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Posted:Aug 8, 2012 5:10 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2014 2:27 pm
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Well.
While it is difficult to send a mail on here, especially for those who, like myself, are standard members, I have noted that it is possible to respond to blogs.
Therefore, this post has been set so that only I can see responses.
if there is anything you'd like to say to me, no matter who you are, that you don't want others to read, please, say it here.
a few words of advice though... if you're offerring services, or just want to insult me, you may be banned on sheer principle.
constructive criticism is fine, insults are not.
so... get in touch, would love to hear what people have to say.
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Posted:Aug 8, 2012 5:49 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2013 12:46 pm
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For those who cannot read my profile, I think it is only fair that i blog it here.
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So... i have tried the basic method, talking about myself, my likes and dislikes and the such, that has got me exactly nowhere fast.
so...
A challenge.
Below are some song lyrics. Name the songs. Not necessarily the artists, as some have been covered more than once...
Through Autumn's golden gown we used to kick our way
You always loved this time of year
Those fallen leaves lie undisturbed now
Cause you're not here
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Stop me... I find myself believing
A story gets rewritten so a blasphemy's permitted once again
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In time or so I'm told
I'm just another soul for sale... oh, well
The page is out of print
We are not permanent
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oh yeah, we meet again
it's like we never left
time in between was just a dream
did we leave this place?
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There is no pain, you are receding
A distant ship smoke on the horizon
You are only coming through in waves
Your lips move but I can't hear what you're saying
There we go. 5 songs.... Let's see how many you can get right
One rule... NO GOOGLE.
My Ideal Person: My ideal match??
that is a difficult question.....
Generally someone with a sense of humour, some uniqueness to their personality and who can hold a decent conversation....
Finally... someone who is not put off by me being a bit of a metal-nerd .... I know I'm an oddity, but I find that most of the interesting people in the world are, in some way, odd.
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So... if you're in basingstoke...
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Posted:Aug 22, 2013 11:25 pm
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2015 2:15 pm
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If you are in basingstoke, and want to meet me, or at least see me in person, but don't want the hassle or worry of arranging a meet...
There is a safe and simple alternative.
I work at the local Primark.
Come in between 4 and 7 on a weekday evening, I'll be there.
Upstairs.
Usually on the tills.
Edit :
Hours have now changed.
11 until 3, weekdays.
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Basingstoke. Such a boring little town.
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Posted:Aug 10, 2013 6:09 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 10:42 am
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So.
The time has come for me to consider why I'm still in this tiny little town. Very few prospects for advancement while I stay here, and my friends mostly reside up in Leicester or the surrounding towns.
It is now just a case of finding new employment up there, and therein lies the problem.
Leicester has 2 universities, that means a lot of cheap workers as they're mostly 17 or 18 when they start their courses.
The minimum wage increases at 21... so, there's a hurdle.
Still... seeking and hoping. I'm sure something will come up soon. Then it's back up there.
Maybe i'll have more luck meeting people up that way too. even those who are from basingstoke on here seem to have no wish to meet others from this town.
which is a shame, some of those who are from this town are stunningly attractive AND seem to have a working brain. That is a rare combination.
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so... a simple question.
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Posted:Nov 3, 2012 11:38 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 10:42 am
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Are there any ladies out there, reading blogs, who are looking for a little fun in the south of the UK and are willing to travel?
While I do live in hope, it's seeming less and less likely as time goes by.
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So, Ladies....
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Posted:Aug 16, 2012 2:24 pm
Last Updated:Dec 15, 2013 4:17 am
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Just a simple question this time....
though i'm guessing it's not as simple as i'd hoped... lol
What is it that you are looking for from a guy on here?
friendship?
sex?
relationship?
drinking buddy?
a mixture?
The burning question inside the mind of most of the guys on here is a simple one, and not the most attractive of thoughts either...
'Did i do or say something wrong?'
still... we live in hope.
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Observations.
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Posted:Aug 9, 2012 2:45 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2013 1:38 pm
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So.. time for a few observations i guess.
i mean if i'm going to blog, i should do it on a reasonably common basis, right? 
