go into details, but it was a very enjoyable end to a perfect day.
Now I don't know if they spread the word that I was open to sexual encounters, because the very next evening I had a lovely older lady ask me to join her in the resort hot tub. Very relaxing, and soon she made it clear that she would like to go to bed with me!
Now after 25 or so years of being a nudist and in the swinging lifestyle, I did not once miss getting laid while visiting a nudist resort. You may find it a different experience, but I believe that we all can have fun while nude, sexually or just relaxing.
tommo
photos are not mine and in an open net enviorment
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Anal sex, the new rage!
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Posted:Mar 9, 2017 11:38 am
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2017 9:55 am
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I have been involved it the sexual lifestyle for over 25 years and have seen a lot of progression in people's thinking on what is sexy and some digression on what is not.
In the past few years, one cannot click on a porn site or profile site that you are not greeted with male/female couples engaging in anal sex. Some equate anal sex to gay sexual contact. No, it is not the same.....
I have had the opportunity to engage in a journey down the "Hershey Highway" and while I found it intriguing, I personally prefer vaginal sex. I believe it stems from the first time I tried it with a female partner I got overly excited and rushed my entry and caused considerable pain. Subsequent efforts proved successful, but still not overly excited about the prospect of anal sex.
I was once playing with a couple that I was only allowed to have anal sex with her, he stated that the pussy was his domain and off limits.....
To those of you who enjoy anal sex, I applaud you, but I guess it is just a matter of sexual taste!
tommo
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The Princess
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Posted:Feb 16, 2017 11:05 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2017 11:06 am
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This was one of my favorite fucks, not the best, but the craziest. She called herself the Princess and said that she was one of the best fucks in town. We exchanged a few e-mails and she invited me up to meet and possibly play. This was before I met Jenny.
She met me at the door with a Shorty halter top that barely covered her nipples and a micro-mini that just did her pussy justice, nice and hairy from what I could first see and then we sat on the couch and she sat facing me with her legs spread and I could she her entire cunt and the nice little pink slit that was glistening with pussy dew.
She invited me to eat her out and I proceeded to do just that, parting her cunt hair so I could see her clit and started my pussy feast, I do not know if she used a flavored douche but it tasted like the nectar of the gods. She then asked me to suck on her clit and I slowly sucked it in and you could feel it harden and grow and she pulled on my hair and told me harder. So I really turned on the suction and I could feel her building up to a orgasm when she told me to bite her clit, gently at first then harder and harder until she came, thatwas when I found out she was a screamer.....about blew my ear drums out. After that she told me that I had to cover her mouth when she came so the neighbors didn't think I was killing her.
She proceeded to undress me and when she got my cock she started stroking it and playing with my balls...after she started sucking it I told her we had better move on our she was going to get a mouth full of surprise, she said if I did cum she would just swallow it, but I have pretty good control and held off.
We moved into her bed room with me following close behind with my cock between her butt cheeks and both hands full of her tits. I was shocked when we got into her bed room, it was entirely pink, with a pink canopy bed. She said that is why she was the afterall the Princess, she told me that she had a "sugar-daddy" that paid for her apartment and gave her a car to drive and paid her bills....she told me who he was, but I was sworn to secrecy and promised not to tell, but he owned one of the biggest car dealerships in town. She also told me that he could not get an erection in the normal way (I will leave that part out) and he got turned on by her telling him about who she had fucked and how.
She had a display of dildos, vibrators, B-Plugs, strap-on and some things that I had never seen before....she liked to use them in her foreplay and picked out the biggest dildo, it was at least a foot long and bigger around then I could reach with my thumb and middle finger. She said that one and laid down on her bed and had me straddle her legs and start slowly inserting this monster dildo, not only was it huge but it had a set of balls that would swing back and forth when you started plunging it. I did not see any way the balls would reach her, but she proceeded to tell me to push it in harder and harder, I was at the point where I was pounding her pussy as hard as I could and she was moaning and thrusting her hips back to meet each stroke and those balls were slapping up against her clit in rhythm. She started humping back harder and harder and harder when she told me to cover her mouth and with the last thrust of the dildo she screamed and bit my hand. She needed to recover and she laid there and slowly stroked my cock.
She then told me that she was ready to be fucked. I figured that there was no way I could compare to the size of that dildo, but she got on her hands and knees and had me insert a B-plug and I found that when I entered her she was surprisingly tight...we stayed in the doggie position for a bit and then she had me lie on my back and mounted me cowboy style, but rather that humping herself up and down she rubbed herself back and forth with my cock in her, she had that little milking sensation that was squeezing my cock and she started rocking back and forth and when she exploded, I squirted a huge amount of cum into her tight cunt. We stayed that way for a while, she was using her cunt to hold my slowly deflating cock in her. Cum was running out of her and down my cock and balls and she got a towel and cleaned us both up. We showered together and damn if I didn't get hard again and fucked her right there under the water, I was amazed.
That was our one and only playtime, she said she rarely fucked the same guy twice.....
Oh well, she was, after all, the Princes.
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Female Ejaculation or refered to as "Squirting"
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Posted:Feb 12, 2017 12:06 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2017 11:44 am
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There is a lot of misconceptions about female ejaculation (squirting). And to add to these conseptions and misconceptions is that scientists can not agree just what is the fluid that is ejected by some women when they experience an orgasm.
Some say it is diffinatly urine and other call it a true ejaculate that originates in an area of the uritha called the Skenes Glands.
