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Thoughts of a frustrated hubby
 
Just need a solid place to vent my frustrations, maybe it will be good for me. Not here to debate or argue either, these are my thoughts and frustrations and I am free to have them, thanks.
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Just so......can't even describe it!
Posted:Jul 30, 2012 9:37 am
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2015 10:25 pm
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Here we are again, broken promises of sexual favors from the wife. Does she not get it? She just likes to tease me now with the word "MAYBE". Then when the opportunity arises for MAYBE to happen, MAYBE becomes NO. If I hear MAYBE again I plan on screaming out the door! Just say no and let me be disappointed, but don't say MAYBE in a seductive playful tone then crush me later!

Then to top it off, bitch about perceived flirting, I did not think I was, with the babysitter! All because she knows she is doing NOTHING for me in the bedroom, she gets super jealous of EVERYTHING. I can only chase her so much.

Maybe that is my mistake. For me, being chased and desired makes me feel sexy, puts me into the mood, lol, easy for us guys. But for some reason chasing her and telling her how much I want her, does nothing. And watch out if I tell her my inner desires for raw passionate sex, how I want to go down on her for hours, how I want sex to be a sweaty fun mess.

All the fun we use to have together and now it is taboo to her. So FRUSTRATING!
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Profile views and flirts
Posted:Jul 26, 2012 10:26 am
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2015 10:41 am
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Seriously, why do supposed people from across the country flirt and view profile? I get that it is probably spam trying to get one to upgrade their membership, but maybe they could do more local? lol

For those of you with upgraded memberships, do you get those still? Curious if is only us standard members.
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First post
Posted:Jul 26, 2012 10:10 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2015 10:18 pm
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So here I am, going on 8 plus years of marriage, almost 10 years of being together. And sex was awesome the first year, best I had and all I could ask for! Then a switch went off in her and for the last 8 plus years it has been dismal.

I love my wife, she is my best friend, but I need more than a best friend. I need a lover, passion, lust. I need to FUCK multiple times a week! I need someone to want me as mush as I crave them! I need someone to masturbate just thinking about me again.

That is how she was, it was what made me fall in love all those years ago. My sex drive is worse now than when I was a horny !

I miss foreplay, oral action, risking being caught in public places, not caring if are awake, miss whenever and wherever!

Three incredible keep me here. The desire and hope she will turn that switch back on keep me here. Although the last few months I feel like the switch is permanently broken.

Starting to question if this is what I want? At my age, I need to look long term, and not sure this is healthy for us, or the . I never thought I'd be a cheater, but here I am on this sight looking for a FWB to let me be me, let me enjoy sex again, lol, have sex again.

I love FUN sex, sex where we are sweating like it is 110 out and no wind! Sex where we are all over the place, frantic to keep things going and turn one another on more! I had it once, and miss it so much.

Anyways, that is it, small intro to my thoughts, at least for today.
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