First of all, it has come to my attention that the site's activity monitor apparently lies.
several female members who i have contacted on IMC have said that they have not checked out my profile before i contacted them, when i initially made contact due to the site telling me they had.
this is somewhat irritating, as it has left me a little disappointed on more than one occasion.
on a related note, ladies, this is a heartfelt plea, if you are not interested, please don't just ignore us poor guys who try to contact you, I know it might be a small amount of hassle, but please, just respond with something along the lines of 'sorry, but i'm not interested' or 'sorry, i'm looking for something else'.
on a lighter note, today, while at work, i was chatting to a customer during a sale, some gorgeous 20-something woman with a beautiful accent and long auburn hair... we were both flirting shamelessly, (to the point where one of the new till ops was blushing... poor ,) which was fun... things were definitely becomming interesting.. and she had bought over £200 worth of clothes by the end, (you have to consider that i work in a primark store here.)
As i finished ringing everything through the till, and got to the point where she was paying, she said i was one of the nicest people she'd met in her visit, and it was a shame she was going back to new zealand tomorrow.....
outwardly, i smiled and said that 'at least we'd had an interesting talk while she shopped' ... inwardly i vehemently agreed. such is life, things can be interesting, good or terrible and it can all happen in the course of a 20 minute chat with a stranger.
Thought for the day.
I know how centrifugal force works and the earth spins at approximately 1000 miles per hour, right? so why DO we stick to the planet?
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Gravity... it's a good thing.
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Another rant.
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Posted:Aug 4, 2012 8:24 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2013 1:38 pm
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I have some issues with certain people who use these sites.
now, firstly, it's not the people i dislike, and it's not their orientation or status either....
it's simply this.
if you are not female, don't make a profile that says you are.
since joining these sites i have seen men, couples, groups, TVs and TGs all with female profiles.
there are the options to choose each of the above when making a profile for a reason.
Those of you who have done that which i have described above are technically 'falsely representing' yourselves.
or to be a little more direct and blunt about it, You Are Lying.
this rant is not simply for my own benefit either, you do realise that you'll get a lot more luck by advertising yourself as you truly are, than lying about it and pissing people off.. right?
I can but hope that this message reaches people, anyone really... if even one person changes their profile to the correct type after reading this, then it is worth it.
for the rest of you wonderful people who have chosen the correct 'i am' when making your profile. congratulations and good luck with your search on here.
Stay frosty and stay safe people.
-Dave
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Luck... and then it's loss
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Posted:Aug 4, 2012 8:16 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2013 1:38 pm
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So.. Good news. Discreet Gay Dating works.
I recently met someone via the site, and had a little over a week of fun with them.
while i would have preferred it to last longer, i guess things don't always work out...
still. i learned a few things about myself.
the first requires a direct and depressing admission from myself. Before the recent meet with a female Discreet Gay Dating member, i'd not had sex for over 5 years....
The problem there lies in my total lack of social grace.
anyway.. onwards...
the things i learned are as follows...
learning the theory behind cunnilingus and fingering is a good thing... apparently when you can make your partner orgasm more than once without even taking your cock out of your underwear, you're doing something right.
secondly, while over 5 years of sexual inactivity can cause your body to forget what a woman feels like, hearing your partner tell you that they think your manhood is too wide for them is the kind of compliment that leaves you feeling great for days at a time.
Now that it is over, i hope to find someone new, either on the internet, or in this little town.
next time though, there is one thing i will have to ensure... the person i meet will be either single, or have their partner's permission...
worrying that their partner might find out an hurt them or you can cause issues in the bedroom department.
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another thought....
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Posted:Jul 8, 2010 5:30 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2013 1:38 pm
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is there something about me that scares people??
at work over the past week i have had 3 people near enough jump out of their skin when i said hi... and on here... people seem to take one look at me and run for the hills
meh....
perhaps those of us who are just looking for fun, on a site aimed directly at us are somehow missing the point of it all..
:S
thought for the day:
The past is gone, leave it behind.
The future is not yet written, worrying about it will get you nowhere.
Now... today... this moment.. that is a gift, why do you think they call it the present.
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i have always wondered.....
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Posted:Jun 29, 2010 5:32 am
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2011 7:50 am
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why the hell do so many single guys sign up on these sites as a couple??
it's rather irritating for those of us who are seriously looking for some fun or more, when most of the other users are either fake ir at least mis-representing themselves.
grrrr
bah.. rant over
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