Many sexual partners are turned off by this ejaculation or leakage of fluid. I for one have had the pleasure of having on two occasions, the pleasure of experiencing a sexual partner squirting, and on both occasions I can personally say that I did not detect the smell or taste of urine from this ejaculate. I guess it is up to the individule if they are turned on or turned off by this phnomonin.
I have included some information from the net and will include it in this post.
Female ejaculation comes in two forms, scientists find. ... Some women express liquid from their urethra when they climax. For some, this consists of a small amount of milky white fluid – this, technically, is the female ejaculate .Jan 9, 2015. This indicates that it probably came from structures called Skenes glands – which are rather like the female equivalent of the male's prostate. They are very tiny structures, located near the opening of the urethra (the urinary pipe).
The reality is that regular ejaculation certainly isn't universal. Some women do it once in a lifetime, but never again.
The actual percentage of females who ejaculate is uncertain. However, in Masters and Johnson's famous lab experiments with over 400 women, they did not record anyone who ejaculated at climax.
Nevertheless, the experience of gynecologists and family planning doctors indicates there is a substantial minority of women who do ejaculate regularly.
One of the more convincing assessments is that of Stanislav Kratochvil (1994), who found that about 6 per cent of Czech women reported ejaculating. Our own recent research suggests that the percentage of women who have ever ejaculated may be much higher.
When a woman first discovers that she suddenly drenches the sheets when she climaxes, it's natural for her to feel anxious and embarrassed.
And because most women initially think the fluid they produce is urine, they may assume what they are doing is 'dirty' or 'nasty'.
Their feelings are – quite understandably – linked to childhood prohibitions about not wetting the bed.
Unsurprisingly, quite a lot of these women tend to go through life avoiding sexual relations with other people. Some have the unfortunate experience of going to bed with men who react negatively when they climax – but fortunately that is not the reaction of most males.
A vast amount of material on the internet suggests there is such a phenomenon as a G-spot orgasm, which is likely to be accompanied by a gush of fluid from the urethra.
The G-spot is said to be an erotic zone at the front of the vagina, and this area is intimately connected with the urethra. Indeed, pressure on the G-spot area will invariably produce a desire to pee.
There is no doubt that pressing on the area of the G-spot would affect the above-mentioned Skene's glands, which are said by some to be the source of female ejaculate.
Hope you found this interesting.....Any misspellings are mine!
Tommo
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To shave or not to shave your pubic region!
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Posted:Feb 9, 2017 2:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2017 11:27 am
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When did shaved pussies become all the rage? I must have fallen asleep and when I woke up, 75% of our sexual play partners had shaved pussies and even some cocks
Call me old fashioned, but I personally like a hairy cunt! Not a full bush, but trimmed up nicely but more that just a landing strip. Are us men such Neanderthals that we expect hair down there.
My wife and I tried shaving our nether regions just once and found that we both felt a certain lack of cushion and the regrowth was pure misery. And believe me that is not my cock on my profile picture.....just an attention getter.
Some women and men tell me they prefer a shaved shaft or pussy so they don't have to deal with hair in the mouth. I guess that to shave or not to shave is up to the individual, but I still like hair!
Tommo
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INTRODUCTION TO SWINGING FOR COUPLES: 101
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Posted:Mar 24, 2017 11:07 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2017 7:39 am
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A little background on the blogger; I have been involved in the "swinging lifestyle", I hate that term, but it is what it is, for a little over 25 years, first as a solo male and later on I met and fell in love with a lovely lady that later became my partner in the lifestyle.
Since this is primarily aimed at couples we will stay with that in this post. As with many couples, it could begin as pillow talk or a fantasy by one or the other or perhaps both parties. Perhaps one of the partners had some previous experience with sex with multiple partners. However it was discussed, there has to be, again, there has to be complete agreement on both parties side. More often than not, it is the male who opens the subject of multiple sex partners.
Let's start: After it is decided that you are both willing to try exchanging sex partners then it is time to search other willing partners, some have found close friends that are willing subjects, but most people rely on Adult Swinging sites....such as Discreet Gay Dating and Passion.com and many others.
Placing the ad is not difficult, but be honest in what you want as well as who you are. It pays to subscribe to the site to get more recognition. Try it for a month to see what action you get and I would recommend a photo, does not have to be nude and for goodness sake don't follow my photo of just my cock, which it ain't, (I wish) or her pussy, I really enjoy the ads the have a face or full body photo. Shows who you are and not trying to impress them with your sexual prowess or endowment.
Be very clear in what you are looking for; such as "soft swing" having same room sex with your own significant other while the other couples are also having sex, or "full swap same room or same bed sex", most female partners are more comfortable with their male counterpart close by. Or "full swap" different rooms or even different locations. I don't recommend this until you are very comfortable with your play partners. My wife preferred same room or even same bed or room full swap. Or are you looking for a solo male for a threesome? All the above is possible.
Make sure that you indicate if you or your partner is straight, bi-curious or fully bi-sexual. Discuss any parameters you will or will not do, such as; believe it or not, kissing, cumming vaginally, condom use or do they engage in anal sex. You do not want to have a problem after the party begins. Beware of the ads that leave the "sexual orientation" box unanswered. Ask if they are bi, they shouldn't be offended.
If you get a reply or you respond to an ad that looks promising, don't plan on sharing plethra of e-mails, 3 or 4 are enough to get a feeling for the other couple. And for goodness sakes be careful exchanging ...be safe and sane, saves a lot of problems later; use your cell number, you can block problems on them.
The first meeting: I will cover that in the next session of "swinging for couples: 102"
tommo
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